Cai Shaofen said to Zhang Jin every time before getting on the plane: "Now I'm going to get on the plane, if I have an accident, you must be good to my daughter." It's okay if you marry again, but you have to find someone who is good to them. ”
After the plane landed safely, Cai Shaofen excitedly called Zhang Jin: "Hahaha, I'm safe, you can't change your wife, your wife is still me." ”
It turns out that the two of them are particularly affectionate, and if anything happens in the future, the other person has to live well and take good care of the children anyway.
Many people feel strange when they see such a conjugal agreement.
Zhang Jin and Cai Shaofen feel that things are changeable. People should live in the moment, but they should also recognize reality.
On the variety show, the host Li Ai asked Zhang Jin: If one of the two of you leaves first in the future, who do you hope will go first?
Zhang Jin thought for a moment and said, "If you really have a choice, I hope she will go first, because the people who stay will be more sad."
Besides, she was a woman. I can't imagine how she would have lived and raised our three children without me.
So if there's really anything bad going on, I want to let me take on it all. ”
Ask Cai Shaofen the same question. She said: "I thought the first person to leave would be more miserable because he could not continue to be with the person he loved, but now I understand that the person who leaves is more painful because he has to face it all. ”
While flying the kite, Cai Shaofen looked at the kite that was being flown.
She said marriage is like flying a kite. You can't hold on tight to the rope all the time. If it is too tight, the kite will fall.
You need to loosen the rope at the right time to let the kite fly higher. As long as the rope is always in your hand, there's nothing to worry about.
When Xie Na asked, "If Zhang Jin is a kite, how high do you want him to fly?" ”
Cai Shaofen replied solemnly: "The higher he flies, the better, the higher he flies, the more proud I am of him!" ”
Hearing his wife say this, Zhang Jin seemed very proud.
Even now, after they have three children, they still praise and hug, and even express their love and kiss on the screen.
Seeing such a couple, maybe we will understand why their marriage will be so strong and beautiful after 17 years!