Everyone will look forward to a perfect love, expect someone to spoil you and love you, but not everyone can do it.
In this process, women always appear to be very humble, once she falls in love with a person, she will think about him everywhere, and even let go of all her pride, just to let him know his heart.
But is this really useful? For a person who doesn't love you, no matter what you do, it doesn't work, the more active you are, the farther he escapes, the more humble you are, the more he looks down on you.
Women always think that men are passive, their hearts are not delicate enough, but it is because he does not love you enough, it will appear passive, and the person who really loves you will take the initiative to find you.
When you understand this, don't continue to love humbly, it is better to change your concept and use 3 methods to let him take the initiative to contact you.
01
"Cold and cold" him, let him understand that you are not necessary for him
The reason why many women's relationships fail is not that the other party does not love, nor that the relationship has cracks, but that you value this relationship too much, and when you hold it more tightly, the other party will only want to escape.
You think that your enthusiasm is love for him, but in the eyes of the other party, this will have a kind of pressure, so that he has to stay with you, he wants to love you, but he does not dare, so he has to ignore you.
Sometimes, you may wish to "chill" him and let him understand that you are not indispensable to him, you have a lot of things to do, you have many people to love, if he does not love you, there are others to come close to you.
When you do this, he will start to get nervous, worried about losing you at any time, at this time, how dare he ignore you, I am afraid that he will always chase you.
02
Find something else to do and don't let yourself think about it
When a man ignores you, do you feel crazy, you can't guess his mind, you don't know what he is doing, but the more you think like this, the more you can't get the answer.
Even, when you contact him frequently and want him to give you an answer, you still get no response, at this time, it will only be more sad, and you may suspect that everything before is false.
If the other party does not take the initiative to contact you, or even ignore you, then you must not drill the tip of the horn, it is better to put this matter aside, to do something that interests you, to talk to friends, when you have your own things to do, you will not always think about this matter, things may turn around.
When he finds out about your importance, he will naturally take the initiative to contact you to see what you are doing, why he has ignored him recently, people are selfish, the more you cling to him, he will feel very annoyed, you leave him, he is afraid of losing you from now on.
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Sink your heart, the person who should contact you will always contact you
At the end of the day, if a person wants to reach out to you proactively, he can find an opportunity to contact you no matter what the situation, rather than keep making excuses and saying that he is busy or doesn't have time or the like.
If he has not been active, it only means that you are not important in his heart, he does not love you so much, in this case, all you have to do is to give up, rather than continue to ask why he ignores you.
When the other party does not contact you, it is better to sink your heart and wait patiently, the person who should contact you, no matter when, will always contact you, do not want to contact your person, even if you take the initiative, he is indifferent.
Feelings this thing is like this, not you have been moving forward, he will definitely go to you, only two-way rush, in order to finally become a family, only one person to pay, most of them can not achieve this relationship, it is better to let go.
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Conclusion
When the man does not take the initiative to contact you, do not worry, do not entangle, the more you pestering him, the more he will only want to ignore you, in the end can not end decently.
You should learn to "cool down" him, let him understand that you must not be him, and at the same time find something to do for yourself, don't think about it all the time, maybe things will turn around.
After all, the person who loves you will definitely find the time to contact you actively, and the person who does not love you, no matter what you do, he will not take the initiative.