To love someone is to believe that you can give her the greatest happiness, but to make a person fall in love with you is not just blindly good to her, sometimes it also requires methods and skills.
The best way to make a middle-aged woman can't give up on you: pause in time. Take a look at the advice below and hopefully get you thinking.
01. The love for her is suspended in time, and the love is released little by little
When you love someone, you don't have to show all your love, being too enthusiastic will scare her away. Choose a gentler way, touch her little by little, make her inseparable from herself, and slowly she will also move closer to you.
Neighbor Uncle Han has been single for many years and has not been married. When others introduced him, he also laughed and shirked. But then he met someone he liked and began to pursue the aunt. But the aunt was annoyed with him and refused to agree to be with him.
Uncle Han was troubled by this, and later others told him that perhaps the method was wrong.
Love has to come slowly, and excessive enthusiasm will put pressure on her.
Uncle Han listened to other people's words, so he no longer frequently disturbed this aunt, and gradually this aunt began to feel a little uncomfortable, she had become accustomed to Uncle Han's kindness to her, and when he was not around, she began to miss him instead.
In this way, the two people began to get close to each other, and eventually a lover eventually became a family.
02. Suspend her requests in time and pay each other
No one is perfect, and the person you love may have many shortcomings. But when you see her strengths, all the shortcomings are negligible. Learn to be tolerant and understanding, don't ask her to change a lot for you, and let her forcibly become what you want to be.
Aunt Sun has a bad temper, and the neighbors around her do not like to interact with her, but her old partner Uncle Li is a very kind person. Many people wonder, how can Uncle Li endure Aunt Sun's temper? Uncle Li said that in the eyes of others, her personality is not good, but in my eyes, she is a good woman with a straightforward personality and a sharp work.
If you really love someone, then she is the best person, and too much demand will only make two people go against each other.
Learn to give, in love is not the person who pays more is to lose, on the contrary, in the process of giving, you will also feel satisfied when you see her moved by your efforts.
03. Concern for her past is suspended in time
What you love is the person as she is now, and you have not been involved in her past. So you're not in a position to make more accusations.
Uncle Liu met Aunt Zhao by chance and made up his mind to be with her. After being together, it is inevitable to mention the past, and Aunt Zhao is always concerned about the past, and Uncle Liu is very curious.
Later, he inquired about Aunt Zhao through an acquaintance, and learned that she had been married twice, and the previous two husbands had died. And she was afraid that Uncle Liu would think she was "Kefu", so she did not dare to tell him about this matter, and only lied to him that she had divorced twice.
Although Uncle Liu felt a little surprised when he knew, he could also understand Aunt Zhao's mood. He did not want to confront Aunt Zhao, nor did he want to be separated from Aunt Zhao in this matter. So he pretended not to know and stopped inquiring about her past.
Does it really matter what kind of past it is to really love someone? What you should care about is now and your future.
For a person who cannot let go of you, you must have a very important place in this person's heart.
Every time you boo warm and thoughtful, your silent and selfless dedication and care for her will make her heart slowly melt.
Love is like walking on a canoe bridge, we grope forward, expecting someone in front of us to wait for us.
Before being with that person, we walked with all our strength and carefully in her direction. You're trying to snoop into her mind, eager to get a response from her, hoping she'll take herself to heart.
In fact, a woman's heart is very soft, and whoever is good to her will fall in love with whom.
Especially middle-aged women, when their faces are gone, washed away, their children are married, and they are lonely, they always long for someone to accompany them.
If at this time there is someone who is willing to spend his mind on her and is willing to love her sincerely, she will definitely give up his sincerity and cannot give up the person who has always been good to her.
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