The progress of society has also made many parents have a strong change in the birth of boys and girls, and once in the minds of many people, they thought that boys can stand up to the sky and become the main backbone of the family.
However, this concept has also quietly changed now, and many fathers are extremely dependent on their daughters, and even become outright "daughter slaves".
A few days ago, the picture of Zhang Xinyue and Lin Feng holding their daughters to take pictures was released, which won the praise and sweet laughter of many netizens.
Although Zhang Xinyue claims to be taking pictures with a new mobile phone and does not need to retouch the picture, she also presents a happy family without reservation.
As can be seen from the photo: Lin Feng accompanied her daughter and showed great patience.
While picking out snacks for her daughter, crouch down and stay flush with her daughter.
Many netizens have sighed after seeing this scene: Lin Feng is not only a good husband in life, but also a representative of a good father.
In fact, compared with boys, girls' minds in the process of growing up are also more delicate and sensitive, and a little carelessness may cause a rift in their inner world.
You know: fathers have irreplaceable roles and roles in the growth of their daughters, even far more than mothers.
【Dad, the importance of growing up in girls】
1. More optimistic personality
Girls who grew up around their fathers will also have more optimistic and cheerful personalities.
The reason why they have such characteristics is because their hearts are nourished, and with their fathers, their inner world will be richer.
With a relatively optimistic and cheerful personality, they will not only have harmonious interpersonal relationships in the future, but also have a very confident heart.
These are the most powerful energy and wealth that fathers give to their daughters in the process of accompanying their daughters.
2, the heart is more powerful
Girls who have been accompanied by their fathers since childhood are very lucky, and although their fathers are taking care of their children, they are not as attentive as my mothers.
However, the strength and inner firmness brought to children in action are also irreplaceable.
When girls have powerful energy in their hearts, they will also become indestructible beings.
Whether they are learning in the future or on the road of life, even if there are tribulations, they can cope rationally, rather than attaching their lives to others.
3, the concept of feelings is more stable
Girls who have been accompanied by their fathers since childhood will have a richer inner world and emotions, especially the emotional view will be more stable.
If the father can share part of the housework in the family, the family must be very harmonious, and all this will become the most precious nourishment for the girl's growth.
Girls who grow up in this environment will naturally have a stronger inner world.
Many people say: The daughter is the little lover and little cotton jacket of the father's previous life, which also leads to the father's mostly spoiled state for the daughter. However, no matter how in the process of accompanying girls growing up, the role of dad is crucial.
【As a father, how to grow up with girls】
1. The influence of actions and concepts
Although most fathers are more tolerant and doting on girls, as fathers, they must also understand the truth of not being able to do it.
If you want to have a stronger possibility of having a girl in the future and a stronger inner world, as a father, you must use your own behavior and concepts to set a benchmark image for your daughter.
So that they are invisibly positively guided by their father's actions, so that they can integrate into their own lives and studies.
2. Establishment and guidance of rules
Even if you are very fond of girls, you must maintain a serious and serious state in the establishment of the three views and the establishment of rules.
Only in this way can they behave rationally, rather than being on the bottom line of accepting the public.
Only by being able to make the growth of girls more rational can they have a strong inner world, and at the same time have a strength that cannot be ignored.
3. Time-consuming companionship
In the process of girls' education and training, as a father, we must have more patience and time, and only by using time to accompany their growth can their inner world be nourished and enable them to better grasp their lives.
【Author's Message】
Gorky once said that no force is stronger than knowledge, and that those armed with knowledge are invincible.
Nowadays, many people use "daughter slave" to describe the image of the father in front of the daughter, and even many mothers are in a state of jealousy.
However, I have to admit that girls who grew up next to their fathers not only had a very rich childhood life, but also a very rich heart.
This is because fathers have irreplaceable roles and responsibilities in the growth of their daughters, which will give girls more energy so that they can control their own lives.
Therefore, in the process of fathers accompanying and educating their daughters, the above points are related to the growth of girls, and they must be kept in mind.
Today's topic sharing: Do you think: In the education of girls, what character and ability should be paid attention to?