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No one's life will be smooth sailing, and people living in this world will always encounter various tribulations. When encountering twists and turns, we hope to meet the noble people in life and help ourselves through the difficulties.
But in fact, we will find that the more difficult those moments, we often carry it alone.
When people are busy, they often can't see the people around them clearly, and they can't see the real situation in front of them. Only after a setback can we truly understand who we can rely on.
Of course, along the way, I have also encountered some warm companionship, but it is only a short journey, those really difficult times, those tears in the dark night, we are all alone to digest and lick the wounds, and then reinvigorate.
We used to think that our parents would be our lifelong dependence, but after a certain stage, our parents have begun to rely on us. Many words cannot be told to them, and they cannot really understand the bitterness in our hearts.
I used to think that friends would be our lifelong reliance. But then everyone was on their own tracks, just to cope with their own lives, they were already overwhelmed, how could they have spare energy to take care of others.
In the past, I always felt that my strength alone was too weak, and I underestimated my courage to face difficulties, but I slowly found that I had unlimited energy in my heart, and every time I felt that I could not carry it, it finally became a joke of the past.
Life is hard, and every stage has bigger obstacles than ever before. It's like climbing a peak, the more you go up, the more you will feel exhausted, but it doesn't matter, you can meet the sea and the sky after surviving.
Life is really hard, you can't rely on anyone, only self-crossing, is the way out.
Life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten, and everyone is not easy
People live in this world, and it is not easy for everyone. Even those who look bright and beautiful, they have had a heartache that is difficult for others to understand, they have also had a low point, and they will not reach the ideal height at the beginning.
We often only see our own heartache, and what we see is the brilliance of others. I can't help but compare myself with others, so that I feel more secretly sad.
But in fact, fate is fair to a certain extent, and there is no absolute preference for a certain person, there may be people with better births than us, but on the road of life they will definitely not encounter less bumps than us.
Those who succeeded, they all went through hardships and obstacles before they finally survived. Each flower has also survived countless late nights before it blooms, but it is just that others can't see it.
You've been working overtime all night and you've been complaining about yourself, and many people may have been spinning for days. You are suffering from baldness for a project, and many people may not even find the path they want to take, and are still confused about the future they can't see.
Who in this world doesn't work hard? Everyone is struggling to survive. It's just that the paths we choose are different and the difficulties we encounter are different. There is no profession that is superior, and there is no job that is not hard. Don't just stare at the bright side of others, and don't just stare at the difficulties and obstacles you encounter. Seeing through the difficulties of life, it is still willing to work hard for life is what we should do.
There is no way back in life, you can only bury your head and move forward
I have seen such a question and answer on the Internet: What should I do if I encounter a low point in my life?
Someone answered below and moved on.
The sky will be rainy and there will be clear skies. The same is true on the road of life, there are muddy twists and turns, and there will be a smooth road.
No one's life path has always been smooth, and no one has been going downhill all the time. If you have encountered setbacks, you will be lucky, and if you have encountered wind and rain, there will be a day when you encounter a rainbow.
There is a song that sings: The sun is always after the wind and rain, please believe that there is a rainbow.
After surviving the night, you will definitely see the sun, and after experiencing the darkness, you will definitely encounter the light.
There is no way back in life, and every step is counted. No matter what kind of crying you experienced last night, the sun will still rise on the second day, and life will continue to move forward. Time doesn't stop because of someone, we can only bury our heads and continue to move forward.
Everything ahead is unknown, and when we have not experienced it, we have no way of predicting what will happen in front of us. Only by keeping walking will you be able to get to where you want to go.
Don't think about escaping, there is no way to solve the problem by escaping, only by facing it directly can you get the answer you want.
After stepping through the thorns, there will always be light, believe in yourself, you must be able to.
No one will be your eternal dependence, only self-transit, there is a way out
No one in this world will make you dependent forever, if you have always placed your hopes on others, then you will never learn to walk independently, and you will never grow up.
Even the people you are close to will have the day they leave you. Even people who think they are strong in your heart will have problems that they can't solve.
We will find that the more time we need the company of others, the more we can't find anyone, and in the end, we are all silently carried by one person.
And many times the difficulties we encounter cannot be replaced by others, and when the needle is stuck in others, others will not know how much pain.
Those difficulties that you feel can't be overcome may seem inconsequential to many people. No one really understands that you've been through a lot of pain, and no one will always be with you and fight alongside you.
Relying on others to help you solve your troubles is impractical after all, and only self-crossing has a way out.
Only if you work hard enough and firmly, and have a long place in your heart, then the whole world will make way for you.
Life is really hard, and from the day we are born, it indicates that we have embarked on an extraordinary road.
There may be many hardships along the way, but there will also be a smooth road, it may be a thorny walk, but it may also be surrounded by sunshine.
Life is a single journey, there is no way back, we can only bury our heads and continue to move forward, no matter what kind of scene you will face in front of you, there is no way to escape. Only by facing it head-on can you let those thorns illuminate your way forward.
Don't always pin your hopes on others, no one can really rely on, the only thing you can rely on is yourself.
Let go of expectations of others, learn to rely on yourself, and one day you will have your own world.