Do you still have the courage to test it?

In the process of accompanying my children, I read a picture book that made me particularly touched.

Storyline

While walking, the little mouse encounters danger, and when it encounters foxes, owls, and small snakes, they all want to eat it. And it made up a character, Gollum Cow, to describe what it looked like, and said that it was here to meet.

Unexpectedly, in the end, I really met the Gollum Cow, exactly as it described. The little mouse is very afraid, but it is very witty, telling it that everyone is very afraid of it, in fact, everyone has seen the Gollum cow behind it, and finally said that the mouse loves to eat Gollum beef, and scares the Gollum cow away.

Later, Gollum had a girl. When Gollum told her girlfriend about the terrible rat, she didn't believe it, showed a skeptical attitude, and while her father was sleeping, she sneaked out on her own to find the rat.

Inspired by the story

The most frightening thing is that I don't know that I don't know, I don't know that I am in error, I think I know, I think I am right, but I am actually wrong.

In the wrong direction, I have been immersed in mistakes, and I must continue to learn, to exercise my metacognitive ability, to analyze problems, to think about problems, and to think of solutions.

A grunting cow so big would be afraid of a mouse. It itself never thought back to the details, never looked back. If you review it once, you will find problems, if you think, you will find problems,

It is also terrifying that those perceptual abilities that belong to one's own mistakes are passed on.

To think, what is passed on to future generations should not be fear, but the ability to cope with difficulties, should be courage, should be the courage of constant trial and error, should be good at thinking mind.

Children are braver than us

As a parent, I was thinking. Children have more curiosity than we do, more courage than we want to verify.

Many times, when others say that they can't do anything, they won't be like when I was a child, I don't listen to my grandmother, you don't let me do anything, I have to do something. As you get older, choose to believe, choose not to try, choose not to verify, just blindly accept.

Accepting the advice of others, and then not thinking about it, in fact, there is a question in the depths of my heart. And this question may only be able to find the answer that you did not solve when you had children in the future.

Courage

From the little mouse, I also experienced a lot, facing those animals who want to eat themselves, but can not be afraid of danger, so calm.

Why not for us? What's the use of fear, danger arises, is it useful to immerse yourself in fear?

It is better to jump out quickly, go to other places to find the key, and think of a solution, otherwise, the next second, it will become the belly of others. Surviving is the most important, living is the most important, staying on the table is the most important.

Storytelling

Little mouse, this character really needs to learn, need to learn, in addition to bravery, in addition to not being afraid of danger, there is a particularly powerful, powerful skill, that is, storytelling.

How to tell a story particularly well? How to tell the story vividly and vividly? How is it passed on to others?

It's important to learn to tell a story, and stories always move people's hearts.

How about having the ability to tell a good story?

The ability to express oneself is particularly important, that confidence is particularly important, that ability to tell a story, the importance of telling a vivid story, the ability to describe specific details is particularly important.

Observe more, accumulate more.

Inheritance

In the education of children, what is passed on should not be money, but those things that have penetrating power, things that are really beneficial.

Courage, the courage to face new things, the courage to dare to try, should be one of them.

Don't pass on your misconceptions to her. When your child wants to try, when it's safe, let her be bold and try.