Recently, the divorce storm of Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei has triggered a discussion on the whole network. In this storm, Li Lianglei also inadvertently gave everyone a popular science about what is "Gaslighting". Li Lianglei once wrote in a long article accusing Wang Lihong that she was a party that had been gaslighting for a long time, and what was "Gaslighting"?
Gaslighting, also known as the gaslight effect, refers to the emotional abuse and manipulation imposed on the victim, so that the victim gradually loses self-esteem, has self-doubt, and cannot escape, as the name suggests, it is a means of psychological manipulation. At that time, after seeing Li Lianglei's revelations, netizens were stunned, and they did not expect that under the appearance of happiness, she actually experienced so much unbearable psychological torture. Also because of Li Lianglei's post, the outside world has also begun to pay attention to Gaslighting, including bloggers mentioning this.
On December 22, Lin Fengjiao's wife Zhang Xinyue forwarded a video of a blogger talking about the gaslight effect, not only that, she also gave an example directly, but her example of a boy is a victim. Perhaps Zhang Xinyue's original intention was simply to let everyone know more clearly what the gas lamp effect is, but her post this time caused a "counter-effect", many netizens do not understand why she wants to give such an example, more bluntly as a half-public figure, she should not bring this example to the table.
After seeing Zhang Xinyue's post, some netizens left a message saying that Zhang Xinyue was asked to tell the current boy in the example to warm the boy well, forgetting the past and living well in the present. As a result, Zhang Xinyue wrote in this message from netizens: "Then can you please tell that girl, don't secretly let people annoy others, others just want to live their own lives."
Subsequently, some people bluntly said that Zhang Xinyue was in the yin and yang weird connotation lin Feng's predecessor wqy (Wu Qianyu), and Zhang Xinyue bluntly said "right things are not right people". Other netizens also said that Zhang Xinyue, as a star sister-in-law, should pay attention to the points when speaking.
I don't know if I was stimulated by the messages of these netizens, Zhang Xinyue also went down to tear each other up with netizens. The following picture is a screenshot of Zhang Xinyue's battle with some netizens:
There are also more neutral netizens who shouted Zhang Xinyue, asking her not to care too much about the evaluation of the outside world, since she and Lin Feng are already married, don't explain so much to others, do yourself well, and live your own life. There are also people who say that Zhang Xinyue left some back roads for himself, after all, a lifetime is very long, who can live with whom can not live a lifetime is not yet known, not to mention the entertainment circle that has been disturbed. In this regard, Zhang Xinyue also responded one by one.
In addition, some netizens also pulled out photos of Zhang Xinyue's early work. In the photo, Zhang Xinyue is held by four type men, and she shows a slightly surprised expression. Some people questioned that the scale of the photo was a bit large, and Zhang Xinyue responded that the photo was taken when she was single and working. As for the photos of herself wearing "underwear" in the past, Zhang Xinyue frankly said that "all model competitions will have a link in wearing underwear", which is generous and does not twist at all. It can be seen that for the work she once did, Zhang Xinyue did not feel anything, and her mentality was very good.
Speaking back to Zhang Xinyue's alleged connotation of Wu Qianyu, in fact, this is not the first time she has been spat on by netizens. Previously, on a variety show, Lin Feng talked about being puA by the predecessor, and various netizens speculated that the predecessor was "Wu Qianyu", which made the woman controversial, so this time Zhang Xinyue's post will make netizens feel that she is in the Ming Andrological connotation of Wu Qianyu.
As a star sister-in-law, Zhang Xinyue seems to have always been quite controversial. When interacting with Lin Feng, the outside world was a singing and declining sound, and then the two got married and gave birth, these voices did not decrease much, but there was a trend of more and more. After that, even her daughter Xiao Gege was implicated, and it was quite helpless to think about. Although Zhang Xinyue bluntly said that no matter what dynamics she made, black powder would come to besiege her, but in fact, if she ignored these bad comments, over time, this situation would naturally decrease. For example, Du Chun's wife Wang Can, who has also been scolded before, was initially a variety of intimidating netizens, and then gradually ignored these comments, and her comment area gradually became clear.
Then, I hope that Zhang Xinyue can be as the netizens said, don't care too much about the evaluation of the outside world, live a good life with Lin Feng, and the family of three is happy and warm.
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