Text/Dahui
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We all hope that love can be pure enough, not mixed with any impurities, can be loved wholeheartedly by one person, two people are sweet to each other, and will never be separated again.
It's just that love sometimes can't be as we think, there will be a lot of unsatisfactory places, the person you originally thought would go through your life, may be in a corner, suddenly choose to fork with you, the two people parted ways.
Love should be a very pure thing, should not be mixed with other conditions, should not be a choice under the trade-offs, but we can only control our own hearts, can not control others. Maybe you're trying to get close to the other person, and his heart has long since drifted away to find someone new.
Some people just "ride a donkey to find a horse", not wholeheartedly when they are with you, and when they encounter a better choice than you, they will leave without looking back, leaving you alone.
In the time after the initial disconnection, the person who was left behind will be very uncomfortable, and the feeling of being abandoned will make her heart feel like it has been hollowed out, confused, and after a long period of painful healing, just when she is about to let go, it is very likely that the person who chose to leave you will suddenly come back to you.
I once encountered such a phenomenon, it was he who took the initiative to mention the breakup, when the breakup was very decisive, a look that wanted to immediately get rid of me, no longer willing to turn back, but after half a year of disconnection came back to me. And I've gone through the time when I had to be him, and I burst into tears at the thought of him, and I'll never look back.
I asked myself, even if I didn't let go of him, I wouldn't be easily impressed, and I wouldn't naively think that he was unforgettable for my old feelings, so I would choose to turn back.
A man, if he has been disconnected for a long time, suddenly comes back to you one day, don't be sentimental, the reason is very realistic.
People who truly love you will not give up on you easily
If a person really loves you, he has already fantasized about marrying you countless times in his mind, and has already put you in the future, and he will not be willing to give up on you.
It is not easy for two people to meet in the vast sea of people, and it is even more difficult to be able to like each other, run in both directions, and choose to come together.
The person who really likes you, he knows that it is not easy to meet you, he will not be willing to easily discard it, for him, it is too late for you to dig out his heart and lungs, how can he push you away with his own hands?
It is said that the highest state of true love is "fear", when you are completely in the bottom of your heart, men will be very afraid of losing you, even if they need him to make a lot of changes, they are willing to eat.
People who don't like you, he will take winning and losing more important than you, always like to be tough with you, will not know how to tolerate you, he will not cherish you at all, when they are together, they will always be half-hearted, they will be hot and cold to you, in the time of snubing you, maybe he has already been looking for the next station, only to chase you will be discarded.
The person who loves you wholeheartedly would rather quarrel with you than with others, no matter how many conflicts you encounter, no matter how many quarrels you have had, he will not throw away your hand, will hold you tightly, and you have been going on.
When he decided to leave you, he really didn't love you anymore
Don't believe in what distance problem, what parents do not agree, these rotten reasons children may still believe, adults can be debunked at once.
All the love that will be separated, in fact, is because of not loving, and any other reason is just an excuse, not gullible.
For people who are not firm enough, a little wind and grass will shake the determination to be with you, and for people who are really firm and must be you, everything is not as big as you, as long as it is with you, they are willing to do anything.
A person who really loves you will choose to run to you despite all difficulties and obstacles, and if a person changes his heart, you can't get it back no matter how much effort you spend.
When he decides to give up on you, he really doesn't love you, he will treat you as a burden, want to throw you away immediately, don't want to have anything to do with you, don't expect anything from him, don't humble him, won't let him have the slightest wavering, will only make you bruised.
Men suddenly come back to you after breaking off the connection, not out of love, but because you are good to him
When a man leaves you, he feels that no matter who is better than you, he thinks that if he leaves you, he will meet a better other, and he will run to the beautiful future with joy and embrace his new life.
When being loved wholeheartedly, they often do not know how to cherish, can not see your good, dislike you in every way, and say that they are favored often have no fear, it is true that the better a woman is to a man, the more he despises, which has long become commonality in many emotional relationships.
But when they went around, they found that they had given up on people who were so good to them. After being awakened by reality, I realize your importance.
Li Xiang in "North and South" was taken care of by Feng Xi as a waste, Feng Xi followed him for ten years, doing his best to take care of his diet and living, like an old mother, booing him warmly, she has been waiting for the day when Li Xiang marries herself, but she does not know that Li Xiang has already planned to leave.
He was just lusting after Feng Xi's kindness to him and didn't love her anymore, so when he left Feng Xi's care, the first thing he did when he went abroad was to break up with her.
After a long time of disconnection, Li Xiang went back to Feng Xi and said that he could not forget her, but in fact he just wanted Feng Xi to continue to serve him.
A person who has given up on you and turned back to you, in fact, most of them are weighing the pros and cons, when giving up on you, they really think it is better to leave you, but after giving up you, they find that the people they met behind them are not good to him, so they will turn back, and love has nothing to do with it.
A man, suddenly contacting you, or suddenly not contacting you, is actually out of his own selfishness, and there is no half love for you at all.
There are some women, after the breakup, have not forgotten each other, then when the man looks back one day, he may feel that the other party is still in love, and will turn back and throw himself back into the arms of the man.
But a person who has given up on you once, how can you be sure that he will not give up on you a second time?
Know that he does not turn back because he still loves you, but because he can't find anyone better than you at the moment, such selfishness is not worth your deep love, don't be sentimental, don't ignore him.