Popular songs often appear in a lyric "love and hate is in an instant", so love a person, hate a person, is it really like a lightning bolt, a blink of an eye kung fu will go and come? How did this moment come about, and what kind of feeling was it?
Since we are talking about love and hate, let's briefly talk about love and hate (this article only talks about love and hate between men and women), and then talk about the moment. Love is the abbreviation of love, Xinhua dictionary of love is explained as "the love between men and women", it is very clear, the so-called love, is two people's business, not unrequited love, nor a person's "love at first sight", can produce love this kind of affection, indicating that two people at least familiar with each other, and interact with each other for a period of time, this is the basis for love. If you don't believe it, you can casually find a stranger with a good feeling, say "I love you" to her or him, try it, and return to your "neuropathy" is considered light, and when you encounter a big temper, you will be beaten up if you don't make a good fuss. Hate is what it is, hate and love, in essence, is the same thing, there is no love where there is hate, hate is largely because of love, but hate is not completely equal to love, the scope of hate is greater than love, hate is born of love, and because of love and expand, because you do not love me, so I hate you, hate you do not love me, also hate you bring me harm, bring me loss, bring me ... In short, when you don't love, you hate more things.
After clarifying the origin of love and hate, the basis of love and hate for a moment is also clear, and the source is because of love. How did this moment come about? The moment of love, it is probably that you like a person, this person just does not hate you, in the process of getting along, a moment, the urgency of each other's inner pursuit and needs, just collided together, love, in such a moment came. The moment of hatred is probably because you adhere to the principle of love, the principle of being a person, the principle of doing things, the person you love and care about the most, the person you think is the most unlikely to be trampled in your heart, ruthlessly trampled, and hatred will strike in an instant.
The moment of love, beautiful, a moment you seem to have more than each other, but the whole world, and even the whole universe, that kind of happiness, will make you feel that you are a king who conquers the world, you will be omnipotent, omnipotent, this feeling urges the heart, pulls the muscles, controls the mind, you completely forget how to control yourself, let this feeling sing and dance in your body, joy can not be suppressed. At this moment, even if you put the sweetest honey juice in the world in your mouth, you may feel bitter.
Hatred strikes instantly, and it is like the moment of love upside down, you will feel the whole world collapse, as if you have become the most pitiful, powerless, lonely person in this world, no one understands, no one supports, lose her or him, you lose the whole world, lose all courage, even if she gives you another moment of love, it will not help, the world will not be rebuilt.
throat! throat! Oh shit!, start talking about the right thing! How love and hate come about in an instant, what kind of feeling is actually not important, what is important is that I want to tell those who love each other, those who have hatred in their hearts! The topic --- change - heavy... Love and hate will of course arise in an instant, but love is not a matter of an instant, to keep a love, need to operate, not to go with the flow, since love, just love, the less the number of love, the higher the degree of happiness, the rarity is precious, the longer the moment of love, the happier you will be. As for hate, it is a matter of a moment, after a while, if this moment is excessively elongated, you may no longer have love, nor will you love again, or even will not be loved, why bitter, life is short, love is love, do not let your life "love and hate intertwined people haggard".
The above is purely non-professional analysis, only represents personal views, can be referred to, can not be fully trusted.