The "28 years of wrong life" incident has developed to the present, and the contradictions between the Yao and Guo families have accumulated deeper and deeper.
Some time ago, Du Xinzhi claimed in the live broadcast that Qiqi had a leg problem when he was born, and he also posted a magnetic patch for treatment, saying that Qiqi was bleeding from his nostrils when he was born, and shouting that Yao Wei should take good care of the child.
As soon as this remark came out, netizens were in an uproar, after all, as a grandmother, no matter what, we should not talk about the health of our grandchildren in public.
In particular, Qi Qi Yue Yue is more or less a "public figure", on the surface Du Xinzhi has created an image of "intimate grandmother" for himself, but in fact, it is easy to cause some bad public opinion, which will bring trouble to the growth of Qi Qi Yue Yue.
But fortunately, Tian Jing quickly refuted the rumor that "Qiqi was only premature, not sick, and premature children generally live in incubators, which is very normal", as a response to Du Xinzhi's "rumors".
Looking at what Du Xinzhi has been doing, although she has always tried to show that she loves Qi Qi Yueyue very much, and has always claimed to "love Yao Wei", in fact, it may not be the same, and this is the biggest difference between her and Xu Min.
Du Xinzhi met Tian Jing and Qi Qi by chance, acting like strangers
Some time ago, some netizens exposed the video of Du Xinzhi walking on the street, and Tian Jing and two children met by chance, and the scene was very embarrassing.
Although Du Xinzhi and Tian Jing do not say hello and are as innocent as if they met strangers, her attitude towards Qiqi Yueyue is very different from the statement that she has always openly said that she is "very good to the children".
After all, Qi Qi Yue Yue is still a child, after seeing the "grandmother" who used to get along day and night, it is inevitable that he is very happy, and Yue Yue also ran happily towards Du Xinzhi.
But Du Xinzhi ignored Yue Yue, who was rushing over, and walked straight over, as if he were facing a completely strange child.
Through Du Xinzhi's performance, it is not difficult to judge whether his concern for children is true or false.
In fact, no matter before and after the recognition of relatives, Du Xinzhi has always valued only his son Yao Wei, and his behavior has always preferred to "entangle" Yao Wei.
And Kiki has been taken care of by her grandmother since she was born, and the relationship between grandchildren is not intimate, and it is precisely because of this that she, as a grandmother, claims that Kiki has a leg disease.
Looking back at Xu Min's attitude towards children, the gap between Him and Du Xinzhi is a world of difference.
Kiki sat quietly and counted in order to see Xu Min, showing intimacy
It is reasonable to say that Qiqi and Du Xinzhi have been together for 3 years day and night, xu Min and Qiqi have only been together for 10 days, and Qiqi should be closer to Du Xinzhi.
But this Christmas Xu Min took the child to Zhumadian, and when Qiqi heard that he could see Xu Min as long as he counted to 10,000, he sat down and did not move.
It is not easy to know that for a child of Qiqi's age, it is not easy to sit quietly, which shows his closeness to Xu Sensitivity.
The reason for such a scene is inseparable from Xu Min's attitude towards children.
Perhaps because he and his own son Yao Wei have been separated for many years, Xu Min inadvertently loves Wu and Wu, and has also invested deep feelings for Qiqi and Yueyue, and even pays more attention to the children than Yao Wei, and seems to prefer to "wrap" the children.
Now whenever the children and Xu Min appear on camera together, Qi Qi Yue Yue is always glued to her side, Qi Qi is more unrestrained and interacts with Xu Min, Xu Min also lovingly embraces Qi Qi into his arms, a "face killing" cute many netizens.
The so-called "no contrast, no harm", although the same as "grandma", but because the attitude towards children is very different, the children's responses are also very different, Qiqi and Yueyue have a better relationship with Xu Min after all.
There is a reward for paying, and building a good relationship with children should be careful
Compared with adults, children are simply like a blank piece of paper, and it is precisely because of this that their closeness to anyone will be written on their faces and expressed in action.
Although Du Xinzhi has always said that he likes The two children of Qiqi and Yueyue and loves Yao Wei, he has not shown due concern for the children.
Although Xu Min did not declare how, he spent twelve minutes of thought when getting along with his children and got the sincere love and love of the two children.
As parents of children, we should also get inspiration from the different attitudes of the two to treat children: to create a good relationship between parents and children, the family should also pay more attention, otherwise if we just say "I want to accompany the child more" but do not pay practical action, it is difficult for the child to feel close to himself from the bottom of his heart.
Old Miao Conclusion:
Now that Yao Wei and Tian Jing have moved out of the Guo family with their children, they seem to be more and more intimate when they get along with Xu Mama and Yao Dad, while Du Xinzhi has been constantly shaping the "selling miserable" personality on the Internet, but rarely wins everyone's sympathy.
Good and evil will eventually be rewarded, and everyone has a scale in their hearts, and it may not be far from the truth.
Today's topic: What do you think of this difference between Du Xinzhi and Xu Min?
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