Since when, compared with finding a partner after twenty years old and getting married as soon as possible, many women seem to be less and less eager to get married.
There is no rush to talk about a relationship, and there is no rush to complete the marriage before how many years old.
Yes, more and more women, rather than trying to find someone to marry quickly, even if they can't find one, they just prefer to stay single and be alone.
It is precisely because of this that the single rate is getting higher and higher, and more and more women are single.
Some women may not have been single for long, and some women have been single for many years.
For many years, for a long time, I was always alone, and I never got too close to anyone.
There are always people who think that women who have been single for a long time will look very abnormal, but in fact, there is nothing wrong with them, but it is not simple.
Think about it, if a woman is very afraid of loneliness and has no way to endure the loneliness of a person, then of course she will not always be alone, but will continue to search, hoping that someone can come to her side.
In order to be able to achieve this goal, even if she does not love, she will be willing to be together.
In her opinion, two people are always better than one person, at least someone to talk to herself and do something with herself.
A woman who can't stand loneliness can't always live alone, and when a woman can be single for many years and there is no one around, it is obvious that she must be very receptive to that kind of life.
Occasionally she may feel that a person's years, it seems a little lonely, there will be some emptiness in her heart, but even so, she will still feel that all this is bearable, and it is not a big deal.
No one else can eat alone, go shopping alone, sleep alone, she can.
And even if she does these things alone, she will not feel anything, only feel very ordinary, and even enjoy it, and she enjoys the feeling.
Even if it is a person, the days are not so lively, she is also living seriously, taking care of her own days, and not treating herself casually because there is no one around.
Basically, before the age of twenty, a woman will have parents to rely on, and her parents will be responsible for their own food, clothing, shelter and transportation.
After a certain age, once you go out of school, everyone is the same and needs to be responsible for their own lives.
Coming to the adult world, if you do not have a certain ability, there is no way to support yourself, the sound of marriage will easily come to you, your parents and relatives, they will worry that you have no way to take care of yourself, and will force you to hurry up and get married.
In the face of such a situation, there is no certain strength, there is not much opinion, it is difficult for you to insist on yourself, you will only be at the mercy of your parents, really kiss the person they arrange, and soon enter the marriage with a person who you are not satisfied with.
In contrast, a woman who can be single for many years, still single after twenty-five, single after twenty-eight, single in her thirties, is generally quite independent.
With an independent economic foundation, you can solve your own life, but also have an independent spirit, can not always listen to your parents, not the clouds, you can decide your own affairs.
A woman who is independent and assertive, and has a certain material foundation, she is very ordinary, but she is really remarkable.
She no longer expects to live on anyone, and she just wants to take on her own life.
I have to say that if you just want to find someone to marry, it can really be relatively simple.
There are so many years in the world, even if they don't love and are not satisfied, many people will still be willing to get married.
When it is not difficult to get married, a woman can still be single for so many years, it is obvious that for love, she has her own standards and requirements, and is not willing to casually tie her life to whom.
In her heart, for love, she still has her own expectations.
From beginning to end, what she wants is not to live with a person, but a truly compatible soul, who really appreciates each other, loves each other, and really wants to form a family with each other and live together for the rest of their lives.
For her, if she met such a person, she would love without reservation and pleasure.
If she had never met, she would rather be alone, she would not be willing to be with whom to be hypocritical, easily enter a relationship, and then always succumb to reality, and live an unhappy life with the other party, while feeling unwilling, but also always looking forward to other possibilities.
Either she loves with her heart, or she doesn't love, she looks weak, she is so sober, with such a strong heart.
People who can be single for more than five years are not casual people, and they are also quite powerful.
If you happen to be like this, your attitude is commendable, and at the same time, you had better not always resign yourself to it, too much of a Buddhist system.
So good you, worthy of a very good relationship, worthy of winning the desired happiness as soon as possible.
You are good, you are worth it, but you must also know that the more you have a certain age, the more difficult it is for that person to appear in your life out of thin air, and if you want to have happiness, you have to work hard and take the initiative to fight for it.
It is best to act quickly, to get to know more people, to find that person as soon as possible.
Always have to look for it, really find it, so that you have waited for so many years.
So many days and nights, you have been single, is you enjoy such years, more, after all, you are always waiting, hoping that someone can appear, so that you are willing to end single.
Text/Tan Meng
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