"Holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son" is the perfect love that many people in the world look forward to, but it is not easy to truly reach this realm. As sung in "A Lifetime with You": "How many people have admired your youthful appearance, you know who is willing to endure the relentless changes of time." How many people have come and gone in your life, but you and I will be with you and me all your life. "There are many people who admire your youthful appearance, but there are very few people who can endure the changes of the years, experience the hardships of life, and still share your inseparable and suffering.
However, in reality, there is no shortage of this kind of beautiful love sung in the song, the founding lieutenant general Wang Shangrong and his wife Huang Ke met and knew each other at the most beautiful age, walked side by side through the years of the flames of battle, and in the era of peace, the wind and rain were in the same boat, and they were in the same boat, so that the world could see what a perfect marriage was.
In 1980, 65-year-old Wang Shangrong was hospitalized for medical treatment due to physical discomfort, the doctor diagnosed him with "nervous system multi-system degeneration", at most can only live for two more years, Huang Ke after hearing the news, did not give up, accompanied Wang Shangrong around to seek medical treatment, and taught himself Traditional Chinese medicine, massage, and carefully cared for Wang Shangrong's life. Two years later, Wang Shangrong's health improved significantly, defeated the disease, and created a medical miracle.
He tore four love letters in a row, but was impressed by the fifth
In 1915, Wang Shangrong was born in Shishou Tongguan Town, Hubei Province, Which is a water wharf, and merchant ships carrying goods come and go, in an endless stream, because of convenient transportation, high flow of people, Andguan Town is both prosperous and lively, a shop is connected to a shop, at a glance, you can't see the head.
However, Wang Shangrong's family is very poor, Wang Shangrong's father sells fish for a living, goes to a very far place, to run from Hubei to Hunan Huarong area, once away from home is half a year can not go home. Selling fish, like farming, is also dependent on the sky to eat, as soon as it encounters floods, it is faced with the situation of no harvest, selling fish is the only source of income for the whole family, often eating the last meal without eating. Wang Shangrong's mother had given birth to two children before, and both starved to death.
After Wang Shangrong was born, his mother regarded him as a treasure, and he grew up to be three years old, and then he fell seriously ill, and his mother begged for rice everywhere, boiled into porridge and fed him to drink, perhaps Wang Shangrong had a hard life, and recovered after a week.
Wang Shangrong was very envious when he saw other children going to school, but the family could not get the tuition fee, so he ran to the outside of the classroom of Mr. Fu Xianting, a private school, to eavesdrop, Mr. Fu was enlightened and kind, and when he found out that Wang Shangrong overheard, he not only did not get angry, but also led him into the classroom and accepted him as his own student for free.
Fu Xianting not only taught Wang Shangrong to read and write, but also made him understand some big truths, Fu Xianting often said to Wang Shangrong: "Chinese society is undergoing changes, you must learn more knowledge, broaden your horizons, in the future our country's prosperity and strength, it will depend on you!" ”
As a teenager, Wang Shangrong actively threw himself into the torrent of revolution, joining the Chinese Communist Youth League at the age of 14, the Chinese Workers' and Peasants' Red Army at the age of 16, and the Communist Party of China the following year. Wang Shangrong performed well, successively serving as a staff officer of the headquarters, chief of the reconnaissance section, chief of regimental staff, chief of staff of the division, and commander of the division; after the outbreak of the War of Resistance Against Japan, Wang Shangrong led his troops to Hebei.
Beginning in March 1939, Wang Shangrong served as deputy brigade commander of the Independent 1st Brigade of the 120th Division of the Eighth Route Army. In September 1939, under the leadership of He Long, commander of the 120th Division, the Chen Zhuang Annihilation War was launched, and after 6 days and 5 nights, more than 1,500 Japanese puppet troops were annihilated, and the enemy major general Chieftain Shuiyuan was killed.
When the soldiers were immersed in the joy of Chen Zhuang's great victory, the yan'an kang da cadets came to Hebei after a 2500-mile run, and 19-year-old Huang Ke was one of them, who was the platoon leader of the female soldier platoon of the student company of the kang sophomore branch. The cadets of the Kang Da, together with the local military and civilians, prepared for the celebration meeting, and the girls' team was also preparing for the cultural performance.
Although Wang Shangrong, who was 25 years old at the time, looked talented and young, he had not yet found a suitable object. He Long, Luo Ruiqing, Su Zhenhua and others looked at it and felt that Huang Ke and Wang Shangronglang's talented female appearance was simply a pair made in heaven, so they intended to match the two.
On this day, Brigade Commander Gao Shiyi took Wang Shangrong to the garrison of the Second Branch of the Kang University, and when the principal Luo Ruiqing saw it, he warmly greeted him: "The battle of Chengzhuang was fought really beautifully, and the prestige of our Eighth Route Army was played, Shang Rong, you are meritorious ministers!" Our girls' team is rehearsing the show and preparing you for a celebration! ”
Among more than a dozen female students, Wang Shangrong saw Huang Ke, who was tall and outstanding in appearance, and Luo Ruiqing saw Wang Shangrong's intentions and deliberately said to him: "Shangrong, how do you see this girl?" She is the platoon leader of the girls' team, who came to Yan'an from Beiping at the age of 17, has culture, excellent working ability, and looks beautiful. ”
Although Wang Shangrong has been in the battlefield for a long time, he still knows nothing about love, he does not know how to answer, but quietly remembers the name of Huang Ke in his heart: "Huang Ke is the ideal partner I want to find."
The next day, the captain of the brigade, Su Zhenhua, called Huang Ke over, and Huang Ke thought that there was a new task arrangement, but Su Zhenhua suddenly said to her: "Huang Ke, how about I introduce you to an object?" ”
After all, Huang Ke was only 19 years old, and he didn't expect that Su Zhenhua would suddenly tell himself about introducing the object, and his face was red, and he couldn't say a word.
Su Zhenhua saw that Huang Ke was silent, thinking that she agreed, so he continued: "You have seen this person, he is Wang Shangrong, deputy brigade commander of the 120th Division's Unique Brigade..."
Before Su Zhenhua could finish speaking, Huang Ke refused: "I don't agree."
Wang Shangrong experienced the feeling of love at first sight for the first time, and his heart was uneasy and excited, but he did not expect to be rejected by one mouth. To say that Wang Shangrong's conditions, whether it is appearance or character, are impeccable. Wang Shangrong grew a tall man of one meter and eight meters, not only had great achievements in battle, but also read books and could write and fight.
When the poet He Qifang saw Wang Shangrong, he praised him: "If you, the young and beautiful regimental commander, put you in a French romance novel and in the middle of a gorgeous banquet, you will certainly arouse the affection of many noble ladies... However, we do not live in those boring novels, but in China during the War of Resistance Against Japan, and we live not for the noble ladies who show off their customs, but for the countless miserable and unfortunate Chinese people. ”
Huang Ke rejected Wang Shangrong, in fact, it is not that he does not look up to him, but he feels that he has just worked for a long time, his qualifications are still shallow, and he is not worthy of such a big official, not to mention that he is still young, he has never thought about getting married, he came to Yan'an to resist Japan, and now it is the time to contribute to the War of Resistance, how can he get married and start a family?
Huang Ke was born in Fengcheng County, Liaoning Province, his father was an anti-coalition fighter, when he was 12 years old, Huang Ke and his father left their hometown by train and came to Beiping to study at Beiping Zhongshan Middle School. After the "July 7 Incident", 17-year-old Huang Ke, together with many enthusiastic young people, rushed to Yan'an to study at the Kang Da, and became an excellent Communist Party member in 1938.
Huang Ke resolutely refused to meet wang Shangrong, and Wang Shangrong's fiery heart immediately cooled down and wanted to retreat, but Commander He Long encouraged him: "The love field is like a battlefield, ShangRong, don't be discouraged, you must show the courage to lead the troops to fight, and unswervingly attack the target." ”
In order to match Wang Shangrong and Huang Ke again, He Long and Su Zhenhua also specially arranged a review of Wang Shangrong against the university staff brigade. For this review, Wang Shangrong dressed up, specially found a semi-new military uniform, and put on the riding boots captured from the Japanese army.
In order to see Huang Ke more, Wang Shangrong, who had reviewed the front of the line twice, raised his leg to start the third review, and the guard reminded him: "Deputy Brigade Commander, you have reviewed it twice!" Wang Shangrong didn't think so: "What happened twice, I haven't seen it yet!" ”
After returning, Wang Shangrong felt that Huang Ke's shadow could not linger in his mind, so he picked up a pen and seriously wrote a love letter to Huang Ke, pouring out his friendship on the paper. After the letter was sent, Wang Shangrong looked forward to Huang Ke's reply, but several days passed, and there was no news, so Wang Shangrong continued to write the second, third, and fourth letters.
It turned out that Huang Ke was a person who had made up his mind not to turn back, and Wang Shangrong's love letters sent to the past were torn up without reading them. When Luo Ruiqing heard about this, he ran to discuss with He Long: "Wang Shangrong wrote the letter in the past, Huang Ke didn't even read it, this matter is a bit difficult to handle!" ”
He Long frowned and counted his heart: "Huang Ke's refusal is because he does not know enough about Wang Shangrong, so it is better to let her work in the Political Department of the One Brigade and give them a better chance to understand each other." ”
Luo Ruiqing thought it was a good idea, and when he went back, he informed Huang Ke to report to the Political Department of the 120th Division, but the stubborn Huang Ke said: "If I go to work, if it is for marriage, I will not go, even if I leave the army to go to a place." ”
Luo Ruiqing also became serious: "Going to work in the 120th Division was personally arranged by Commander He Long. You are a party member and must obey the organizational arrangements. ”
After Huang Ke went to work in the 120th Division, Wang Shangrong saw that the opportunity had come, and wrote her a love letter, this time, Huang Ke did not tear it off, perhaps moved by Wang Shangrong's persistence, Huang Ke opened the letter and read it carefully.
From the letter, Huang Ke learned that Wang Shangrong embarked on the revolutionary road at the age of 14, and in the past 11 years, he experienced countless tests of life and death, and he couldn't help but feel a sense of admiration in his heart, and began to regret whether his attitude towards him was a little excessive.
After understanding Wang Shangrong's experience, in the face of Wang Shangrong's re-invitation, Huang Ke did not refuse. In the village where the sun was setting, they walked side by side, opening their hearts to each other for the first time. In November 1939, He Long and Guan Xiangying were married, and Huang Ke and Wang Shangrong held a simple wedding in a farmhouse.
The doctor concluded that he could only live for 2 years, and under the careful care of his wife, he made a miraculous recovery
Wang Shangrong and Huang Ke met at the most beautiful age, and the love at first sight is enjoyable, and their dependence on each other in their later years is even more touching.
Because he was injured many times during the war years and unjustly imprisoned for eight years in a special period, Wang Shangrong's body was devastated, and since 1980, Wang Shangrong, who had just turned 65, always felt that his legs were weak, and he could not even walk steadily, and he often felt headaches and his memory was not as good as before.
Between work, the driver took Wang Shangrong to the Platon General Hospital for examination, as soon as he arrived at the hospital, the doctor insisted on hospitalizing him, Wang Shangrong could not put down his work, Huang Ke advised him: "You first take good care of your illness and take good care of your body, so that you can return to work as soon as possible!" ”
A week later, the doctor's diagnosis came out: Wang Shangrong suffered from "insufficient blood supply to the basal artery", which belonged to the "multi-system degeneration of the nervous system", and now added "cerebellar enlargement", the condition will only develop in a bad direction, it is impossible to get better, and he can only live for two more years at most.
Listening to the doctor's words, Huang Ke was blindfolded, but looking at Wang Shangrong on the hospital bed, she quickly perked up again: "I can't let him leave us so quickly, I must help him overcome the disease!" ”
In 1981, the National Conference on Neurology was held in Suzhou, and Wang Shangrong also came to Suzhou to conduct a consultation by experts in neurology, but the conclusion was the same: the multi-system degeneration of the nervous system is an incurable disease in the academic field of neurology.
Over the years, how many life and death tests he has experienced, when he was a child, he had a severe blow and did not die, he did not die when he crossed the snowy mountains and meadows, he was not killed by the shells of the little Japanese, nor was he killed by the machine guns of the Kuomintang, how could he be defeated by this little disease? The "death penalty" that the experts pronounced on themselves, Wang Shangrong did not believe. As long as you believe in miracles, you can create miracles, Wang Shangrong fought against fate with a strong will, and eventually became a strong person who defeated the disease.
In 1955, Huang Ke was operating on gallstones, and was encountering the reduction of personnel in the army, Wang Shangrong took it upon himself to handle the demobilization procedures for Huang Ke, and the 34-year-old Huang Ke left his post and took on the responsibility of raising 7 children.
Thinking back on this, Wang Shangrong's heart was full of guilt, and he comforted Huang Ke and said: "Over the years, you have broken your heart for me and the children, even if it is for you, I must get better and live for a few more years!" ”
Huang Ke knew that Wang Shangrong's condition had a lot to do with psychological factors and mental tension, and the company of his family was very important to him, she held Wang Shangrong's hand tightly and said: "With me here, I will always accompany you." As long as we cooperate with the doctor's treatment, we will definitely be able to overcome the disease. ”
At that time, Huang Ke's physical condition was not good, her right eye was completely blind, and her vision in her left eye was also blurred, but she relied on strong perseverance to overcome the obstacle of blindness, accompanied Wang Shangrong to seek medical treatment, and ran all over the country. As long as it is a doctor who is helpful to Wang Shangrong's illness, they all visit, as long as it is a home remedy for curative effect, they all try.
Huang Ke personally decocted medicine for Wang Shangrong, some relatives and friends sent home remedies, Huang Ke was not at ease, he had to drink it himself to confirm that there was no problem, and then gave Wang Shangrong a drink. No matter the spring, summer, autumn or winter, Huang Ke will help Wang Shangrong out to exercise every day, she also learned Traditional Chinese medicine, massage techniques, mastered the technology of massage and massage, and massaged Wang Shangrong every day.
Huang Ke's meticulous care, coupled with unremitting rehabilitation exercises, after 2 years, Wang Shangrong's body has improved significantly, and his memory has begun to recover. The doctors who treated Wang Shangrong were all surprised and said, "I have never seen a recovery to such a level in such a short period of time." Wang Shangrong's case is a miracle in the history of medicine! ”
In his later years, Wang Shangrong always said to others: "Without Huang Ke, there would be no me now." In the autumn of 1989, Wang Shangrong and Huang Ke, a husband and wife who had walked through more than 50 years of wind and rain hand in hand, were rated as national golden marriage couples by the All-China Women's Federation, the Committee on Aging and the Women's Daily. It was the power of love that created the miracle that Wang Shangrong, who was once determined by doctors to live only two more years, lived at the age of 85 until his death in Beijing in 2000.