How do smart women talk to men?
The way you talk to men directly determines whether your relationship can always be so intimate.
Do you think it is very strange why men always like women who are not three or four, why you are obviously very good to him, but he does not cherish.
Talking women are loved because they know how to talk to be more intimate with their lovers, and maybe this is a little related to personality, but it is better than women who can't talk.
If you want to eat a man then you have to learn to grasp the initiative in your feelings, do the following three do not do, you will succeed in half.
Don't stick to him
Don't stick to him, don't put him first, and guide him to give for you.
For example, if he tells you that I miss you so much, you don't immediately reply to him and say that I miss you too much, but you want to tell him that you don't just talk about it, and if you really want me, you will come to me immediately.
When he asks you if you love me, don't immediately reply that of course I love you, but tell him that I only love one person who loves me, so you have to try to make me feel your love.
When you answer this way, men will feel that they are not completely eating you, in order to get your love, and thus put more energy into you.
First of all, this is to give them room to trust each other, in fact, the old-fashioned method of checking mobile phones is not so necessary, or even unnecessary;
Give himself a suitable time, let him do the best thing without disturbing him, play games like this, read books and exercise, and give him a lot of freedom.
He will think that you understand him very well, and may think backwards, why doesn't she look at my phone? Is it because she doesn't love me? You see, another little trick.
Don't give it unilaterally
The love that runs in both directions will last longer, and the best way is for me to run to you and you to get close to me.
The emotions and desires that need to be restrained to express, let you be careful every word, and deliberately secretly, will not last too long.
Even if you really want to chat with someone, after a long time you will feel very tired, it is all you are output, he does not respond, both time and mood.
What do you do if you really want to talk to someone but don't know what to talk about?
Most people chat is a self-fulfillment, think that they can talk to him today is so happy, in fact, in his eyes, you are a spare tire;
Replying to you is out of courtesy or you are a small fish in his fish pond. In fact, you can feel the attitude of the other party, you are just deceiving yourself.
If you want to enter someone's life, you may as well be patient, don't be so eager, take out your sincerity, restrain some exuberant desire to express, and don't give it all at once;
It is all step by step, so that the other party can be given full freedom. But the other party did not respond, generously give up without shame.
Don't turn over old accounts
This is waterloo for many girls. Complaining about a series of small things like he didn't give you a birthday last year, didn't pick you up when it rained last month, and so on.
You can turn over old accounts, but there is no need to turn over meaningless old accounts, which will make life more and more dull, and then go your separate ways.
Why do women love to turn over old accounts? There is a past called you have passed, she has not passed, and she mentioned it because it was never properly handled, but only because of children or other factors.
Often people who do the wrong thing, the past will turn the page, feel that the other party's calculations are always the past to say that things are not over, this is because the person who is forced to swallow all the grievances is not you.
It's okay to turn over old accounts, but to turn over meaningful accounts, accounts that allow him to learn things, not endless "quarrels".
With a certain initiative in love, you can keep him hopeful and impossible to really get.
You have to let him know that you are a prize, and if he wants to get it, he has to take it step by step. If he doesn't play this game, then he doesn't have a chance.
But if he plays this emotional game with you, you take the initiative. We are both athletes and referees, the rules are set by you, the win or loss is also determined by you, and the natural victory is in hand.
Even if you don't want him to go through five levels and six generals, just want him to pass a two-little test, it's okay, the initiative is yours, so you can give him any time to reduce the difficulty of the game.
So, we come into this world alone to find someone who can be good to us.