The fourth brother is so small [Day 191]: You Heng's death, is it unjust?

1. There is a famous madman in the Three Kingdoms, that is, You Heng, why is he called crazy?

2. The first time he met Cao Cao, You Heng ridiculed Cao Cao, who did not read poetry, did not know the talents, did not listen to advice, was a turbid person, and said that Cao Cao's men had a group of wine bags and rice bags, and there was no talent to use.

3. Of course, this remark infuriated Cao Cao, but Cao Cao did not kill him directly, but recommended You Heng to Liu Biao. Because Cao Cao did not want to bear the notoriety of slaughtering famous soldiers, he threw the pot to Liu Biao. Liu Biao was not stupid, knowing that Cao Cao had deliberately done it, so he finally recommended You Heng to Huang Zu of Jiangxia. Huang Zu was a small warlord, a rough man, and his quality did not reach the level of Cao Cao and Liu Biao. Therefore, when You Heng spoke again, before he could say a few words, he was pulled out and beheaded by the grumpy Huang Zu.

4. So, your death, is it unjust? You Heng may indeed be talented, otherwise Kong Rong, one of the seven sons of Jian'an, would not have strongly recommended You Heng to Cao Cao. But You Heng was arrogant and arrogant, scolded Cao Cao, scolded Liu Biao, scolded Liu Biao, and cursed Huang Zu. Therefore, the death of You Heng cannot get around a hurdle, that is, emotional intelligence.

5. In short, the death of You Heng has lit up a warning light for us to settle down and deal with people, perhaps humility, perhaps forbearance, perhaps the art and doorway of speech.