Setbacks are God's gift to us

Carnegie said, "Setbacks are the plans of nature through which they test human beings so that they may be fully prepared for the work that follows; setbacks are the strict tests of mankind by nature, by which it burns the residue of man's heart, so that the 'metal' of mankind is therefore pure and can withstand strict use." ”

Setbacks can make people stronger. There is a little story about how a father who was a thief passed on his craft to his son. This thief's father always took his son with him every time he went to steal, and in ancient times there were not many means of stealing like we do now, and the trick used to steal things at that time was usually to dig a hole, and if you wanted to steal something from a family member, dig a hole in the wall and drill into it. The thief's son followed his father in stealing, and in the blink of an eye he reached the age of 18. One day, he asked his father, "Father, you take me to steal every day, and I always follow you to steal." What if you can't move one day in the future? The father was very happy to hear that his son was so "self-motivated", and thought in his heart: The son has such a thought, which shows that he is willing to make a living independently and is very successful. So the thief's father decided to teach his son one or two tricks. But how can we make my son progress fast? The father did not sit down and tell his son how to keep the theft out of sight, he took his son to a large family as usual, or the same, they dug a hole and sneaked into the rich man's house, and the father and son soon arrived at the house. There was a wardrobe in this room, and the father asked his son to open it to see what was valuable inside. As soon as the son opened the closet, he was pushed in by his father, and immediately locked the wardrobe, and then ran from the hole that came in, and plugged the hole with thorns. At this point in the story, it may be very puzzling, why does this father treat his children like this? But this is not the end of the day, the father ran out, came to the main door of the house, knocked on the door and told them that there were thieves in the house, and asked them to hurry up and catch the thieves. Is this father crazy? Do you want to put your son to death?

His son was locked in a cabinet in a hurry and kept banging on it. The family heard a sound in the cupboard and immediately lit the lamp. The son knew that the cabinet would be found as soon as it was opened, and immediately began to learn the rat to squeak. As soon as the owner heard that it was a rat, he did not continue to search.

After the sound outside calmed down, the son hurriedly kicked open the closet, intending to escape from the hole that came in. Unexpectedly, the hole was actually blocked by thorns. So he had to hurry outside the gate. Such a big movement disturbed the owner of the house and chased after him. Coincidentally, there was a well in front of it, and there was a stone by the side of the well, and the son of the thief quickly threw the stone into the well. Since it was night, vague, the owner thought it was the thief who was afraid of being caught and jumped into the well. When people inspected the well, the thief's son had already slipped away with a cigarette.

After returning home, the first thing the son did was to angrily scold his father: "Why did you do this to me today?" Isn't this an attempt to kill me? The thief asked his son how he escaped, and the son recounted the whole process with a complaining mouth, and the father smiled and said, "You have learned the trick yourself!" ”

Of course, we know that stealing is shameful, but in the way fathers teach their sons tricks, they prove a truth: although setbacks are not willing to face, those who have experienced setbacks will become stronger.

Adversity and setbacks are the last things people want to face in their lives, but as long as you stand up and hold on, you will feel that after those trials, you are no longer afraid of the kind of setbacks you endured before, and you will become able to face worse adversity and more powerful enemies.

Learn to forge ahead in setbacks, when you encounter difficulties will not be afraid, when you encounter good times, you can grow more quickly. No matter from any point of view, the loss caused by setbacks is always only temporary, and your gains are always eternal.

Setbacks are a valuable asset, and if you dream of becoming a successful person, then you should tell yourself: Don't be afraid of setbacks knocking on the door! Let the setbacks come more violently! Setbacks will leave traces on your body, it can make your life bloom brilliantly, paving the way for you to success.

There is a Japanese swimming gym where the "scenery" is unusually peculiar, where you can see crocodiles. It's strange, why are there crocodiles in the swimming pool? Those crocodiles are used to help people train, after the trainees jump into the water, the coach will put a few crocodiles that have not eaten for several days into the pool, the crocodiles will desperately chase after seeing people, although the team members already know that the crocodiles will not eat them, because the crocodile's mouth has been tightly entangled, but seeing the crocodile's fierce appearance, it still feels very scared, and will reflexively swim forward desperately. Therefore, they can not only learn to swim in a very short time, but also swim very fast. Enemies can often tap into your potential, and dilemmas often let you know your true abilities.

Don't be afraid of setbacks knocking on the door, there are setbacks, in order to create an accomplished you!