Friends are not many, you are in the wind and rain. No matter how long the love is, the emphasis is on responding to every request. Life is like this, choosing true companionship in non-stop encounters.
It is not easy to meet each other, and it is even more rare to stay together. No matter who you meet, it is the most beautiful accident in life. Remembering those who are good to us is the most sincere love on the road of life and the warmest companion in the depths of the soul.
Looking back on the past, there are always some people and things that cannot be opened in our hearts, obstacles that cannot be overcome, and pain that cannot be healed. Or a hurtful word, an angry accusation, a glance of contempt, a look of doubt, or a cold, unbeliefactive promise that stands by and watches, can leave a mark on our hearts that is indelible. From time to time, it will come to mind, and the taste of sour, sweet and bitter will come to mind. Let us live a life of peace, ups and downs, peace of mind, turbulence.
The world is uncertain, don't blame others. Life is a generous gift, a flower and a grass, a person and a thing, are the best arrangements. Is that people have a selfish side, life is alive, who can guarantee that it will not be half a step wrong? Pinching the bad of others will only be exchanged for endless entanglement and resentment, causing serious internal friction to themselves.
Someone else's sentence may just be unintentionally spoken, just a vent on the head of the angry head, as long as it is harmless, it really does not have to be put on the heart. "Flaws do not hide Yu", do not forget all the good of the other party because of a little mistake.
People get along with each other, whether it is relatives and friends, or between neighbors and colleagues, more tolerance, more understanding, in order to be able to harmonize. If others don't understand you, don't support you, or even secretly slander you, that's someone else's choice, reflecting his cognition and level. If you have a general understanding with him, then you have descended to the same level and level as him.
When you are resentful or angry because you are not understood or welcomed, think more about the benefits of others, and only by always remembering the good of others will you "meet and laugh and be vengeful" if you are not understood or welcomed.
Be a person, remember more people's kindness, and remember less people's resentment. Be more tolerant, let some trivialities and resentments stay away, and let the heart be more open-minded.
Han Shan asked: How do some people in the world slander me, deceive me, insult me, laugh at me, despise me, and despise me? "Just put up with him, let him, avoid him, be by him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, and in a few years, you will see him." ”
This ancient question and answer is not cowardly, only by carefully tasting it can you know its realm. Reading the dimensions of looking at life will not only forgive the imperfections of life and the imperfections of others, but also make a light mood for themselves.
Don't always blame others for everything, it doesn't help you, maybe others have the difficulties of others, and others have the sufferings of others. Life is more like "helping you is the love, not helping is the duty." "Those who help you, must remember to be grateful; it is understandable not to help you, after all, everyone has his own world, a lot of people to face, and a lot of things to deal with.
A good life depends on your own mind to plan, to rely on your own efforts to fight, rather than always pinning your hopes on others. Blame others for not supporting you, blame others for not fighting for you, blame others for not thinking about you, and so on.
Fate is only responsible for shuffling the cards, but the person who plays the cards will always be you. Ask yourself more, have you done your best, have you persevered, and have you achieved self-discipline? How much grace there is in the heart, how much blessing there is in life. Knowing how to give back is a kind of cherishing for good people. Knowing the gratitude map is a kind of respect for true feelings. Life is an echo, giving people roses and having a lingering fragrance in their hands.
Be a person, remember more about the benefits of people, and think less about people's mistakes. Remembering the goodness of others and forgiving the imperfections of life is not only an open-mindedness, but also a wisdom of life. It makes us feel that the world is still sunny, even if it is occasionally stormy, it will still be sunny after that.
Love can be exchanged for love, and trust can be exchanged for trust. Even if there are storms in life, may you always have a grateful heart, blessings and blessings, and be treated tenderly by the years!
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