It is said that a woman who can spoil is the best life, and this sentence is really vividly reflected in Qin Hailu. In the program of "Wife's Romantic Trip 5", Qin Hailu and Wang Xinjun and his wife show their love and envy others, and Qin Hailu is even rarer to show the side of a little woman.
Even his friend Liu Tao sighed: she is too good at spoiling.
Everyone said that Qin Hailu married a good man, because behind the spoiled, it was inseparable from Wang Xinjun's love for her.
In fact, Wang Xinjun had a marriage.
The rumored reason for the divorce was Wang Xinjun's hot temper and machismo.
Who would have thought that in this marriage with Qin Hailu, he took good care of Qin Hailu and took care of it.
The two have been married for more than 7 years, not only does not have the so-called seven-year itch, but it is too sweet to exceed the standard, and all kinds of fancy show love.
It is said that a woman who can spoil is the best life, and this sentence is really vividly reflected in Qin Hailu.
The British writer Charles Reed wrote in "Tribulation and Loyalty" that there is nothing more intoxicating about a woman than showing weakness in front of a man. Spoiling is the most normal state of getting along between men and women, after all, women are spoiled by the people they like, which is an expression of feelings.
Many women are accustomed to being independent and strong, and even in the face of the closest partners, they are not willing to lower their stature. Such personalities have brought a lot of trouble to their love and marriage.
For example, Jiang Shuying once said in the show that the breakup may be because his personality is too strong, and he will not find a boyfriend to deal with things, but he silently hides and cries.
And Tranquility once had a failed marriage, and she helplessly said that she did not know how to show weakness in front of her husband.
However, women with high emotional intelligence, even coddlers, can touch men's hearts more than ordinary women. When hoping to share the housework with her husband, an ordinary woman might say something like, "Every time I clean, I'm exhausted, and you're still like a grandpa, and you can't live this day!" ”
As soon as this word came out, even if the man really helped to work, he was unwilling, and there would be a quarrel if he did not get it right. Xiaodu felt that the women who quarreled with men were stupid women. Man is such a creature, you and he just lie and spoil, quarrels will only make the final result of things, contrary to your expectations.
And women with high emotional intelligence take retreat as advances, rational and spoiled, in order to firmly tie the heart of the husband, let him listen to your words: "Husband, I am so tired today, you are distressed by your wife, make dinner!" The roasted eggplant you made is the best, I haven't eaten it for a long time~~"
Such a "spoiled child" is to show his needs in a way of "needing each other", but also exaggerates his husband's cooking skills and a gentle appearance of worship, which man can not be willing to wear an apron and cook honestly?
In fact, men have a "hero complex" and are eager to be looked up to, worshipped, and needed. This is the essence of childishness: emphasizing the value of the other person and sending a signal of "I need you".
It's wisdom that a highly emotionally intelligent woman will let her husband find that feeling of being "needed" and "obligated" in her marriage. Smart women also know how to be soft and rigid, not only can reduce family conflicts, enhance the love between them and their partners, but also make the marriage break the dull, full of laughter.
Learn the correct way to open the spoiled, find the "routine" of the coddled, you can be coddled into the heart of the man. So, how do high-level spoilers do?
In the course of "Teaching The Actual Combat of Spoiling, The Invisible Weapon that Shortens men's Hearts", teach you to learn the tactics of spoiling, use the most comfortable way of spoiling, let men only want to listen to you, and let you skillfully resolve various quarrels and contradictions, at the same time, let him take the initiative to pay more for you, and from then on, he only wants to spoil you and love you!