Gentleness, like a panacea, is a bridge between people and people, just the surface of gentleness, not necessarily have a weak heart.
Some people think logically and carefully, have a tenacious heart, have courage, and gentleness is only a way for them to resist the outside world, so what are the twelve signs like this?
01 Virgo: Clear thinking logic, good at analyzing problems
Let's talk about Virgos first, Virgo people usually have a more humble surface, they don't like to look too strong, and they always look at the mentality of others while making decisions about their own personal behavior.
Therefore, although Cancer seems softer and more appropriate, in fact, they have not stopped spinning their own brains and thinking about how to effectively solve others.
In many cases, the admirable area of Virgo depends on the fact that they are talking to people and doing things, but in fact, they are likely to be careless and will continue to measure, dissect and distinguish you in their hearts.
They are afraid of letting themselves invest their own money completely, but they are separated by a layer of laminated glass, dealing with all kinds of people and things, so that they can maintain the necessary objectivity and universality. This prompts Cancer people to express clear logic with a soft mindset, and they can actively convey their own ideas, rather than passive acceptance.
Generally speaking, Virgos are all people with great thoughts and ideas, although they are willing to use certain tricks to express their own meanings, rather than being outspoken and pleasing to the eye, so their softness does not mean cowardice in their hearts, on the contrary, this is also a reflection of their cultivation.
02 Cancer: Empathetic thinking is strong, but there is courage in the heart
Speaking of Cancer, many Cancer people have a biased affinity surface, and they can also maintain a stable relationship with people, they look forward to living in harmony with people, and at the same time, they are also very good at knowing the joys and sorrows of others.
This prompts Cancer people to usually have a work ability that can be deeply experienced with others, so that they will use a more gentle attitude to deal with others, which is very empathetic.
However, if you think that Cancer's heart is also passive and weak, only to say that you still do not understand them, in fact, Cancer usually has a stronger core, they do not admit defeat casually, and it is difficult to be up and down by others.
It's just that they will use a method of indulgence to avoid many external noises, and they will not be easy to argue, but they will not listen to it. Indeed, Cancer does know how to make sound decisions for themselves, their insight is delicate, and their thinking logic is relatively clear, so in a complex situation, Cancer will not be involved in the vortex for no reason.
Instead, they understand that they are alone, and even understand how to maintain their own dominance, and if you think Cancer is a melon, you can only say that they are more courageous than you think.
03 Libra: It looks like Buddha-nature, but it is actually deep in the heart
Speaking of Libra again, Libra people usually have a soft surface, they habitually maintain the harmony of contact between people and people, so it is easier to obey and habitual others, rather than to be domineering.
They can think independently from the perspective of others as much as they can, so they don't just think of themselves and annoy others.
Many Libras also give the impression of being lazy and Buddha-natured, as if they don't like to deal with too much unnecessary competition, but in fact, Libra's Buddha-nature is only a mentality that is displayed, and a large number of them will hide their desires and views on new things.
They are just unwilling to refute people's faces, nor do they want to cause anxiety to others because of some kind of deep judgment of their own, in fact, Libra belongs to people who look at the problem more deeply, and it is difficult for them to have excessively innocent and simple thoughts.
They can objectively see the essence of many things, especially, for the inner state of mind, it is easy to recognize, in the interpersonal industry, Most Libra has a weight-lifting design style, for many complicated associations, good at solving. However, they prefer to use a mutually beneficial and win-win strategy to solve difficulties, and try to take care of the rights and interests of others under the condition of ensuring their own rights and interests.