This is the well-known host of Radio Television Hong Kong Leung Ji-cheung. In the last days of his life, he wrote a letter to his son, which quickly circulated on major websites, and many fathers were deeply touched by it. This letter is not only very inspiring for my son, it is also suitable for everyone! The number of words is small, which contains the father's perception of life and the infinite love for their children, which is very touching! Please spread the word!
My son: I wrote this memorandum to you, based on three principles:
(1) Life is blessed and uncertain, no one knows how long they can live, and some things are better said earlier.
(ii) I am your father, I will not tell you, no one will tell you.
(3) What this memorandum records is my experience through tragic failure, which can save you a lot of wrongs for your growth.
Here are some things you should remember in your life:
(a) People who are bad to you, you don't mind too much. No one in your life is obligated to be nice to you, except me and your mother. People who are good to you, you must cherish and be grateful.
(ii) No one is irreplaceable, and nothing must be possessed. Seeing through this, even if you lose everything you love most in the world, you should understand that this is not a big deal.
(iii) Life is short, and you may still be wasting your life today, but tomorrow you will find that life is far away from you. Therefore, the sooner you cherish life, the more days you will enjoy it. Instead of hoping for a long life, it is better to enjoy it early.
(iv) Love is just a feeling, and this feeling will change with time and mood. If your so-called favorite leaves you, please wait patiently, let time slowly wash away, let the soul slowly precipitate, and your suffering will slowly fade. Don't overly dream of the beauty of love, don't exaggerate the sadness of lost love.
(v) Although many accomplished people do not have much education, it does not mean that they can succeed without studying. What you learn is the weapon you have. People can start from scratch, but they can't be unarmed, remember!
(vi) I will not ask you to provide for the rest of my life, and I will not provide for the rest of your life. By the time you're old enough to be independent, my responsibilities are over. In the future, whether you take the bus or mercedes, eat shark fin or fans, you will be responsible for yourself.
(vii) You can ask yourself to be trustworthy, but you can't ask others to be trustworthy; you can ask yourself to be good to others, but you can't expect others to be good to you; how you treat others does not mean that others will treat you, if you can't see through this, it will only add unnecessary troubles to you.
(viii) I bought the lottery for 26 years, or I am still poor and white, and I have not even won the third prize, which proves that people have to be developed, or they have to work hard, and there is no free lunch in the world.
(IX) Relatives only have one fate, no matter how long I and you will spend together in this life, you must cherish the time of getting together, and in the next life, whether we love or not, we will not see each other again.
This letter is not only very inspiring for my son, it is also suitable for everyone! The number of words is small, which contains the father's perception of life and the infinite love for their children, which is very touching!