Text/Little Snow Mom
Now when everyone talks about the second child, the subconscious reaction is "can't afford to give birth, can't afford to raise", and feel that life is stressful. But there are also families that insist on having a second child, in addition to really liking children, and then there is the hope that in the future two children will have a companion, the family will be happy and harmonious, and the family happiness will be stronger when there are more children.
Especially some people are only children, very envious of others when they were young, brothers and sisters, so they thought of two children, can accompany the growth, let the children have no regrets.
On the subway, the younger brother made a mistake and was educated by his grandmother, and the brother turned around in a move, which was very heartwarming
On the subway, a grandmother took her two little grandchildren home, because her brother made a mistake, grandma was very serious about educating the little grandson, the old man was a little frightened as soon as the little grandson was serious, grinning and began to cry, crying that it was a sad thing.
The brother next to him was distressed when he looked at it, and he put one hand around his brother, as if he was comforting his brother in this way, and the younger brother was also hugging his brother tightly as if he had found a backer.
Grandma did not give up the correction of the child's mistakes because the little grandson was crying, and still seriously reasoned with the little grandson and let him realize his mistake, but the little grandson was obviously crying, and the grandmother did not listen to a word, or hugged her brother and cried.
Grandma looked at this is not the same thing, just want to pull the little grandson to the front of the body and say, but did not expect the brother to make a move surprising, only to see the brother turn around, the brother in his arms, obviously do not want grandma to continue to teach, grandma also felt this meaning, this is no longer open mouth to teach.
This heart-warming scene was also filmed by passers-by, and the video was posted on the Internet to cause many people to like and comment. Everyone was touched by the brother's action of protecting his brother, and they all said: "This brother is too good, he has been protecting his brother, this picture is too loving, and he must be a warm male brother in the future."
In fact, for many families who have a second child, it is not precisely because they want to see this state of mutual dependence between brothers and sisters, the brother has a sense of responsibility, the children get along harmoniously with each other, and rely on each other to accompany each other.
These advantages of the second child can be reflected in less than twenty years
Many people are reluctant to have a second child, the reason is still those few, economic pressure, time and energy is not enough, but in fact, there are many births of a second child, which can be reflected in less than twenty years.
First, children grow up together and families are happier
Now parents are busy at work, sending their children to kindergarten during the day, picking them up after school, the children have limited friends to make, and parents do not have so much time to play with their children. But if there are two children in the family, the children can have a companion between them, which is very helpful for cultivating the child's empathy ability, and the sense of family atmosphere will be stronger.
Think about when we were young, our brothers and sisters took us to set off firecrackers and play games together, childhood is very happy, in the future, when the two children grow up, they can also support each other, which can save parents a lot of heart.
Second, there is a lot of pressure now, and I will be happier in my old age in the future
Raising a second child is indeed a lot of pressure now, but it also belongs to the first bitter and then sweet, the early care of the education of two children, the time and energy consumed are relatively large, but in the future, the two children have grown up, and filial piety to you is two children.
At that time, the parents are older, the two children are filial piety, and the two children take turns to take care of, the pressure is much smaller, unlike many only children, raising two elderly people, how much pressure should be.
Third, the two children inspire each other to grow
Two children accompany each other, for the growth of both children are good, the older brother and sister can become a role model for younger siblings, develop their own sense of responsibility, from an early age have their own opinions. The younger siblings have a sense of security, have a role model to learn from, and the benefits of the two children growing up fiercely with each other are also very obvious.
In this way, is it found that the benefits of the second child are also many, in fact, it is not so difficult to raise the second child, because with the experience of the boss in front, it will be more handy when educating the second child, and the early tiredness is tired, but it can also let the elderly help for a period of time, and the more obvious the benefits of the second child in the future.
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