Recently, some netizens broke the news on Weibo that Hong Kong artist Zhang Zhilin and Yuan Yongyi's son "Magic Boy" (Zhang Mutong) "seems to be G independence".
The reason is that someone asked him if he was in China on social media Ins, and he sent a picture of Hong Kong as a background but said that he was not in China.
In the early morning of December 14, Yuan Yongyi, a well-known female artist in Hong Kong, posted through her personal account on Sina Weibo in response to the controversy caused by her son's previous statement on the social platform Instagram. She said that she had found out in time and immediately corrected her son's words and deeds.
Yuan Yongyi said on Weibo:
"After thinking about it, I still want to make some clarifications and explanations." Regarding Zhang Mutong's misunderstanding caused by his gaffe on the social platform because of his English language, we found it in time and immediately corrected it, and repeatedly emphasized that he used correct and rigorous words, and did not make the same mistake again. But thinking that this time we will be criticized, we have also realized the problem from this incident, that is, we neglected to regulate his loose expression, which is really the fault of our parents. ”
What I want to be honest with you today is that some words need to be explained, and some attitudes never need to be explained. In the past, I have also heard some voices from all directions, but this time I have made clarifications. It is an indisputable fact that our family loves the motherland and Hong Kong and supports one China. We will do what we as Chinese should do, and if we don't do it, we will not do it. Thank you for your tolerance and concern. ”
In this regard, some netizens said:
"There is criticism, there is teaching, there is reflection, there will be progress." Parents and children grow together. In any case, the heart is the most important. Please believe it. ”
Yuan Yongyi said in an interview earlier that she was neglectful of discipline to her son, which can be regarded as a completely obvious situation. The son's sentence does not have to rise to gd so serious, but in the end it is a little ambiguous, liang liang has time not to be busy buying bags, although busy with career, but also pay attention to the child's education problems.
Nowadays, many parents are busy with work and careers, throwing their children into school, handing them over to teachers, and doing nothing, believing that their children's education is the teacher's business.
People's Daily once published an article telling parents:
Educating your children well is not only the matter of teachers, but also the most important cause in your life.
No matter how good the school and how good the teacher, can not replace the position of parents in the hearts of children, parents are children's lifelong teachers and learning examples.
01.
If the child's growth is missed, it will not come again
"Poor Dad, Rich Dad" writes:
"Success is about having time to take care of your children. It's not how much ticket you earn, it's not how wide the house you buy, it's not how handsome you drive.
Instead, the parents of the school will have you, and you can always see your back the moment you open the door. ”
Because, in the child's life, the order of adult appearance is very important, many things can be slowed down, but the child's growth is missed and will not come again.
02. Parents are the child's first teachers, which affects the child's conduct and habits
The family is the first classroom in life, and parents are the first teachers of children.
Family education involves many aspects,
But the most important thing is character education, how to be a person education.
Children who grow up at mahjong tables and in front of televisions are definitely very different from children raised by parents who love to read.
The role of parents in teaching by example is far greater than the knowledge taught by the teacher's 45-minute lesson.
The child's character is most affected by the parents, the child is a mirror of the parents, what you are, the child is like.
03. Seize the critical period of 0-6 years old to cultivate children's sound personality
60% of human competence is developed before the age of 3, and 80% of the ability is developed before the age of 6.
therefore
Grasping the education of children in early childhood is crucial!
As a parent, we must pay attention to early education, and we must learn how to be a parent in order to better educate our children.
Based on the study of the characteristics of brain development and physical and mental development of children in early childhood, Nanata believes that the goal of early education should be full personality education.
Full personality education, including physical, personality and intelligence,
Cultivate a healthy physique, a sound personality, excellent intelligence, and children's aesthetics and interests. That is, for children
"Moral, intellectual, physical and aesthetic all-round development"
Lay a solid foundation.
As parents, we must cultivate children with sound personality, pass on beautiful moral concepts to children from an early age, guide them to have the integrity and backbone of being a person, help them form a beautiful heart, promote their healthy growth, and become useful to the country and the people when they grow up.