#爱是个动词 #
The word weekend used to bring me a feeling of leisure and relaxation; however, since there was a small god beast at home, the weekend for me, there was a different feeling, the first three years of the little god beast came to the house I did not have a weekend, and then the little god beast was 3 years old, I put her in foster care, but on the weekend, the god beast in the foster home, or to come back, the staff of the foster care institution needs to rest, so the weekend brings me only tension and fatigue.
The reason is that I can't empathize with the thoughts and activities of the little god beast, I am just accommodating her.
Speaking of which, raising the divine beast is really not an easy thing, not only to pay attention to her physical condition, but also to pay attention to psychological growth, this process can only be tasted by those who have really raised the divine beast.
Some people will say that if it is so hard, why should it be raised? [what]
A smile, a word, and a kiss will instantly heal my heart that is about to be broken, bring warmth and joy, in short, raising the god beast is also a different life experience!
Back to the point, go on to say that the weekend beast returns, she will appear in front of me from time to time during these 48 hours, disrupting my plans, destroying my room, asking me strange questions, interrupting anything I am doing!
In addition, feeding should be more careful, improve the food, prepare snacks, but also soft words to take care of her soul, and even I have to go out for a walk to relieve boredom!
The return of the 'Divine Beast', the Hundred Beasts avoided!
This is no joke, the 'Divine Beast' comes back every weekend with a task - writing homework, if the Divine Beast fails, I will be criticized, and I will also be criticized by the supervision of irresponsibility.
Therefore, when she is writing her homework, I have to put down my mobile phone, pick up a book, or write or draw, I really can't go into the kitchen to prepare food for the beast, in short, I have to stay away from electronic products and she will do the task quietly.
At present, the self-management ability of this 'little god beast' in my family is still in its infancy, and if she is not careful, she will lose control!
This no, there was an accident this weekend, I was recently hooked on the 'headlines', the weekend in the rush to make a video, has been holding the phone, the little god beast is a curious baby, see my behavior, when she does the task, began to be half-hearted, from time to time will sneak to my side to see, ask a question, I make a video good indulgence, casually cope, and casually reassure, let her do her own thing, a day has passed, the task completed by the little god beast is actually less than one-tenth!
In the evening, I first sent a sugar-coated cannonball to the little god beast, kissed her little cheek, lowered her vigilance, and then praised the homework she had completed, the words were well written, there was no wrong question, I did not mention the homework she did not complete, just after the praise, I took the opportunity to let her talk about the scene when writing the homework, what is the good work, where need to be improved?
The little god beast is very smart, usually teach her those words she remembered in her heart, she concluded: when doing homework can not concentrate, always think about seeing what I am doing, once or twice to see me, come back to write when you can not calm down always think about playing, tomorrow to change this practice, I praise her is a good baby who keeps promises, must be able to say to do, and then she happily entered the dreamland.
The next day, my video ended a little, the little god beast knew this time that I was not playing, she was very attentive when doing her homework, and it was completed quickly.
It seems that the sugar-coated shell I sent out is still very useful.
In the process of cultivating the little god beast, occasionally sending a sugar-coated cannonball will also have a multiplier effect.
[The use of sugar-coated shells also asks parents to pay attention to proportions, do not develop habits, too late!] 】