It is undeniable that in real life, everyone hopes that they will have good luck and be able to do everything smoothly.
But luck is not that you expect it, it will come to you, and everything cannot get better on its own.
Whether you can have luck, whether life can become more and more exciting, depends entirely on whether you have the virtue of enjoying luck and whether you have created wonderful behaviors.
As the saying goes:
"Blessings do not come from the outside, but from within."
In daily life, if you want to be more and more lucky, then please do these three things first.
Pamper your family
There is a saying in "Hanging Mirror in the World":
"He who has not been angry, but whose family is not decaying; who has not had a harmonious qi, and whose family is not auspicious."
What really makes a family prosperous and makes a family happy often does not depend on how much wealth there is.
It depends on whether the family can support each other, take care of each other, and whether they are always harmonious.
When you know how to take care of your family and maintain a good family relationship, then because of the warmth of your family, your mood will become better, because of the encouragement of your relatives, you will be more confident.
In such a state, doing things will naturally be like a fish, and good luck will naturally follow.
In the TV series "In the Name of Family", Li Haichao is the owner of a small noodle shop, and at first he only had one daughter, Li Jianjian.
Later, due to coincidence, he adopted He Ziqiu and raised Ling Xiao.
Although raising three children is very tiring and bitter, Li Haichao never complains, but gives the three children the greatest care.
Of course, all his efforts were not in vain in the end, he harvested the filial piety of three children, harvested a strong family affection, and finally harvested the best love.
Bing Xin said:
"A good family is the source of all happiness and strength."
If your family is a mess and the relationship between your family is a mess, then no amount of blessing will be consumed.
On the contrary, when you know how to take care of your family and maintain the harmony of your family, then you will find that because of the support of your family, you are no longer afraid of any wind and rain.
And life will be more and more flavorful, and the days will become sweeter and sweeter.
Fulfill others
There is a theory in psychology:
"No matter what you do to others, the person who really receives is not others, but yourself, in the same way, when you give to others, when you give for others, the person who really benefits is not others, but yourself"
In a lifetime, no one can live as an island, and walking in the world, no one can guarantee that they will not have a time of lows and difficulties.
When you are always willing to fulfill others, then others will naturally accept your feelings, and eventually you will find that your road is easier and easier the further you go.
I have seen such a story on the Internet:
There are two companies that are in a competitive relationship.
One day, one of the companies came to a very large customer, but this company did not have the ability to serve this customer because it had taken on a lot of orders before.
Faced with this situation, the owner of this company recommended another company that competed with him to the customer.
At that time, many company executives did not understand why they had to push customers to their opponents, and the boss just said a sentence: "Let's complete others, why not enjoy it?" ”
Wang Yangming said:
"The wise build bridges, the fools build walls."
In daily life, multiple friends is always good.
When you always like to give flowers to others, you must know that the first person to smell the flowers is yourself.
Knowing how to perfect others is a kind of kindness and a kind of wisdom.
This is because, in the end, all your kindness will not be in vain, and it will be fully rewarded to you at a certain point in time, making you more and more blessed.
Control yourself
Hemingway once wrote:
"You are the God who rules over everything, and if you want to conquer the whole world, you must first conquer yourself."
Indeed, the most difficult thing in a person's life is not to ask others, but to be able to control themselves and change themselves.
When you can truly overcome your desires, your laziness, and your control not to touch those bad habits, then you will find that your life will get better at the fastest speed.
Knowing such a woman, she is really the most disciplined person I have ever met.
In order to stay in shape, she would ask herself to run two kilometers in the morning and quit her favorite braised pork at night;
In order to be able to obtain a certificate, she will study for two hours every day after work, half a year without interruption.
Eventually she was in good shape and had the best love in her life; she was capable and achieved enviable results at work.
Maybe in life, there are always many people who will complain, complain about their bad luck, complain that the leader is not Bole, and complain that their lives are a mess.
But is all this really caused by the outside world? In fact, it is not, it is just caused by your own lack of self-discipline.
As it is said in "The Road That Few People Walk":
"The first solution to life's problems is self-discipline. Without this link, you cannot solve any troubles and difficulties. ”
Only by controlling yourself can you control your life.
When you get up early, diligently, cautiously, self-motivated, and honest, then I believe that your luck will not be too bad.
There is never any unprovoked good fortune in this world, luck, and it will only favor the kind of person who deserves it.
When you know how to take care of your family, then it will definitely return your warmth;
When you are used to fulfilling others, then it will definitely send you more friends;
When you can control yourself, then it will naturally give you a wonderful life.
For the rest of your life, may you know how to do the above three things well, and then embrace the greatest blessing and make yourself happier the more you live.
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Author: Away from the rain slightly cool, a rational, emotional, like to use words to express personal views, bring you spiritual healing, emotional solution, life perception of the post-90s writer.