Is there a determination to do something? Is there a determination to love someone? In fact, it seems very simple, but the time and energy required behind it is torturous. We all understand a lot of truth, but how many people are really implementing it?
We understand a lot of truths, but why do we still have a bad life? It is because many truths are limited to knowing, and we have not put them into practice.
Think about how much time your current self spends polishing on one thing a day. Or is it that this thing is done, that thing is done, and unconsciously a lot of time is wasted, and the final result is that you find yourself delayed.
When we do something, the first principle of thinking is that this thing can be done? If you can't do it, isn't it a waste of your time? So I didn't do it wholeheartedly, and the results were predictable. In fact, a person's ability to believe is very important, believe that they can do it, believe that they can see the future results, which is the key to a person's achievement of great things.
When we love someone, the first principle of thinking is that the other person loves me? Is the other person really worthy of my love? What if I meet a girl who is better than her? At this time, it is necessary to test yourself, at this time, you have to weigh the pros and cons, will the love for this person be reduced a lot at this time?
What if we changed a mental model? Choosing to do this is good in the long run, it can have results, even if the current results are not satisfactory, but it does not matter, you just need to firmly believe in one point: if you stick to it, you will definitely be able to see the results. So are we confident in doing this? It will also be much more determined.
We choose a person to love, then we love well, just think about how to love each other every day, how to resonate with each other, how to connect with each other, how to be comfortable with each other. This is an ability to love, this ability to love needs to be cultivated, it is necessary to constantly communicate with each other, and it is necessary to constantly get along with each other and know each other.
In the process of doing this and loving this person, we don't need to worry about what we will lose? We don't have to complain about what we're going to lose, we just need to keep ourselves going according to our plans every day. Just do this one thing, just love this person, and the other distractions will not think, and the other distractions will not think.
Because the more distractions, the more distractions there are, and in the end, many things cannot be done, and if they cannot be done, they will seriously affect their mood. When we do one thing without distractions, we will focus all our time and energy on this one thing, thus constantly amplifying its value and making this value grow a thousand times over.
Looking back on the road you have traveled, do you find that you still have achieved nothing today? Still unknown to this day? Still confused to this day? I still don't know what I should do next? This is actually not thinking seriously about what they are going to do. What exactly are you going to do?
Many things need to be a little deep thinking before you can make a firm choice, this choice for yourself, is an opportunity, but also a kind of upward growth wisdom.
To sum up: unswervingly do a correct and difficult thing, no matter what the result is, just consider the process well; love someone with a dead heart, no matter what the result is, just tell yourself that you have loved it well.