School bullying is really everywhere, please take care of your own children, don't let it out bullying and harm other students!
Needless to say about the campus, many parents are first concerned about their children's learning problems, followed by their children's safety issues, whether they are bullied in school.
Leaving aside the problem of children's learning in school, what makes many parents feel headaches is school bullying. Especially in recent years, there have been incidents of bullying on campuses, which have seized the headlines of major networks from time to time, leaving countless parents concerned.
Some time ago, a boy was bullied at school, and the child's father shouted in a loud voice: "The classmate who hit you, if you hit you the first time, you can forgive him; when you hit you the second time, you can also forgive him." But, the third time you called me back. Lao Tzu sells cars, sells houses, Lao Tzu pays you compensation! Dad taught you not to cause trouble, but don't be afraid!
Such a domineering way of educating children to fight bullying has won the unanimous praise of netizens, and such an education method is very positive, it is simply too domineering!
However, the next one is not so lucky, in recent days, the 26-year-old photographer Lu Dawson chose to end his young life by suicide, and a suicide note left behind accused him of school bullying, revealing that he was because of long-term school bullying that caused him to feel desperate about life.
It can be seen that how serious the bullying on campus is now, and its impact on children is even more unimaginable.
Lu Dawson This matter just stopped a few days, a new school bullying incident came again....
Recently, the video of a girl being humiliated by her classmates on the street because of her neutral dress has once again entered everyone's attention, which has aroused the attention and heated discussion of many netizens.
At the beginning of the video, I only saw a male classmate and a female classmate insulting a female classmate dressed neutral on the street: "How can it be so unlucky, I met you here again, you are not a man or a woman, this is not our class man's wife.... What a hapless mess today! ”
These words are really insulting, and what is even more unexpected is that the female classmate who was insulted did not return the mouth at all, and buried her head to endure being scolded.
In the face of this scene, even passers-by could not bear to look directly at it, and directly said to the insulting girl: "Little girl, you look like this, have that kind of hairstyle, you don't feel disgusting!" ”
I thought it was over, but the next scene, I couldn't bear to look at it directly, and the girl who insulted her still said to the girl without hesitation: "Do you have a skirt?" Or tomorrow you will come over in a dress and show us what to play with, or if you will wear it tomorrow."
Such a forced tone was not enough, and he said to the male companion next to him in a sneering tone: "Can you imagine her wearing a skirt, laugh at me!" ”
What was even more indignant was that he also forced the girl to ask whether she went to the men's or women's toilet at school, and would not dare to go to the school toilet all day.
The boy next to him did not show weakness, pointing his finger at the girl angrily and yelling: "This matter is not allowed to be told to others tomorrow!" ”
Boy! Is it really angry to look at it, because dressing neutral is going to suffer such bullying? This scene, even passers-by could not see it, and they all extended a helping hand to the girl.
What are you doing? School violence! A lady next to her finally couldn't help but speak.
The two bullies also replied without shame: "This is my classmate, we didn't beat her!" "How dark the heart is, how thick the skin is."
Even more infuriating was still behind, and the male bully said to the two ladies next to him: "Our classmate is not a man or a woman, and his hair is so short!" ”
"Looks much more handsome than you, well, how good-looking people are, trouble you also look like this?" You can't grow up." The two ladies next to them used such a tone to scare the boy with nothing to say, which was really pleasing to watch.
At this point, another man came out to educate these two bullies, are you her parents? Are you her teacher? Did she owe you money, eat your rice, and sleep in your bed?
These two bullies did not know that they were wrong, and still bluntly said that she was her classmate, and she cried such words when she came, feeling that she was like nothing to do with herself, and she was really angry.
An uncle next to him couldn't bear it when he looked at it, and he scolded the two bullies: "You are a little girl, you have some mouth to talk, and you owe it!" ”
The boy was still not convinced, and still said that this was my classmate, and we were in the same class.
"Did your classmates say that?" Your parents didn't teach you how to talk as a person, just this quality, the teacher taught you so, don't care about them! The uncle immediately replied, really fiercely for this little girl to take a breath of evil.
"How she does it is her own choice, you like you can look at it twice, you don't like it can not look at it, but you have no right to hinder others from doing it, learn to respect others OK?" 」 Just because you think she's not a man or a woman, just train her like this? Are you happy that your parents say this about you? You're quite a man, and you haven't come up with a sense of manhood! A woman next to her also reprimanded the male classmate in this way.
Similarly, he also said to the little girl who was bullying: "As a sister, I really say a few words to you, you may not feel that it is a big harm to others now, and when you are older, you will really regret it, and others will teach you some principles of being a person." ”
For the little girl who was bullied and did not dare to refute, this lady was even more angry and blunt: "No matter what kind of person we are, at least it is our own choice, why let others say, you should refute this thing, they have no right to say you, but you have the right to refute!" ”
In the end, a school bullying, with the help of these well-meaning people, defused the tragedy.
After this video was exposed, it also caused a lot of public indignation among netizens, and some netizens commented below: "I just want to ask, in case I encounter such a violent temper, I will lose money?" It can be seen that such bullies are really hated to the bone.
Some netizens said: "Through the quality of children, we know how parents teach, and now many children's upbringing is really too poor!"
Some netizens began to worry about their children, saying bluntly: "I actually saw me crying, I am also a person with children, I am really afraid that my children will be bullied outside." ”
Campus bullying is really infinite, do not know that it has become a nightmare for many students, Zhou Shao after watching this video, is also very angry, really from the quality of the child to see a family's education, but also for such a family to feel sad. In the face of school bullying, as a bullied person, you must have the courage to resist, only in this way will you prevent yourself from being bullied.
As a netizen said himself: "I was bullied when I was in the first year of junior high school, and there was a boy who scolded me every day, and then I asked him if you were scolding?" He said it was you who scolded, I never moved my mouth, I did it, and then he didn't dare to bully me. "In fact, it is also true that if you do not resist in the face of bullying, you will only be bullied more and more."
This little girl is like this, through the performance of the little girl in the video, from the side can reflect that this should not be the first time to be bullied, but the situation of being bullied many times, otherwise these two bullies would not be so inching forward. Fortunately, it is more fortunate that on the road, I met many people with a sense of justice to resolve the occurrence of this tragedy, and these righteous people have praised it.
Therefore, as a parent, we must pay attention to the child's words and deeds in school, especially the school bullying, not only to urge the child not to do such a thing, when encountering the bully, but also to have the courage to resist and say "no" to the bully.
What do you think about this?
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