When love comes, carefully guard love, feel the ignorance and palpitations, love that shyness and heartbeat, reminisce about the feeling of holding flowers until the palms of your hands sweat, that situation is too crazy, passionate, maybe only meet true love will be so unforgettable.
I once thought that love can take root as long as it is in love, and although the two feelings are perfect, they are also the sweet visions in love, but in the materialistic society, how realistic love is, involving personal factors, family factors, and social factors. Young men and women are too sensitive to the topic of love, decision-making is often too emotional, pay attention to the surface of sending flowers to hold hands, passionate romance, but ignore whether they are compatible with each other's personalities, whether they can be willing to share, if they only care about wishful thinking to love, they will only pay a heavy price.
Love is like a double-edged sword, the key is to see the heart of the person holding the sword. Otherwise, it will only hurt others and hurt yourself. Men pay you sincerely, will have these 4 performances in front of you, women don't understand!
1, men have paid for you sincerely and will respect your decision
Because I cherish you and am more responsible for love. No matter what you want to do, what you like, he will support you unconditionally, ask why, just because of love.
When women treat love, they like to be slow and rational, enjoying the process of loving and being loved, and slowly heating up step by step, while men are generally fiery and want to quickly possess you and conquer you.
At this time, if you don't want to go to the next stage with him so quickly, you can euphemistically say to him, "I am a very serious person for love, and I hope to walk with you for the rest of my life." But now, our relationship has not reached this stage, and I don't want to be so hasty. If you really love me, then let's get along for a while. If we are really suitable, I will give you the best of myself. ”
If the man who truly loves you, he will be slightly embarrassed, and the look in his eyes reveals a firm saying: "Well, I promise you." "And no longer grind hard with you, pleading with this and begging that." In the days that follow, no matter what decision you make, he will silently support you and respect you.
2, men pay for you sincerely, will not be physical purposes
If a man is really in love with you, his attitude towards love is very cautious, afraid of "passing by" you because of his own little mistakes.
Every time he goes on a date with you, he will be extremely nervous, usually when he is dashing and free, but in front of you " failure " , appear to be cowering, the brain is blank.
As long as he truly loves you, he will do his homework and learn everything about you through various means, understand your personality, educational background, family background, hobbies, living habits and so on.
Only because of the value of love for you. As a man, he will try his best to restrain the fire of his desires. Maybe your heart is also full of passion, countless reverie and man's entanglement, waiting for his initiative. But you will doubt, and even be disappointed, he does not seem to be so impulsive about you, just silently caring for you and pampering you. In fact, such love is true love.
3, men pay for you sincerely, will not hide
Some men have a rich emotional life, hiding a lot of secrets, there are a few ambiguous female colleagues at work, a few girls who can talk about it when socializing, and a few female classmates with good relations in the same window... They often interact with each other and will say some sweet and ambiguous love words.
In such a situation, men will definitely be more resistant to letting the other half know their own lives. However, a man who truly loves you, he wants to stay with you, he will only urgently swear his own unity in front of you, and he will not care that women want to understand all aspects of his life.
Because often this kind of person does not have any privacy except for career and normal socializing, it will be more authentic in front of the beloved woman. Therefore, a man can show his truest self in front of you, indicating that he only has you in his eyes and heart.
4, men pay for you sincerely, and begin to suffer from gain and loss
Love is a wonderful thing, sometimes it is reassuring, sometimes it is difficult to be at ease.
A lot of men seem to be very comfortable with love. When you see other men being bruised because of love, you will feel incredible, thinking that men should not be trapped by love, but this is only because he has not yet met his true love.
When a man encounters true love, he will also become no longer calm, and he will also become a stupid boy who once spoke of him, suffering from loss for love, and for love, he began to become less fond of freedom and self. Indeed, after men meet true love, they will also worry that women will leave themselves, so they will become suffering from gain and loss, and always want to determine the woman's intentions.
So, two people together, whether the man really loves himself or not, depends on whether he is afraid of your departure. If he would often ask you something like "Do you love me?" "It feels like you don't love me anymore!" And other similar problems, and it is particularly easy to be jealous, that means that you are his true love, cherish it!
In love, that kind of sea oath mountain alliance can not withstand the beating of the years, that can only be a short rhetoric.
When you have loved, crying, laughing, and hurting, and two people can still know each other, fall in love, and love each other, and finally you decide to be together for a long time, that is the moment you get true love.
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