For a long time, many people have such a doubt, why do actor Song Jia's name always add a "small". Although there are also large and small TaoHong in the film and television circle, one is "red" and the other is "rainbow", which is still very well distinguished.
And "Song Jia" does have two people, in addition to the little Song Jia who is now active in the circle, there is also a big Song Jia who was once the top of the eighties and nineties. And her name deserves a "big" word in front of it, because in real life, she has properly lived herself as a big heroine.
Not long ago, some netizens met the big Song Jia in Belgium, and song Jia, who is 59 years old this year, is in a very good state, and she can't see what kind of ups and downs she has experienced, living a dashing and happy life.
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Remember discussing with a friend before, if the person you love likes to do, you don't like it, will you let him do it? I replied that I was unwilling, she asked again, but don't you love him, you should tolerate him. I said that loving yourself is more important.
The next thing my friend said was, "Then you are selfish." "I told her it wasn't called selfishness, it was just self-interest. If I'm not hurting others, why don't I think about my feelings, and loving myself is the most important thing.
And Song Jia is such a person who "loves herself", she has always been very clear about her goal of moving forward, and focused on achieving the goal.
When Song Jia was 21 years old, she was still a student in the theater, and her classmates were busy with their homework, but she was already paving the way for the future.
After doing her homework in a good class, Song Jia will take some commercial performance activities in her free time, perform, or do hosting, which lays a good foundation for her to enter Tianjin Satellite TV.
At one point, she was in charge of hosting a gala. In other words, her classmates may have been nervous and overwhelmed. But Song Jia is already very experienced, and after the whole party, she is like a fish.
You know, there must be a lot of big people at the satellite TV party, but Song Jia is not afraid of the stage, and even wants to get the contact information of a big senior, that is, Zhang Xuejin, a famous actor in Peking Opera.
After watching Zhang Xuejin's performance, Song Jia suddenly became admired, and went directly to the backstage to send flowers to the other party, and also asked Zhang Xuejin's phone number to be in hand.
Later, Song Jia also boldly called Zhang Xuejin and invited him to meet. Zhang Xuejin invited Song Jia to his home as a guest, and her family was also very enthusiastic about her, and Song Jia's love for Zhang Xuejin increased by a few points.
After a period of time, the two often communicated, and zhang Xuejin also had feelings for Song Jia. And Song Jia took the initiative to show her heart, and the two fell in love.
Song Jia and Zhang Xuejin decided to marry less than three months after falling in love, and before that, Zhang Xuejin had a marriage, and he was exactly 21 years older than Song Jia.
Many people say that Zhang Xuejin's old cow eats tender grass, but more people think that Song Jia's motives are not pure. However, Song Jia completely ignored these gossip and only lived her life with her husband in a down-to-earth manner.
However, song jia and Zhang Xuejin are together, is it really just because of love? I'm afraid it's not, love is there, but this love contains Song Jia's greater expectations for her future, and she needs to open up a broad road.
In this regard, Zhang Xuejin can help her, not only to open the way for her, but also to warn her how to take her own path. Therefore, for Song Jia, Zhang Xuejin is a lover and a good teacher.
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If Song Jia married Zhang Xuejin for fame and fortune, she could have stayed at home to meet her husband and teach her children and be her celebrity wife. However, Song Jia did not, and her goal was never to be a housewife who got by.
Soon after the marriage, Song Jia received the scripts of "The Gold Rush" and "Frog Girl", both of which invited her to be the heroine. Song Jia, who has always wanted to be a good actor, finally has the opportunity to emerge.
Just when her career was developing rapidly, Song Jia found herself pregnant, and if she really only wanted fame and fortune, she would inevitably be ambitious, preferring to give up her children rather than work. But she withdrew from the curtain, gave birth to the child and took care of the child until she was 1 year old before making a comeback.
Song Jia's first film on the set was "Deep in the Courtyard", for which she won the Hundred Flowers Award for Best Actress. The next year, she won the crown of the Queen of Hundred Flowers with "Falling Mountain Wind".
But since then, Song Jia has not taken on a Qiong Yao film, because she is afraid that she will limit her own drama path. It has to be mentioned that Song Jia has only acted in dramas for so many years, and has not filmed an advertisement. She said that she wanted to be the actor with the best reputation.
It can also be seen from this that Song Jia is very clear about her life goals, and her vision is very long-term, not the kind of self-interest that is above all the small profits in front of her.
Just when Song Jia reached the peak of her career, something unfortunate happened. The daughter overturned the hot pot, which burned her husband Zhang Xuejin's foot, but Zhang Xuejin needed to perform on stage less than a week later, but his foot was scalded.
In desperation, Zhang Xuejin went to the hospital for help, and the plasma transfusion reduced swelling. Unexpectedly, this package of plasma actually carried hepatitis C virus, and Zhang Xuejin was also infected with hepatitis.
Song Jia immediately threw away all her work and took her husband abroad for treatment. But a year later, the two announced their divorce. For a time, the public criticized Song Jia, believing that she was too snobbish and abandoned her sick husband.
Song Jia, who continued to return to the workplace after the divorce, wanted to devote herself wholeheartedly to her career, but she did not expect that her career would also encounter obstacles. She shot a "Widow's Ten Days" and was the only domestic film to be selected for the Cannes Film Festival and the Montreal Film Festival that year.
Song Jia originally wanted to use this film for three times, but she did not expect that the film was actually banned. Song Jia's body and mind were greatly affected by this, and for a while, she did not shoot any more works.
Fortunately, her psychology was still very strong, and she quickly walked out. Although she will not appear in film and television dramas for the time being, she can continue to explore her potential on the road of film and television dramas.
Song Jia chose to study at Yale University in the United States to study screenwriting and film and television production. Three years later, she returned to China after completing her studies, and did not immediately devote herself to film and television work, but became one of the first Internet entrepreneurs in China.
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Song Jia's first drama to fight back into the film and television circle was "Sister-in-law", and the script was based on a true story about a rural woman. Song Jia was touched by this story and immediately decided to serve as a producer and starring, and this TV series also won the Feitian Award for Outstanding Actress for Song Jia, and Song Jia returned to the peak.
Seven years later, the 40-year-old Song Jia won the "Audience's Favorite Actress Award" and the "Most Popular Award" at the Chinese Television Golden Eagle Awards for Mrs. Toast in the TV series "The Dust Has Settled".
Despite her numerous awards, criticism has always existed. For many years, people still scoffed at her chaotic love history. He had abandoned his sick husband before, and later hooked up with a husband with a wife.
The director of "Sister-in-law" is Yu Min, during the shooting, Yu Min and Song Jia often frowned, and Yu Min at that time was a family person.
And for the sake of Song Jia, he did not hesitate to divorce his wife, and he entangled for three years before the divorce lawsuit ended. Surprisingly, Yu Min successfully divorced, and Song Jia also held the Feitian Trophy, but Song Jia resolutely broke up with Yu Min.
After dumping Yu Min, Song Jia and the businessman Cai Cheng spread a scandal. It is said that it is also because of this layer of relationship that Song Jia can successively appear in TV series such as "Beiping Past", "Deep Love of the Earth", "Sui and Tang Dynasties" and so on.
But this relationship did not last long, and what is more curious is that after Song Jia and Cai Cheng broke up, Song Jia actually gave birth to a son Zhang Shuaishuai at the age of 42, and her father is unknown. The only thing everyone knows is that Song Jia has also loved, and even loved, her son's father.
For more than a decade, Song Jia remained single until the age of 55, when she met her belgian boyfriend, talked about a romantic relationship, and finally cultivated a positive result.
In the end, Song Jia is still a successful woman, first of all, she has won three awards in the Chinese film and television industry, after all, there are not many actors who can cover Hundred Flowers, Feitian and Golden Eagle.
Secondly, although her love history is chaotic and unbearable, feelings are not the ultimate meaning and value of a person, but learning from feelings and becoming a better self.
In this regard, Song Jia has also done it, she is not unloving those former lovers, she is also fully committed, but she is very clear that if she wants to achieve happiness in her heart, she must first focus on her goals.
Perhaps many people will reduce Song Jia to "scumbag" because she is too selfish, but in the end, we still have to reiterate that Song Jia is more "self-interested", but her fierceness makes her look a little cold. However, who does not envy such a song jia who is loyal to himself?
* Author: Flower Spray, unknown Internet celebrity after 90, find interesting with pen and ink, talk about sensibility with reason, do not catch horses or chicken soup.