Gentleness, like a good medicine, is the bond between people, just a gentle appearance, not necessarily a cowardly heart.
Some people think clearly and carefully, have a strong heart, have courage, and gentleness is only a means for them to fight against the world, so what are these signs?
01 Virgo: Logical thinking is clear, good at analyzing problems
First of all, let's talk about Virgo, Virgo people tend to have a more humble appearance, they don't like to appear too strong, and they will always decide their own behavior while looking at the attitude of others.
Therefore, although Virgos seem to be more gentle and appropriate, in fact, they have not stopped turning their brains to think about how to deal with others reasonably.
Many times, the admirable thing about Virgos is that they obviously talk to people very happily and cope with them easily, but in fact, they may not be distracted, and will constantly weigh, analyze and judge you in the heart.
They do not dare to allow themselves to be fully immersed, but instead they are facing all kinds of people and things through a layer of glass, so that they can maintain the necessary rationality and objectivity.
This makes Virgo people able to express clear logic with a gentle attitude, and they are more able to actively convey their thoughts instead of passive acceptance.
Generally speaking, Virgos are a person with a lot of ideas and opinions, but they are willing to use a certain "routine" to euphemistically express their meaning, rather than going straight and provoking people's eyes, so their gentleness does not represent inner weakness, on the contrary, this is a manifestation of their cultivation.
02 Cancer: Empathy is strong, but there is courage in the heart
Looking at Cancer, many Cancer people have a more affinity appearance, can also maintain a good relationship with people, they are eager to get along with people, and at the same time, they are also very good at feeling the joys and sorrows of others.
This makes Cancer people often have an ability to empathize with others, so that they will use a more gentle attitude to face others, very empathetic.
However, if you think that Cancer's heart is also passive and weak, you can only say that you do not understand them, in fact, Cancer often has a relatively hard core, they are not easy to lose, and it is difficult to be swayed.
It's just that they will use a retreat to advance, to avoid a lot of outside voices, they will not refute much, but they will not listen to it much.
Indeed, Cancer really knows how to make the right decisions for themselves, their observation is meticulous, and their logical thinking is relatively clear, so in complex situations, Cancer will not be caught up in the "whirlpool" for no reason.
On the contrary, they know how to protect themselves, and even know how to defend their rights, and when you think that Cancer is a soft persimmon, you can only say that they are more courageous than you think.
03 Libra: It looks like a Buddha, but in fact it is deep in the heart
Speaking of Libra, Libra people often have a mild appearance, they are accustomed to maintaining the harmony of the relationship between people, so it is easier to cater to and accommodate others, rather than arbitrarily.
They can put themselves in the shoes of others, so they don't easily offend others by advocating for themselves.
Many Libras will also give people a lazy, Buddhist impression, as if they do not like to manage too many unnecessary disputes, but in fact, Libra's Buddhist system is just an attitude that is presented, and more importantly, they will hide their ambitions and opinions on things.
They just don't want to refute people's faces, nor do they want to cause panic in others because of some of their deep insights, in fact, Libra belongs to people who look at problems more deeply, and it is difficult for them to have too naïve and simple ideas.
They can objectively see the essence of many things, especially, the attitude to the human heart, it is easier to perceive, in the field of interpersonal relations, Libra mostly has a comfortable style, for many complex relationships, good at handling.
However, they are more inclined to use a "win-win" approach to solve problems, and take care of the interests of others as much as possible under the premise of ensuring their own interests.