There is a magnetic field between people, and different people will also emit different magnetic fields and energy, and they will affect each other.
With different people, there will really be completely different feelings.
In fact, people are all social people, it is inevitable to deal with other people, it is inevitable to ensure that they are not affected, but what kind of people to deal with, this is what needs to be distinguished and screened.
Studies have shown that after thirty minutes, an optimistic person and a pessimistic person are together, and after thirty minutes the optimistic person begins to sigh and become negative, which shows that negative energy spreads faster.
Near Zhu is red and close to ink is black, this is the same truth. What kind of friends you choose, it is easy to become what kind of people, so you must be cautious about making friends, know what kind of people to avoid, and know how to interact with what kind of people.
Life is a process of continuous effort, it does not matter if you are temporarily behind, you are afraid of losing your fighting spirit and heart, lazy and lazy, but only learn to complain.
Working hard in society has always been a matter of one point of hard work and one point of harvest, if you do not work hard but fantasize about the pie in the sky, it is a whimsical idea.
In the face of the tempering and tests of life, some people are more and more frustrated and courageous, have the courage to face it, and never give up their love for life; but some people only learn to complain, and they can't withstand the slightest setback, and they have long raised their hands and surrendered.
In today's society, as long as you work hard, life will always get better little by little, but some people will be jealous when they see others living well, and when they see their own downfall, they will only complain about the injustice of heaven.
His poverty is not material, it is mental poverty, it is a kind of thinking and spirit, he has been defeated in the will, people to middle age, if you still do not work hard, only know to cry poor, then this kind of person is really difficult to turn over, and can not give you any positive impact.
The more I grow up, the more I understand the importance of money, and it is really not tacky to talk about money, because all aspects of life need money, and it is also throughout our lives.
Therefore, in order to give children better living conditions, in order to create a better family, we have been working hard, sometimes frustrated, but home is our constant driving force for progress.
However, some people, who have not made progress in these years, have been in retrogression, living lazily and without a sense of responsibility. When he was young, he did not do things steadily, muddy, until middle age, he was still like this, he became more lazy, he knew that he had no money, but he never worked hard, and he played pitiful to win the sympathy and pity of others, such a person lived too irresponsibly, and he was also irresponsible to his family.
No one is a step to the heavens, most of us are ordinary people, but have a heart that is not willing to be ordinary, relying on their own hands, step by step to build their own lives, to create, to change, to middle age, there will be a certain accumulation.
However, until middle age, some people can't understand the true meaning of life, are unwilling to face the real life, cry and complain every day, dream of getting rich overnight, only know that it will bring trouble to relatives and friends, become a burden, but will not reflect and feel guilty.
Such a person is already a diehard, he is very difficult to have anything to do, do not go near such a person, otherwise you will only be dragged into the water and become bad.
Without money, just work hard to earn, pay the corresponding time and action, life will always get better little by little; middle-aged people who will only cry poor are really incurable, not worthy of pity, not worth your anger, far away is enough.
You can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, his situation is his own fault, he also understands why he has become like this, but he is willing to fall, so no matter how much you help, it will not help, but it will increase his anger.
A poor person is doomed to achieve nothing, stumbling to old age, you can't impress him, you can't help him, and even thankless, it will seriously affect your mood, disintegrate your willpower, make you lazy, you should wake up.
Don't take your time and effort for a person who is not worthy, get close to the person who is worthy of being close, and stay away from the person who will only bring you negative energy and make you unhappy, you don't need to have too much compassion, you just need to be responsible for your life.
A person who has been short of money for a long time, but only knows how to complain and cry about poverty, is not worthy of sympathy, be cruel, and avoid being negatively affected.
epilogue:
The environment is really important, and what kind of people to be friends with, there will really be a different experience.
With people who are motivated and love life, you will be full of fighting spirit and will also arouse the love of life. And with a person who is passive and decadent and voluntarily lives in the dark world all day, you will also become passive and confused unconsciously.
A person reaches middle age, but still does not know how to work hard, only knows to cry poor, indicating that his life is like this, why do you have to entangle with him.
Only by spending more time with people who can make a positive impact on you can you become better, see more beauty, and make life meaningful again.