01 Special concern for the opposite sex
If a man and a woman care about you and are particularly attentive to you, it means that he or she has an intention for you, and if you are both single, you may like you, or maybe you have other purposes. So if you don't want to have further development with each other, then you must look at the problem rationally, and don't end up entangled. If you both have a family or one party has a family, and the opposite sex is particularly concerned about you, it is an ambiguous relationship with you.
02 I have a family but I like to talk to the opposite sex
A person who truly loves his family does not have the time and experience to have endless conversations with the opposite sex that he does not know or the familiar opposite sex. Because in addition to going to work, I hope to stay with my family and spend more time with my family.
And a person who has to engage in ambiguity with others in addition to his own family has endless conversations with others every day. All kinds of ambiguous words and all kinds of care, some people are okay to just chat about ambiguous text messages, just spiritual derailments. Some people will take action when they talk, and finally it is physical derailment.
A person who really loves himself and loves his family will not have such a realization.
03 Likes to make friends of the opposite sex
I once saw a monologue of a netizen, because of the unhappiness of marriage, I felt lonely and lonely on the Internet to find a variety of men to chat ambiguously, if it is in the same city to chat and chat with each other to meet each other. When you meet and talk, you will have a relationship with each other. This has been going on for many years.
How lonely is such a person, and is the unhappiness of marriage the reason for being ambiguous with others? Is the unhappiness of marriage the reason for the outside mess? In fact, it is not, marriage unfortunate can be divorced, ah, you can make yourself live well. Why do you keep belittling yourself and abusing yourself?
Many people in life are taking ambiguity with others as the joy of life. But life is full of justice and humanity. There is a saying that evil does not suppress the right, and many times we still have to accumulate virtue and do good. Doing more things that violate morality will not have any good results after all.