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Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

Wang Near the Mountain

preface

When Li Yunlong is mentioned, wang jinshan is thought of, and one of the prototypes of Li Yunlong is Wang Jinshan.

As a founding general who had made many military achievements in the revolutionary war years and made great achievements after the founding of New China, Wang Jinshan's life was full of legends, especially his life full of personality, and it was not an exaggeration to describe Wang Jinshan as "untamed and courageous". However, Wang Jinshan's temper is famous among many founding generals, and because of this temper, Wang Jinshan finally accepted a little lesson.

In 1964, Wang Jinshan was sent to Huangpan District Farm in Xihua County, Zhoukou District, Henan Province, as a deputy director. Wang Jinshan was punished quite seriously this time, not only was he expelled from public office, but also expelled from the party, and the cause of the incident had a lot to do with Wang Jinshan's wife, Han Xiuyan.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

Wang Jinshan, Han Xiuyan and the eldest son

Wang Jinshan and Han Xiuyan met in the years of the revolutionary war, and gradually developed feelings, in December 1937 Wang Jinshan was wounded in the Battle of Shentouling, transferred to the 129th Division Hospital when he met Han Xiuyan, when Han Xiuyan was a nurse in the hospital, has always had the reputation of "hospital flower". What is even more rare is that Han Xiuyan is a family revolution, transporting a lot of medical equipment for the 129th Division. Not only that, with Han Xiuyan's talent, there were also many people who pursued it at that time, but after Wang Jinshan arrived at the hospital, the president Cai Xinzhong arranged for Han Xiuyan to take care of it, and the two came and went to have feelings, and the two were happily married under the mediation of Chen Xilian.

Even in the war years, Wang Jinshan and Han Xiuyan gathered less and more, but the days were still very happy and sweet, and the two had 8 children after marriage.

Logically, the two should not go to the road of divorce, according to Wang Jinshan's daughter Wang Yuanyuan recalled, the husband and wife themselves have a very deep feeling, but both of them belong to the strong personality, belong to the kind that can not be ignored, so it led to the husband and wife later parting ways.

Give your daughter away in one sentence

Wang Yuanyuan is the daughter of Wang Jinshan, born in the winter of 1953. There are many children in Wang Jinshan, and Wang Yuanyuan should have enjoyed the favor of her parents like ordinary people, but unexpectedly, Wang Yuanyuan was not yet born, and her fate was arranged in advance by her father.

It turned out that soon after Wang Jinshan returned from the Korean battlefield, Wang Yuanyuan was passed on to his old comrade-in-arms Zhu Tiemin.

Zhu Tiemin is Wang Jinshan's driver, although the two have huge differences in positions, but they are like brothers in life and death, it should be pointed out that the reason why the two have formed such a deep friendship is actually related to Wang Jinshan.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

Mr. and Mrs. Zhu Tiemin

According to Wu Dongfeng's "Anecdotes of the Founding General", such a story was recorded: Wang Jinshan had a fiery personality and was impatient to drive. In the spring of 1947, Wang Jinshan took a car to a certain place, the road encountered an ice and snow landslide, the driver was afraid of danger and did not dare to drive forward, but at the urging of Wang Jinshan, the driver had to go forward with a hard scalp, and the result was overturned on the muddy road, both of them were not lightly injured, so Wang Jinshan chose the driver extra seriously, the most critical one is that the technology must be excellent.

Zhu Tiemin only joined the People's Liberation Army in April 1949, during the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, he drove on the Burma Highway to the front line to transport materials, the technical means of driving have no words, after joining the People's Liberation Army at the end of the Liberation War, he entered Wang Jinshan's 12th Army, because of his good driving skills, he was appreciated by Wang Jinshan, and later drove all the way to the Korean battlefield, and because of his excellent technology, Zhu Tiemin took Wang Jinshan several times to drill mountains and mountains, and participated in countless big battles and vicious battles.

Before the Battle of Shangganling, Wang Jinshan and his friend Zhu Tiemin walked to the headquarters together, and the two of them talked heart-to-heart while walking on the road, and Wang Jinshan said with deep feeling: "Old Zhu, you are my leg, although you have not won the medal, but you are an unsung hero ..."

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

The Battle of Shangganling was commanded by Wang Jinshan (left).

The two were talking, Wang Jinshan suddenly asked Zhu Tiemin if he had any wishes, he wanted to help him realize, but Zhu Tiemin at first frankly said that there was no wish, but under the urging of Wang Jinshan, Zhu Tiemin said his thoughts, it turned out that he and his wife had been married for many years, but there were no children, the two had always wanted a child, but Zhu Tiemin because of physical reasons, also led to the two people's desire to have a child can not be realized.

When Wang Jinshan saw this, he immediately said to Zhu Tiemin: "Old Zhu, after I go back, I will find you the best doctor, and if it does not work, I will give you the first child I gave birth to after returning to China, whether it is a boy or a girl." ”

Wang Yuanyuan was born in the winter of 1953, before Wang Jinshan returned, so Wang Yuanyuan was adopted by Wang Jinshan to his old comrade-in-arms Zhu Tiemin, and later changed his name to Zhu Yuanyuan.

Wang Yuanyuan was passed on by this incident, and later became the fuse for the deterioration of the relationship between Han Xiuyan and Wang Jinshan, and the two later had a big fight, and the relationship gradually deteriorated since then.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

Coincidentally, when the relationship between Wang Jinshan and Han Xiuyan gradually deteriorated, an unexpected person inserted between the two of them, and this person was Han Xiurong, Han Xiuyan's sister.

As early as December 1949, Liu Deng's army marched into the southwest, and when Wang Jinshan led the three corps to garrison Chongqing, because he often had to give reports to college students, he got to know Han Xiurong, at that time, although Wang Jinshan was only 34 years old, he was already a general with hundreds of thousands of troops, and what woman did not love heroes? Han Xiurong was immediately infatuated by his brother-in-law, and although the two had a little affection for each other, Wang Jinshan was already a married person after all, so this relationship ended without a problem. After Wang Jinshan returned from the Korean battlefield, due to the deterioration of the relationship between the husband and wife, Wang Jinshan and Han Xiurong's old love rekindled.

After this matter was learned by Han Xiuyan, she was immediately indignant, what she did not expect was that the third party would actually be her sister, in 1963, there was a big fight between Han Xiuyan and Wang Jinshan, and Han Xiuyan submitted a report to the superiors together, hoping that the organization could deal with the problem of her husband's style.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

Wang near the mountain Han Xiuyan

It's just that Han Xiuyan didn't expect that her fierce move did not save the marriage, but let the marriage relationship between the two completely enter a dead end.

"It's better not to make a report, but to sue the central authorities for divorce!"

This divorce case eventually alarmed the central authorities, especially Chairman Mao, in that era, after the army entered the city, some generals often stopped their wives and remarried, and Wang Jinshan was regarded as a typical and severely punished.

Daughter Wang Yuanyuan

Overnight, the family was almost torn apart, and Wang Jinshan went to Henan almost alone, accompanied only by his nanny Huang Shenrong, and the two married in October 1964.

Wang Yuanyuan was passed on to Zhu Tiemin and renamed Zhu Yuanyuan, at first she did not know her own origins, but she also lived a worry-free life. However, Zhu Tiemin's family and Wang Jinshan's family live in the same courtyard, Zhu Tiemin in the front yard, Wang Jinshan in the backyard, the two families can often meet, although Wang Yuanyuan can get the care of two families, but Wang Yuanyuan has almost no good feelings for Wang Jinshan, the reason is that "he is always fierce", no matter how to say that the two families have given Wang Yuanyuan a good childhood.

However, with the increase of age, Wang Yuanyuan later also learned her own lineage, at first she could hardly understand why her parents wanted to do this to her, but also once had a deep hatred, along with the rebellious psychology of adolescence, Wang Yuanyuan often slapped the table to make a tantrum, until she grew up, she slowly understood her parents' approach.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

Wang Yuanyuan once had an article "My Father Crazy General", which carefully recalled the quarrel between her parents in those years.

Almost as long as I can remember, the parents were constantly in the quarrel, and according to the later siblings, a large part of the parents' quarrel was due to her.

"In order to express her resentment toward my father for sending me away, my mother and father began to argue and gamble constantly, and my mother swore that she would never have children again, and she ate musk and used musk because she heard that musk can be contraceptive. Dad and mom are very strong personalities, quarrels are always not giving in to each other, the more noisy the worse, grumpy dad often angry at home "crackling" things down ... . ”

Another reason is because of the noise of dancing.

"Dad likes to dance ballroom dancing, and his mother was also his best dance partner, but after the conflict, his mother no longer accompanied him to dance, and he became more and more disgusted with his father's dancing." She said: "A man and a woman hugging each other, why not jump out of the way?" "Dad has been injured seven times, one leg and one arm have been fractured, and the leather shoes he wears are specially made, one side is 5 centimeters higher than the other, so that he can walk normally. Mom actually used this to taunt Dad: "Don't look at his lame legs, he won't be lame when he dances." ”

Both people are said to "take a step back from the sea and the sky", both people are people with strong self-esteem, and as a result, both sides lose. “

Wang Jinshan was dismissed from his post, and although Han Xiuyan asked for an explanation, it also completely broke her husband's heart, she originally wanted to save the marriage, but the result was contrary to the idea.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

Xiao Yongyin

Wang Jinshan's children followed him to Henan, but lived with Han Xiuyan, and after a few years, Wang Jinshan's affairs finally ushered in a turning point.

While working on a farm in Henan, Wang Jinshan inadvertently saw a report in a newspaper about Xiao Yongyin, commander of the armored corps of his old subordinate Nanjing Military Region. Xiao Yongyin was originally the brigade commander of the old sixth column and a close confidant of Wang Jinshan, and the two later had a little contradiction because of a misunderstanding, thinking of this Wang Jinshan could not help but cry, after so many years, he also had regret for his own behavior in that year.

Wang Jinshan sent his son Wang Yan to the Nanjing Military Region to visit Xiao Yongyin, and by the way put forward his own requirements, hoping that Xiao Yongyin would reflect on his situation upwards.

Xiao Yongyin thought for a while, and he suggested that Wang Jinshan might as well write to Chairman Mao directly and forward it to Xu Shiyou. With the help of Xu Shiyou, Wang Jinshan's letter was finally sent to Chairman Mao, and eventually Xu Shiyou was reinstated as deputy corps and transferred to the Nanjing Military Region as deputy chief of staff.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

You Taizhong

In July 1969, Wang Jinshan and his wife Huang Shenrong rushed to Nanjing by train hard seat, both husband and wife wore a faded military uniform, the two walked out of the Nanjing Railway Station carrying suitcases and local specialties brought from the countryside, but what they did not expect was that the subordinates of the old Sixth Column, You Taizhong, commander of the 27th Army, Li Desheng, commander of the 60th Army, and Xiao Yongyin, commander of the armored corps of the Nanjing Military Region, personally went to the railway station to greet them, and the three of them gave a standard military salute to the veteran commander.

When the news of Wang Jinshan's restoration of treatment reached Beijing, Han Xiuyan was very happy in her heart, and she immediately sent Wang Yuanyuan and her two other daughters, Wang Jinshan, to Nanjing to live with her father, and with the addition of a son and a daughter born to Huang Shenrong, the family was full of warmth.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

Wang Jinshan scolded his daughter bitterly: You must learn to respect the elders

Wang Yuanyuan (Zhu Yuanyuan) later changed her original name under the leadership of her mother Han Xiuyan, for this practice, Zhu Tiemin agreed, although Wang Yuanyuan changed back to her original name, she is still a child belonging to two families.

After arriving in Nanjing, after living with her father for a period of time, Wang Yuanyuan also smoothly joined the army and was transferred to the 12th Army Hospital in Hefei, Anhui Province, as a female soldier, and the 12th Army was originally Wang Jinshan's old unit, which was also considered to be a complete merit.

Although after being transferred to the Nanjing Military Region, there were more things, but Wang Jinshan knew that it was these old comrades-in-arms who gave him face, and some people who were once his subordinates have now become his superiors.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

In 1981, Li Desheng (center), former commander of the 12th Army, Wei Jinshan ( left ) and military commissar Ren Baozong (right)

One day in 1973, Wang Jinshan could not restrain his thoughts of his daughter and rushed to Jinzhai, Anhui Province, to visit Wang Yuanyuan, who had been in the army for many years and was transferred to the medical team to see the local people in Jinzhai, Anhui.

Although Wang Yuanyuan had a lot of resentment towards her father when she was young, as she grew older, she was gradually relieved, and her father's unexpected arrival also made her feel very happy, and there were endless topics between father and daughter, and Wang Yuanyuan also reported some of her situation in the army to her father. However, unexpectedly, Wang Jinshan suddenly became angry during the chat, what is going on?

It turned out that when the father and daughter were chatting, Wang Yuanyuan mentioned Li Desheng, the former commander of the 12th Army and the current commander of the Anhui Military Region, and Wang Yuanyuan thought that she was facing her father, so she pretended to be relaxed in her speech, did not use honorifics, but directly called "Li Desheng".

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

During the Red Army period, Wang Jinshan

Wang Jinshan immediately criticized Wang Yuanyuan: "Li Desheng's name is also your name?" He is your elder, and in the future in front of me, you can only call him Uncle Li. ”

Wang Yuanyuan also did not expect that her father would be so angry, and immediately she was a little aggrieved, immediately stood up and apologized, looking at her daughter with tearful eyes in front of her, Wang Jinshan suddenly softened her heart, he told her daughter: I came from the battlefield with you and your uncle Li, he is your father's comrade-in-arms, but also your elders, you must learn to respect the elders. “

Listening to her father's words, Wang Yuanyuan immediately expressed her approval and promised her father to respect all elders in the future. Wang Jinshan's attitude eased somewhat.

Wang Jinshan really did have enough respect for his old comrades-in-arms. It is worth mentioning that the three brigade commanders under the jurisdiction of the Old Sixth Column, Xiao Yongyin, You Taizhong, and Li Desheng, all ran for Wang Jinshan's affairs and spared no effort, which shows the precious friendship between several of them during the revolutionary war years.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

Han Xiuyan

Take Li Desheng, in 1974 Wang Jinshan suddenly felt unwell at work, and later vomited blood, a check found that it was stomach cancer, Li Desheng was in Beijing at the time, as soon as he heard about this matter, he immediately reflected to his superiors, under the insistence of Li Desheng, Wang Jinshan's treatment has improved, and then Wang Jinshan, because he is unwilling to be hospitalized, returned home to recuperate, Li Desheng personally went to visit, and stopped in front of the bed for more than an hour, until he was later persuaded to sit on the sofa for a while. It was just that Wang Jinshan fell into a coma and could not say a word to Li Desheng anyway, and Li Desheng could only leave disappointed.

In 1978, Wang Jinshan was seriously ill, and his mouth kept shouting "Where is the enemy", and then the younger son said in Wang Jinshan's ear: "It was Uncle Li Desheng who went up", and Wang Jinshan, who was in the hospital bed, was very down-to-earth, and his mouth was chanting: "Li Desheng went up, I can rest assured that I can sleep." ”

Remember your father's education

Wang Jinshan was a native of Huang'an County, Hubei Province (present-day Hong'an County), and due to his relatively poor birth, Wang Jinshan herded cattle for the landlord's family since he was 8 years old, and later worked as a long-term worker. In June 1930, Wang Jinshan joined the Red Army and grew from an ordinary soldier to a general of the Republic, but since then, Wang Jinshan has never had the opportunity to return to his hometown, and it has become a regret in Wang Jinshan's life.

Wang Jinshan visited his daughter in Anhui, and her daughter angered her father with one sentence: You must learn to respect your elders

On May 8, 1998, Wang Yuanyuan set foot on her hometown for the first time, and for this return trip, Wang Yuanyuan described it as "the most important itinerary in her life".

Wang Yuanyuan later recalled that although she had never had the experience of returning to her hometown before, she always had a different kind of emotion for Hong'an County, not only because this was her father's hometown, but more importantly, this place had successively walked out of more than 200 founding generals, for this trip back to her hometown, Wang Yuanyuan also specially called her cousin, and took out 200 yuan to her cousin, hoping to bring a little gift back to her hometown.

The enthusiasm of the people in her hometown made Wang Yuanyuan feel warm, although it has been decades, most of the old people who are familiar with the history of that year have passed away a lot, but the revolutionary friendship that was left behind in that year still exists.

There is also a place, Wang Jinshan regarded as the second hometown, this place is Hefei, Anhui.

Hefei is the location of Wang Jinshan's old troops, so there is a particularly deep affection for this place, including Wang Yuanyuan herself has been a soldier here for many years, most of the commanders, military commanders, and division commanders here were the old subordinates of his father, and every three to five years will come to visit him, and Uncle Li Desheng, who will often bring things in large bags, of course, what Wang Yuanyuan can't forget is that she was criticized and educated by her father here, and she should respect the elders, no matter how many years have passed. These educations should also be kept in mind.

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