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With money in hand, I don't panic in my heart.
As a person, you can't put money first, but you can't treat money as dung.
When you are young, you can proudly say that you are poor and afraid of something, and youth is capital.
In the second half of life, there is obviously a lack of energy, and no money is "no one to rely on".
All around us, we will always see such people: in the city for many years, in their fifties, unstable jobs, no savings, but also to take on mortgages, pensions are not ready. If you go back to your hometown to cultivate land, the land in your hometown has not been managed, and you will worry when you think about it.
How will they survive in the days to come?
Many people think that after the age of fifty, they should really live a living life. There are also fewer jobs, retreat to the second line, money and housing, children have work.
Reality, but always unsatisfactory, people who bend their waists for five buckets of rice are not uncommon.
We must understand that as a person, we cannot admit it, we can only survive, do the following three things well, and there is a turnaround.
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Put your head down and make money.
In the TV series "An Jia", Lou Shan Guan said something like this at the celebration banquet: "I finally opened the first order in my life, and the experience is three words - don't face." ”
In society, people like Lou Shanguan abound. With low education and weak work ability, he tried to squeeze into the city in the hope of picking up treasures and changing his destiny.
In order to sell the house, Lou Shanguan hit the wall again and again, bowed his head again and again, and gave others a cigarette to laugh.
When he called the customer, he was not less angry. Mr. Chen received the call, said "no time", and hung up unceremoniously; Mrs. Yao replied very angrily, "Don't call me again, or I will complain about you."
In this society, it is difficult to make money, and everyone is sailing against the current.
Fifty-year-old people need to compete with middle-aged people for jobs, if they don't understand the "rules", how can it work?
The rich man Yan Jiehe said, "What is a face?" We who do big things never want faces, and the skin can be torn off and thrown to the ground, kicked a few feet, and gone away, dismissive. ”
To be a man, you must have the courage to turn the blade inward, have no face, and have a rizi.
As long as you are healthy and willing to bow your head, you will always find a way to make money.
In the neighborhood where I live, there is an old man who drives a big truck when he was young. When I was old, the truck couldn't move, so I bought a "garbage cleaning truck".
The old man said that cleaning up a septic tank can earn hundreds of yuan, which is more cost-effective than running a long-distance car.
There is a way that a word awakens the dreamer. Many humble jobs can also make a fortune; tearing their faces, the road of life will be wider.
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Have a sunny mindset and do more good deeds.
On the jane book, netizen "Canoe Duck" shared his story of finding a job.
While studying at the medical university, he passed the supermarket downstairs of his dormitory and found a lost wallet. The first time he picked up his wallet, he was thrilled. After a while, he issued a "solicitation notice" in the post bar on campus.
Twenty minutes later, the owner came looking for him. He and the lost owner have since become friends.
When he graduated from college, he wanted to go to graduate school, but he had to accept the school's arrangement and go to a big hospital for internship. When he was in a dilemma, the former owner took the initiative to find him and entrusted him to a relatively relaxed internship position.
Good is rewarded, and it is predestined.
We often say that when a person grows old, he must insist on getting better. No matter how difficult life is, as long as you have sunshine in your heart and a "show of hands" for others, your network will slowly expand and you will join the circle of good people.
Friends have more roads to go. Taking the initiative to make friends with others may not be appreciated by others, but you put on a "good aura" for yourself and meet well-meaning people everywhere.
Writer Bing Xin said: "Friendship is a tranquilizer and a stimulant; friendship is an oasis in the desert, a lighthouse in the sea." ”
Don't blindly believe in chicken soup words such as "being alone is a blessing", but take the initiative to rely on the social family according to your own situation.
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Zoom in on the pattern and keep getting rich.
Miyazaki once said, "When a man enters middle age, he has become a pig." After thirty years of age, life is no longer a gallop, but a load forward. ”
When you're in your fifties, most of your children are in their twenties and thirties.
Home and talent are all the best. Find sustainable industries and don't worry about money for generations.
During the Qing Dynasty, Li Hongzhang was an official in the imperial court, but he had foresight and led his family to open a pawnshop together. For a time, in the area of Chaohu City, Li Hongzhang's pawnshop became a chain store, known as the "first pawnshop in Jianghuai".
Many families, relying on traditional craftsmanship, have realized the dream of a rich party.
Fifty-year-olds should play the role of "elders" and lead their juniors to do something. Believe that Eto does not press the body. Insist on standing tall and looking far ahead, according to the actual situation, choose to take root in an industry, and add blessings and worries to future generations.
James Morse, a world-renowned management expert, said: "The only advantage of sustainable competition comes from the ability to innovate beyond competitors." ”
People, as long as they are willing to learn, they can have "sustainable development". At any age, you can stand on the cusp of the storm without sighing.
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The ancients said, "There is no way out of heaven." ”
No one can live in a honeypot all the time. After tasting the sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty, I know how wonderful life is.
However, some people are unlucky, the starting point is not high, and the taste of life is more intense.
At the age of fifty, I began to struggle, struggled to support for a few years, and when I reached my sixties, I was better. Instead of sitting on the ground, walk on your knees.
Of course, when making money, we must also adhere to the "low-end life", try our best to reduce various expenses, and do not compare with anyone.
Life, in fact, is not so bitter, the way is always more than difficult.
Here, I also expect young people not to underestimate those in their fifties who are still looking for jobs everywhere and worrying about money.
Giving older people a way to live is the brilliance of human nature.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.