30+ love, more mature rationality, more chess opponents of the "passing move", do you still yearn?
On the evening of December 28, tencent video's light mature age love observation reality show "Semi-mature Lovers" was officially launched. Eight celebrity guests on the occasion of 30+ completed their first meeting, from anonymous chats to first invitations, showing a very different side from previous love observation programs. The six "semi-mature observers" of Jing Tian, Tang Yixin, Wang Ziwen, Wang Yanlin, Xie Nan, and Xue Zhaofeng also opened the "love research topic" with incisive analysis and meticulous observation. After the broadcast, topics such as #Three Views and Five Senses in Love Account for How Much ##30 Years Old Still Believe in Love# and other topics were widely discussed by the audience.
Judging from the premiere, "Semi-Acquaintance" came to a "direct blow" at the beginning of the question: As you grow older, will your view of mate selection change?
In this regard, the "half-acquainted observers" with different marital statuses have different thoughts. Tang Yixin found that when life comes to the stage of 30 years old, many people have entered the peak period of their careers, and the cost of time has become higher, thus becoming in love.
Wang Ziwen believes that when he is young, his heart is empty, but after he grows older, he has a purer and higher standard for choosing a mate, "we must find someone who makes her happy."
"Soon after the new marriage", Wang Yanlin gave a vivid analogy, "the love of the right is like a big rear, let your heart have a bottom."
As an economist, Xue Zhaofeng starts from a realistic point of view, pointing out that young love can only rely on fantasies, and everyone's life is stable after aging, and it is necessary to consider whether both sides can integrate into each other's lives.
The only "single representative" Jing Tian said that because he likes children very much, he will consider fertility issues with age.
Although there are many opinions, it is not difficult to see that the feelings of 30+ are different for everyone to consider.
This may also be one of the reasons why the premiere of "Half-Acquaintance" immediately attracted attention. Different from the love roundup in the current market, the program chose the love of 30+ light mature age groups, trying to interpret the current situation that the topic of marriage and love continues to be hot and the marriage rate continues to decline through different perspectives. It should be said that 30+ is a state between youth and maturity, with mature values, a stable foundation for life, and a yearning and impulse for love. And the subsequent appearance of the vegetarian also showed a variety of faces: single unmarried, empty windows for many years, divorced single parents... Their personal experiences and real reactions are expected to bring multiple dimensions to the audience.
In the premiere program, "Semi-Acquainted Lovers" first developed for the choice of "five senses" and "three views". The program requires ordinary people to understand each other through WeChat chat before they meet - "don't look at the five senses first look at the three views".
Among them, the female guest Luo Yingsu won the favor of three male guests without meeting, and became the "popular king" of the first private chat invitation. From this point of view, having tacit understanding and having a common language is an important basis for the 30+ group to start a relationship. As Xie Nan believes: in the relationship, the three views are still the lubricant and cornerstone of getting along, determining the fit of the two people.
However, just like all "online dating" has to go through the process of "seeing the light and dying", can the good feelings established from the Internet be maintained after meeting?
Subsequently, "Semi-Acquaintance Lovers" arranged for ordinary people to meet for the first time, but they could not disclose their WeChat names, so that they could compare with the impressions formed online from their observations and experiences of each other. After a short day together, the 8 ordinary guests had to choose their own invitations for the next day's date that night, Luo Ying, Huang Ryan, Zhou Nan, Yu Yue, Yang Mengjing, and Wang Neng, who had a tacit understanding with each other, could reach the date invitation, but Lola, who had a big grin and got along happily with everyone, unexpectedly failed.
What is more mysterious is that the program also sets up a special link, and each person can choose a circle of friends of the opposite sex to view every day. In the anxiety of choosing and being chosen, how to better express yourself and form a two-way rush? In the love of adults, there is more consideration for themselves and others.
Of course, the performance of 30+ vegetarians is also surprising. For example, after the first invitation, the "half-familiar observers" gave a key word: decent. In the communication of the semi-mature group, everything is frank and measured: some of them are natural and decent, and their ability to control the field is first-class; some are lively and enthusiastic, good at enlivening the atmosphere; sometimes even when rejected, they maintain a decent posture and behave generously. In this half-cooked love journey, whether it is the expression of heartbeat, acceptance, or hesitation and rejection, they are calmly faced, and "Half-cooked Lover" reflects the thinking and growth brought by half-cooked love.
When you meet an opponent, how to release the signal and respond to the signal? Love but can not, how to dialectically look at their own ordinary and flash? How do you deal with polyamorous emotions when you have not yet established a relationship? The essence of "half-cooked" has nothing to do with age, it is related to experience, and half-cooked love also has the joy and excitement brought by love, but in the form of an adult's measure. "Semi-mature Lovers" goes deep into the psychological state and love concept of the light mature age group, collides the multiple views of marriage and love derived from it, analyzes and dismantles them through the observation of real cases, and thinks about the dilemma of marriage and love in reality.