Hello everyone, I'm Lady Bird.
If you always feel that you have become ugly after falling in love, it may not be an illusion, but a side hint that you are talking about a garbage relationship.
The "ugly" mentioned here is not getting fat after falling in love. After all, fat does not mean ugly, and this kind of happiness caused by too much happiness can prove to some extent that you have found the right person.
I mean when you're in an intimate relationship, it starts to get worse and worse both on the inside and out.
I had a meal with a friend the other day. She had always been in a long-distance relationship before, and last year she resigned for her boyfriend and went to another city to redevelop.
What people did not expect was that they eliminated the geographical distance, but the distance between hearts and hearts was getting bigger and bigger. The endless quarrels since they started living together, all in all, the relationship has brought her a lot of negative emotions.
When they were breaking up, my friend made a trip back to Beijing, and at that time I saw that her whole state was really visible to the naked eye.
Including herself, she also said that she did not know whether it was a psychological effect or what was going on, and how she looked in the mirror recently and how she was not satisfied. It seems that the skin is getting worse and worse, the acne is constant, the eyes are unfocused, and the nasolabial lines on the face are not going down.
Sometimes a relationship is not worth it, in fact, it can be seen from the face of the person. It's not that it's metaphysics or alarmism, it's that emotions do have a big impact on people.
I once read an article about people's emotions affecting the secretion of neurotransmitters. When people accumulate more and more emotions, brain impulses are generated, causing changes in facial muscles.
That is to say, because of your own emotions, you will make the facial muscles contract involuntarily, such as frowning, or the corners of the mouth droop, looking full of anxiety.
This is only a superficial change in expression.
The most frightening thing is that bad emotions + psychological pressure will also cause a large number of free radical molecules to be produced in the body. Know that free radical molecules are substances that can cause the skin to lose its elasticity, and it is one of the culprits of our aging.
Once free radicals in the body begin to accumulate in the body, our cells will begin to age, collagen will decrease, and the roughness, wrinkles, and pigmentation of the skin will sooner or later.
What's more, when people are angry, there will be a certain degree of disorder in the body's functions, such as endocrine disorders.
As soon as the girls heard these five words, they must have known what it meant. Mild skin deterioration and acne, severe menstrual irregularities, including physical health problems.
I know that once a person falls in love, holding the expectation of loving and being loved, it is impossible not to have any disputes. But some people can solve problems and promote relationships through quarrels, while others will only accumulate negative emotions and even vicious circles.
So if you're facing this situation, it really just goes to say that withdrawing from the relationship as early as possible is the right solution.
Or the old saying, falling in love is to make people happy, if you often quarrel with your partner, both unhappy and unconsciously ugly because of these disputes, the last thing you will end up with will only be hurt from the inside out.
Always squeezed work, unfair friendships, or unhealthy family relationships, in fact, not only intimate relationships, anything that makes you start to get worse and worse, may show you your inner emotions through external changes.
Indeed, adults are saddled with all kinds of stress and emotions. Indeed, sometimes the self-regulation of the mind is also just needed. But beyond that, taking care of your feelings is also a top priority.
So the next time you don't know if you should continue with something or a relationship, look in the mirror, maybe your expression and your face will give you the answer.
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Well, this issue is basically over here, and I hope it will help you.
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