Marriage is difficult? And look at the eight desperate battles: sugar-coated shells, separation of government and enterprises, old age...

Living in modern society, people's pressure is increasing, with the rising cost of living, high housing prices, sky-high dowries, the improvement of women's mate selection standards, the imbalance between men and women and the rise in divorce rates and other social environmental factors, resulting in many people's expectations for marriage greatly reduced, the emergence of a large number of Dink, unmarried people.

In fact, you officials do not have to be discouraged, it is not difficult to get married: in addition to having a certain economic strength, you also need a little strategy and skills to manage marriage and love. The following is a set of marriage and love tricks eight desperate, it is considered to be confused about you, rationalize your thinking, and listen to me slowly.

First line: Sugar-coated shells

A good mouth can make you please everywhere in marriage. High emotional intelligence, knowledgeable, articulate, humorous, praise, romantic, you will be able to stand out.

A good woman is afraid of entanglement, and when she encounters a crush, she must grasp the fighter and follow the good temptation. The face should be thick, the posture should be low, and the all-round precision strike should be carried out. Women are more emotional, can be her spiritual sustenance, emotional catharsis, have enough trust and respect for you, you are successful for a large part. To take care of her everywhere in life, to take care of her meticulously, a cup of milk tea when you are thirsty, an umbrella in the rain, a romantic trip on holidays, a drop-off worker when shopping, a cash machine when shopping, a shoulder when you are depressed... Between seemingly insignificant bits, she already had a heart to belong.

A woman's heart is water, and she loves those who follow the tide the most! This array is a top priority at the strategic level and is valid for a lifetime.

The second front: separation of government and enterprise

Women are delicate in their minds, mostly born financial experts, always thinking about it again and again when shopping, walking around the street eighteen times, always decisively when they encounter discounts, and when the sky is dark, they will return with a full load. Therefore, it is correct to entrust most of the property, especially most of the salary, to the women. On the one hand, this reflects the love and trust of men for women, gives her enough sense of security, and on the other hand, it also washes away the injustice of "men become bad when they have money". There is no money in your waist, do not dare to do it, male compatriots, put away your greedy nature. This battle laid the economic foundation for marriage and set the tone for a harmonious life.

Compared with the "enterprise" managed by the woman's financial management, the big masters are in charge of the "political system", which is the macro-control of the market economy, and the problems of direction and principle depend on our checks, such as parents' pension, children's further education, employment, funds for buying a house and a car, the relationship between relatives, and the money that the neighbors follow... These men must be supervised, have the ability to solve problems and contradictions, and reflect your responsibility.

The third line: the elderly have support

As the saying goes, "a son-in-law is half a child", to the parents-in-law should be scrupulously dutiful, take the initiative to take care of their heavy responsibilities, usually walk around more filial piety, in order to remove the wife's worries, you are dead hearted.

At four o'clock and eight o'clock, prepare generous gifts, take the whole family to visit them more, understand their difficulties, and effectively help solve the difficulties in their lives. In the event of visiting or temporarily staying, good wine and good food, warm hospitality, the highest standard etiquette of receiving VIPs will be carried forward to the extreme, so that the elderly have a strong sense of belonging to home. Be his emotional listener, mood guide, difficult helper, and practitioner of the elderly! Thus breaking into the internal disintegration of the "enemy" camp and building a peaceful united front!

Fourth Formation: The Dragon has remorse

Life is like a river, sometimes the wind and waves are calm, but sometimes it is a terrifying wave! Mistakes in some major decisions will leave many far-reaching negative effects on married life.

For example, according to the family's long-term economic expenditure, raising a boy plus supporting the elderly is already stretched, but the wife does not want a second treasure, which will undoubtedly bring very serious consequences to the small family, and the reason is only that it is too lonely, other people's families are two children, really make people speechless. At this time, men must adhere to the solemn stand of the class struggle, argue according to reason, move with true feelings, know the stakes, negotiate with his wife bitterly, and when necessary, use extraordinary means to turn the tide as much as possible, I believe that she will slowly understand how valuable your persistence is in the future!

For example, because the woman is in charge of financial power and has the convenience of being close to the water, she privately used the "national treasury" to enter the unfamiliar stock market, and finally lost tens of thousands of yuan. After being discovered by you, as a man, you must deal with it calmly, and timely knock on the naïve wife, so that she has remorse, guilt, and deep reflection, so as to stop the loss in time, so as not to repeat the mistakes in the future!

Fifth: Cut the flesh and feed the eagles

Legend has it that the eagle wants to catch the rabbit for lunch, if you don't eat the rabbit, the eagle will starve to death, the Buddha saw the situation, cut a piece of meat the same size as the rabbit, fed the eagle, thus saving the eagle and the rabbit.

This story of cutting meat and feeding eagles also applies to married life. For example, some women love vanity, and the dowry before marriage must be "three gold", otherwise it is exempt from talking. Of course, there are marriage customs first, I am afraid it is difficult to change, but I have to piece together to satisfy his appetite. For example, children fight people, beat people into the hospital, parents have to pay for time-consuming work to comfort the aftermath; and with the rise of online shopping, you will find that there are more unnecessary cosmetics, piles of clothes, cheap bags, etc. at home, which you can laugh at as a "business" in the exploration of the business encountered setbacks.

In short, these "cases" of cutting flesh and feeding eagles are testing a man's mind and measurement, and it polishes the man's edges and corners. Its essence lies in exchanging one's own selfish interests for family security, or ~ cost-effective!

Sixth Line: Retreat

There is a kind of poisonous chicken soup on the Internet: home is a place to talk about love, not a place to be reasonable. Many women have been brainwashed by it, and many reasonable men have been beaten into human purgatory. For many unclear reasons or things, such as the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that has been debated endlessly for thousands of years, almost every family has it, but very few can be properly resolved. At this time, men are best to mix less, avoid the limelight of a wave of high waves, and do a reasonable and advantageous retreat, which is a way to blunt the contradiction and a soft landing. At the same time, on the other hand of life, we must highlight our own value. For example, pouring a gas tank, opening a sewer, repairing a faucet, buying a bag of rice noodles, placing a large household piece, etc., are all patents of the masters!

With the passage of time, the smoke of the family will surely dissipate, and the happy atmosphere will eventually return!

Seventh: Manhood

Married life is already a chicken feather, how can the pot not touch the pot? When encountering husband and wife quarrels and fights, men must be generous, not with the yellow-faced woman in the family, positive and tough. Women are very emotional, love and hate extremes, she initiates a flying hand is not a heavy weight, men should protect themselves, with a rational attitude, can run.

Wait for some time to dissipate, and then go to your father-in-law's house to secretly tell your tragic experience, to turn her mother's house into your seeder, harvester, to cut off her way back.

Of course, sometimes hitting is kissing and scolding is love. Women love to spoil and tease you, at this time you must not be uninteresting, you should try to show the romance and style of manhood!

Eighth Front: Peaceful Evolution

To nip the war in the bud, this is the last battle of the high and deep. If you find that there are unstable traces of beads and horses in your home, you must make a good layout in advance, plan ahead, and slowly eliminate risk factors one by one.

For example, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in a period of time, it is indeed impossible to be harmonious, it is better to do the ideological work of both sides privately, start the stove as soon as possible, so as not to be embarrassed in the back, as long as you usually move around, help more, and honor more, maybe the distance can really produce beauty!

The main point of this array is that you have a certain degree of anticipation and are easy to operate, so that you can prevent problems before they occur!

Well, the above is my marriage and love eight desperate, I hope to bring you inspiration and reference, and finally wish everyone on the road to happiness more and more broad!