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Many people feel that modern love is becoming more and more difficult.
You never know whether your sincerity will be exchanged for the other party's sincerity. Sometimes you are serious, the other party is just a scene, in this unequal relationship, you are doomed to be bruised.
In the long run, I dare not talk about love easily, and I would rather be proudly single than be wronged in a wrong relationship.
In fact, whether men are affectionate or just play, it is easy to see. It's just that many times, the authorities are obsessed with bystanders, and we are always aware of it.
In front of you, if a man has the following three impulses, it is obvious that he is serious, not a play. Even if you lack one, it may not be to treat you as true love.
Some of these impulses are psychological, some are physiological, and the physiological level is easy to see, but it is also easy to misunderstand. Only by polishing your eyes and being more alert can you make a correct judgment.
One: the urge for you to become better
Truly good love must be achieved by each other. When a man starts to change himself from the moment he falls in love with you, it can be seen that the impact of this love on him is immeasurable.
Xu Meng and her boyfriend were in love for two years, and she initially complained that her boyfriend did not understand romance, and even confessed that she did not know what gifts to prepare carefully.
Later, the more tests the two experienced together, the more Xu Meng could feel that her boyfriend loved him from the bottom of his heart.
When the two eat together, the man will take the initiative to remove the coriander for her; the man will remember what she says casually, and let her do as soon as possible; her physiological period will be particularly uncomfortable, and the man will prepare medicine in advance every time and boil brown sugar water for her.
This tenderness hidden in the details makes women feel the love of men in their hearts.
The life of two people, such as people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge. Every change of men, women can actually be keenly aware, they may be shy to show love on their mouths, but they will definitely hide this warmth in their hearts.
Loving someone will willingly change for the other party, and this change is not to wrongfully humiliate yourself to please the other party, but to make yourself feel happy.
A man goes from carelessness to gentleness and delicacy, both to give his beloved a better love, but also to allow himself to grow in love.
Love is a wonderful scenery in the journey of life, both men and women, are in love to better taste life, cultivation and perfection of themselves.
Two: Can't help but be nervous about you, the urge to care about you
A man who only wants to play with you will not really care about you, on the contrary, he will only look for you when he needs it, and when he does not need it, he may not even reply to your information.
But the man who moves the true feelings is different, he will not help but care for you, nervous you, and always put you in his heart, the most important position.
Hu Min shared her emotional experience with her friends, and when she first met Xu Kai, the other party did not have any pity for Yu Yu.
Once, Hu Min was preparing to go home after the end of the company's team building, but it was difficult to get a car because it was too late at night, so he asked Xu Kai to give him a ride. But she never expected that Xu Kai was called to a party by a friend halfway through, so she put her on the halfway and let her take a taxi back by herself.
Although the two were not boyfriend and girlfriend at that time, Hu Min also did not have a good impression of this man, and even later when the other party took the initiative to pursue himself, he repeatedly politely refused.
But when the two become lovers, men's attitude towards women has changed dramatically, always worried that women are hurt, as long as they perceive that women's emotions are not right, their hearts will also be flustered.
In the world of love, when a man truly falls in love with a person, his heart will not set a premise for the other party to consider, even if the woman is all right, she can't help but worry about it.
Men do not worry too much about women they don't like, but will focus more on their own lives.
Love or no love, in fact, there are obvious omens.
If a woman is fortunate enough to meet a man who truly loves herself, cherish it with her heart, don't let it down; if the man's attitude towards himself is always indifferent, don't deceive himself, and let go calmly, it is not a kind of happiness.
Three: Have a physiological urge to hug or kiss you
If the above two belong to the psychological level, then this one belongs to the physiological level, which is also the most intuitive, but also the most easily misunderstood.
The production of love is accompanied by the secretion of hormones, so it acts on the human body and produces different physiological impulses.
But the man who truly loves you will resist this impulse because he will respect your wishes, and in the case of your disagreement, he will not force you, but slowly soften your heart with actions.
The man who plays every scene only thinks about himself and does not care about your feelings at all. They are selfish, even obscene, and must know how to discern so as not to be hurt themselves.
Whether men play or are emotional, can be seen from the above three impulses. Women should not be carried away by the love of the moment, lose their minds, and only by making correct judgments can they have true love.
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