Recently, according to media reports, Lai Bingxia, a 55-year-old female singer in Malaysia, has announced her ordination, with the legal name "Dongru". Lai Bingxia posted on the social platform that "the big day of my life change is moving towards a stage full of Fa-joy, and everyone is welcome to share their friendship." ”
Subsequently, she also broadcast the whole process of her ordination live. In the video, Lai Bingxia shaved off her long hair, put on a brown robe, knelt on the futon with her hands together and looked calm, with no desire or desire, quietly listening to the teachings of the host next to her. Her friends and family were also present to accompany her throughout the ceremony until the end of the ordination ceremony.
Lai Bingxia, who completed the ceremony, smiled at the camera with her hands folded, and it could be seen that she had no regrets about this decision. The first half of Lai Bingxia's life was very wonderful, her children and grandchildren were full of happiness and happiness, and she should have enjoyed life well, but she decided to become a monk, which was indeed very surprising.
You must know that it is very difficult for a person who has witnessed the lights and greenery of the entertainment industry and experienced the glitz of life to completely let go of everything in the past, stay away from family and friends, and henceforth be isolated from the world and shave his family. Lai Bingxia was able to do all this, and it was really remarkable.
However, it is said that Lai Bingxia befriended Master Kaishan a long time ago, and then began to eat vegetarian food, and also opened a vegetarian restaurant. The idea of monasticism came up 3 years ago. But because my son was still young at that time, there was no formal decision. Now that her son has established a family and has children, Lai Bingxia has completely let go of the worries in her heart.
In addition, Lai Bingxia's husband, Wang Zhixiang, is now practicing in the temple. When Wang Zhixiang and Lai Bingxia volunteered at the temple in their early years, they also went to the temple to take classes together and formed an indissoluble relationship with Buddhism. Both of them had been preparing to become monks since then. Lai Bingxia said that although she and her husband have now gone through divorce procedures, the two will still be friends.
Lai Bingxia has been very fond of singing since she was a child, so she has always had a musical dream, and when she grew up, she participated in many singing competitions, and won the championship many times with excellent vocal conditions and solid singing skills.
Later, she signed a contract with an agency to officially debut in 1989, is a very powerful female singer, not only appeared in many albums, but also covered classic old songs such as "Wang Zhaojun" and "Prairie Night", occupying an important position in the Malaysian music scene. She also served as a mentor for the singing competition, and her professional comments and guidance were recognized by everyone.
Lai Bingxia's acting career has been smooth sailing, and she is also happy in marriage, after marrying her husband, she gave birth to a son, and now her son has grown up and has established a family. Probably seeing that her son also belonged to himself, Lai Bingxia decided to become a monk. As for the matter of his mother's renunciation, the son also expressed great support and bluntly said that he was proud of his mother. With the support of her family, it is more important to Lai Bingxia than anything else.
In fact, in the entertainment industry, there are also many stars who choose to convert to Buddhism, such as Chen Xiaoxu, who played Lin Daiyu in the TV series "Dream of the Red Chamber", Chen Xiaoxu and Lin Daiyu's experience is as bumpy. Chen Xiaoxu, who was only in his early 20s after acting in "Dream of the Red Chamber", faded out of the show business circle, and then went to the sea to open a business company as a boss. After that, Chen Xiaoxu suffered from cancer, and she finally chose to shave her family, but unfortunately she died not long after.
There are too many loves, hates, and hatreds in this world, and it bothers too many people. Even if a person like Lai Bingxia is full of children and grandchildren and lives a happy and happy life, he cannot avoid those troubles. Some people can't see it, and they will get sick or even do extreme things.
Therefore, Lai Bingxia's conversion to buddhism is also a very good choice to completely see and let go, away from the disturbances of the world, and quietly living a life without the struggle for fame and fortune.