Everything was the best arranged
2021.9.6——2022.1.7
Majored in social work at Fujian Medical University
Intern - Yang Peiyun
From the selection of the internship site at the school to the end of the internship now, it has been a total of 7 months. The process of 7 months changed me, and it was a kind of epiphany of body, mind, society, and spirit.
These seven months are like fate to push myself forward, and the 4 months of the charity internship also made me realize:
True freedom is an attitude of pushing the rolled-down self upwards from below
During the four months of the charity internship, I traveled back and forth between the office and the hospital, came into contact with different families, and saw people and things that had never been written in books, which made me feel life and death again, and all of this was the return of life's compassion.
Influence life with life
I remember the first time I raised money for the family that applied for help, and went to the hospital to sign a confirmation letter with the parents. I realized that this was not a simple signing confirmation, that this mother was not only financially difficult when her child suddenly fell ill, but also needed emotional support, and someone could give her a hug and encouragement.
That day she came downstairs wearing only a thin layer of clothing, the clouds dimmed and dimmed as she told her story, and her hand held me as warm as her love for her children...
The internship ended with a farewell to the parent.
This is the meaning of the existence of social workers, and it has become the force that I will move forward.
To move forward, we must not shrink back.
Feel each other's sincerity
"To maintain certain professional boundaries" is a phrase often read in social work textbooks.
"Thanks to the encounter, the three lives are fortunate" is a sentence given to us by a parent.
This beam of stars sent on Thanksgiving day became a beautiful scenery in the ward.
In the course of two months with a family, we have cared and supported us like relatives.
The long-awaited birthday party of the "Tiger Rabbit Alliance".
This is the case with the most beautiful relationship in the world, we get each other's reflection and progress in communication and discussion, and we also feel each other's sincerity and unconditional acceptance.
Face the power of darkness
If you want to really help others, you must strengthen your own strength.
At the same time, don't be a "blind person of the sun", and actively build your own system to better help them.
I still remember what Zheng Hao, director of the Department of Hematology of Fujian Medical University, said:
"Maybe we're not strong enough right now, but we should do what we can do."
Director Zheng Hao answered questions for the families of the children on the live broadcast of the association.
"I try to be a career with goals, but I don't think I'm great, even if I have a great ideal in my heart, in the process of practicing my ideal, I may fail many times." 」 I don't have the ability to control and change others, but I will sow seeds, I will wait, I will brew. I also hope that heaven and earth will work with me until one day the fire is enough and I can rejoice in the harvest with the client. ”
--Zhao Huan
Forever young, always in tears
The social work industry is often ridiculed as "generating electricity for love", and doing public welfare is more highly evaluated by this. During the internship process, I often wondered how the association has developed so far, relying on a single passion?
Cute replies from children.
At the same time, the process of public welfare development will be constantly questioned, and for the first time, I will be asked "Why do you want to work as a social worker?" What is the significance of your profession? "I didn't know how to answer for a while, lamenting my lack of knowledge, but also feeling an inexplicable force, especially the blood that flows through the association now after it really participates in practical work, when I come into contact with everyone in the real world, and the goal of social work professional development is to be able to eliminate itself."
In the first month of my internship at the association, I felt:
It was the first secretary-general Lin Bin (current vice president) carrying a small school bag into the office with great enthusiasm;
It is the moment when the shortbread sister and the children video chat will make people love a little;
It's the time when medical social workers are busy preparing birthday parties for children...
In my opinion, there is a student spirit in them.
I took pictures for us when vice president Lin Bin and I went to visit the children for the first time.
In the past, I always thought that student spirit was a derogatory term, referring to simple childishness and unworldly affairs, but during the internship stage, I realized the preciousness of this spirit.
How to maintain a student spirit?
Student spirit refers to being naïve, curious, eager to learn about the world, and passionate about new changes. The development of society toward sociology, making every effort to read new books and learn new skills, which will make people's spirits particularly fresh.
"Yi" children's market group photo souvenir.
And how do you keep it loving? Today's society is very devoid of social feelings. We do not lack family and friendship, but in the face of the stranger environment in the workplace, the feelings we have are uncertain.
And to do something requires temperature,
We can feel it in the public welfare of the poor.
Xiao Li, a small reporter who participated in the "Between You and Me" "Sheep and Sheep Image Voice Group", recorded the first photographic notes.
The hospital room is hung with a warm photo wall, which can be seen as soon as you look up.
The first time I met Yan Yan in the hospital, I happily exchanged photos. What is the world like in the eyes of children? This also inspired me to start a photography group.
Happy swallow after putting on Christmas socks.
The "Tiger Rabbit Alliance" that will always be together.
After the LEGO house was built, we had a grand ribbon-cutting ceremony.
"Between You and Me" Sheep and Sheep Image VocalIzation Group carried out ten sessions of indoor theory + outdoor practical activities
Images sound, record life, feel you and me.
Last day of 2021 with the photography team.
In the handicraft class on the last day of the internship, the children wrote down on the drawing board.
Our story, to be continued...
However, I still think about it from time to time
When I first came to the association, I was greeted by the words:
"Do what you can, care for every bit."