In our daily lives, if it is to care, if it is to love. Then what we have to do is not to escape, but to face up. Find out what the problem is, and then go and fix it. This is the right way to deal with a relationship that can last a long time.
As a girl, the most valued boy's behavior in the world, whether there is a sense of responsibility, worthy of entrusting lifelong and attitude towards you is extremely important.
Whether in love or in marriage, it is an unacceptable fact that whoever leaves first is an unacceptable fact. If the girl suddenly leaves you silently, it will make the boy overwhelmed, and the relationship between the two people will become more and more talked about over time, and it will not be happy.
For boys, the sudden departure of girls will make the boyfriend feel very surprised, is a particularly irresponsible performance, but also particularly insecure, she left unconsciously will delete and block all your contact information, and you still can't think of why she left without a sound? In the face of such a girl, the boy will feel unreasonable, but he can't help but guess.
Originally, you ate together every day, went to work together, and lived together, and she suddenly left you, so there must be some problems between you. Why did you go now? Before said good not to give up, why can't you do it, disappear why not tell me in advance....?
The boy couldn't think clearly about these questions, and at first he thought about why she did it the way she is now. Over and over again think of a lot of reasons, but still can not think of a suitable reason, crazy to inquire about you and her news, every day suffering from gains and losses waiting for her to come back, you will also ask yourself, so is life what you like? Because for a good family, the departure of a person is really difficult to accept.
In fact, the girl's heart is easy to understand, as long as you understand her, the heart will have an answer.
When a girl suddenly leaves you, you must be inseparable from these three important reasons: either she is pursuing you, or her husband is cheating, or her husband is not motivated, and there is no other reason.
The first case: she's after you
Suddenly leaving, she may know that the two of you can't really walk together, as the saying goes, "men chase women across the mountain, women chase men, compartment yarn", when a girl chases you for a long time, you do not agree or refuse the case she will choose to leave you. Because you can't give her a definitive answer, you can't blame her.
You can imagine how she could possibly continue to pursue you without any hope. She pursues you because you are worthy, when this hopeless feeling, she will also stop the loss in time, she feels that you are good to you pretend that it does not matter, or naturally enjoy her meticulous care for you, but since ancient times, everything can not be two, since you enjoy everything she gives you, then you should also give her an account.
If you have not given her an explanation, after a long time she will leave on her own, I thought I could impress you and be your woman, but if you don't give her a little chance, she will quietly and silently leave your life.
When she left, I felt that something was missing in my life, or that I was used to her presence, indicating that you had become dependent on her and even liked her.
If you can't accept her quietly leaving, can you reflect on yourself whether you deserve what she has been paying for you? Why do you accept her care and love for you.
The second case: you're cheating
She suddenly disappeared into your world, and Presumably thought about it for a long time. The most taboo thing in a good marriage is cheating, because it is a particularly irresponsible performance, which is not responsible for the wife and the family.
A person with a good sense of character and morality is a "derailment" who will not do anything out of character. It is enough to destroy a marriage, a family. Especially with children. Men cheat on women who can't tolerate their husbands doing such unforgivable things.
Some women choose to be patient in order to have a complete family for their children, and at this time the man is no longer her husband, just the father of the child, but most women cannot tolerate it, and she cannot accept the back of her husband. Women are more emotional, especially for their own marriage.
So when a woman chooses to leave you, it is estimated that she will never forgive you for the rest of her life. Because you don't deserve to be forgiven, if you have a child, she still chooses to leave, even her own child will be taken away, you can imagine how painful she should be, how helpless, once had good memories, but because you cheated, they all disappeared.
The third situation: you who are not motivated
When a woman decides to give you the best out of herself, you must treat her well. Don't let her down, because a woman decides to entrust herself to you for life, she values you very much, her every plan will have you, she believes that you will give her happiness, a wonderful little home.
If you get married, you don't plan well for the future, eat this meal without eating, or a day is a day, the work is dispensable, and after a long time, the woman will collapse and will hate herself for choosing to marry you in the first place.
Because women are not afraid that their men have no money, they are afraid that they feel quite powerful without money. When women choose to give you together, they have already made up their minds that in the future, as long as they give you together, work hard, and experience the bittersweet and salty in life together, there will be a day in the beginning.
If you get married, become irresponsible, the big and small things in the family are solved by the woman, a day or two is fine, and the woman will be annoyed after a long time, she will feel that she is not looking for a husband, but a son. And she! In order to retain your self-esteem, patiently communicate with you and make progress with you. If you are not willing to change yourself for the sake of this home. Then for a long time, women will leave where there is no hope in sight. Will look for their own sunshine.
Women are more emotional, marriage or friendship, feel inappropriate to shoot two scattered, the world is so big will always meet the right person.