Mr. Mao, a doctor "Tiger Dad" in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province,
Forcing the 7-year-old son to go to the first grade of elementary school and the 5-year-old daughter to go to kindergarten
Learn the knowledge of secondary school and university,
For example, literature and advanced mathematics,
And learn late at night,
Children will not learn to be abused and beaten by him.
These behaviors shocked netizens!
Local public security, women's federations and teachers intervened in mediation,
But Mr. Mao always believes that he is "for the good of the children",
The advanced education of children is only a "household chore".
The child's mother had no choice but to turn to the court for help.
A few days ago, the Nanjing Jianye District People's Court issued a personal safety protection order,
Set the duration of the protection order to three months.
Son 7 years old, daughter 5 years old,
It should have been a carefree age,
Coupled with the introduction of the "double reduction policy" issued by the state,
Two children should enjoy more fun,
As a result, he was forced not to sleep to learn high numbers and literature.
After reading a doctorate yourself, you have to force your child to read a doctorate?
This is no longer "seedling-fueled",
Rather, it is an uprooted type of "destroying seedlings and fueling growth".
Imagine a child's childhood missing toys, games, sports,
How much rebellion will be generated in future learning,
How dim and dull childhood will become.
Children at this age are the key stages of growing up their bodies.
Forcing them to study late at night can lead to a loss of vision and loss of appetite.
The body will collapse.
"Tiger Dad" willfully "a fierce operation like a tiger",
The "positive benefits" of forcibly instilling advanced knowledge,
Far less than mental devastation, improper methods, emotional trauma, etc
brought about by the growth "counter-effect",
This is really a case of family education failure.
"Hope for the son to become a dragon" and "hope for a girl to become a phoenix" is the simple wish of many parents.
"Tiger Dad" is understandably worried about the growth of children,
But you can't use identity authority,
Treat children as objects.
Homeschooling is not just a family affair,
It is also a matter of the rule of law.
His children are still minors,
Subject to the Civil Code, the Law on the Protection of Minors
Protection of several laws, including the Family Education Promotion Act,
He is not alone.
In the academic pyramid, the doctoral degree is in the high-end position,
Mr. Mao should know the law and understand the law.
But his practice of beating and scolding was not only swept away by Sven,
More domestic violence,
Violating the legitimate rights and interests of children.
The Nanjing Jianye District People's Court gave "Tiger Dad" a three-month period,
It's a cooling-off period, and it's a warning.
Although Mr. Mao's "snatching away" and "abusing the baby" are a case,
But the educational anxiety behind the commonality is widespread in society,
Especially in the relatively highly educated group,
The anxiety of "falling academic level" is even worse,
The "war" between the parents of the "school bully" and the "scum" of the child was once very fierce.
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The video of "Dr. 985's mother tutoring her daughter's homework was crying" once caused a hot discussion;
An associate professor at Peking University complained that her daughter was a "student scum" who had been on the hot search.
A sentence "do not tutor homework father and daughter filial piety, a tutoring homework chicken flying dog jump",
It shows the concern of many Kochi families about "excellent parents and ordinary children".
Erudite people are not necessarily parenting experts.
To cultivate children, we must act in accordance with the laws of education.
Kochi parents can not be too obsessed with their own "path to success",
Simply copy and paste it on the child;
The experience of "rolling" oneself up in the past,
Let the child repeat the "roll" again,
"Roll on top of roll?"
Recently
From the off-campus training industry out of the clean-up,
To do a large vocational education and other talent exports,
Then pilot policies such as parental leave in many places,
are promoting the equitable distribution of educational resources,
Correcting the distorted view of education,
To provide a broad development world for all kinds of talents,
Set aside more time for parent-child companionship.
Parents should also take the initiative to establish a correct concept of education.
Explore differentiated cultivation paths,
Infinite expansion of children's "blue ocean".
The purpose of education is to cultivate a complete person -
Love life,
You can find your own life track and keep trying to move forward.