Author/Mingxin Storytelling
I wanted to quote the phrase "no filial piety has three, and no queen is greater" to describe Fu Jin's situation.
After checking, I found that there are two different views on this sentence:
One: "After" refers to descendants.
The meaning of this sentence is: there are many acts of filial piety, and no offspring is the most unfilial.
Second, "posthumous" refers to the responsibility of future generations.
The meaning of this sentence is that there are many acts of filial piety, and failure to fulfill the responsibilities of future generations is the most unfilial.
Since there is ambiguity, it is impossible to use this sentence, and I am very happy to learn a little new knowledge.
Returning to the truth, he began to talk about the situation of Fu Jin in "Plum Blossom Branding".
As Prince Shuo's Great Fu Jin, he was still pregnant, but Xueru couldn't be happy.
Because she married Wang Ye for ten years, she gave birth to three daughters in a row, and never gave birth to a son, which brought disappointment to Wang Ye again and again.
Now, she is pregnant with her fourth child, but Wang Ye can't wait to take a concubine, and the special room is dedicated to pet for three months, and she has never spent the night in The Fujin room.
The dancer was pregnant and was given the title of Side Fujin, threatening Fujin's position with the power of thunder, the favor of the special room.
If this fetus is a daughter, then Fu Jin will have a very difficult time in the rest of his life, not only will he completely lose the favor of Wang Ye, but he may also lose the status of Fu Jin. Once she didn't have any of this, her life would be over.
Therefore, this fetus must have a son.
But having children and daughters is not something that Fu Jin can control, so she is anxious, troubled, and overwhelmed.
It was still Grandma Qin who found Fu Jin's sister, Du Tong's wife Xueqing, and only then did she make up her mind - stealing the dragon and turning the wind.
At first, Fujin disagreed, she was reluctant to raise other people's flesh and bones, but her sister told her:
"If you don't do this, if you give birth to a son, and the mother is precious to your son, the prince will abolish you and help you straighten out!" Think clearly! Think about the taste of sitting in the cold palace and keeping a widow... Think about our second aunt, just because she did not have a son, how to spend her life tragically... Think clearly! Think clearly! ”
As a proper wife, she is still pregnant with a child, but she has not been accompanied and pitied by her husband for several months.
The signs of falling out of favor are so obvious that Fu Jin is afraid that if she does not have a son, she may face the risk of being abolished, face the situation of widowhood, and implicate the rise and fall of the entire family.
While Fujin hesitated, Wang Ye was busy singing with Fu Jin day and night, night and night, and had no time to take care of her.
In the end, Fujin agreed to "steal the dragon and turn the phoenix".
After giving birth to his fourth daughter, Fujin branded a plum blossom on his daughter's shoulder, and wanted to continue his mother-daughter relationship with his daughter in the future.
The sister originally promised to take Fujin's newborn daughter to her home to raise, but seeing that Fujin was difficult to give up on this daughter, afraid that she would cause trouble in the future, she cruelly threw the girl into the apricot blossom stream, life and death.
Fu Jin thought that his daughter was dead, and after crying bitterly, he stopped thinking about it and concentrated on raising the boy he had brought.
She never imagined that twenty years later, her biological daughter would not only reappear, but also fall in love with the boy she had adopted, triggering a series of tragic stories that followed.
Is it necessary for Fujin to steal the dragon and turn the phoenix?
Yes.
Because the prince liked the boy he had brought to him so much, the guests of the feast were full of praise.
Because Lateral Fu Jin Fei also gave birth to a son, The Prince of Lede opened his eyes and smiled.
Just imagine, if Fu Jin gave birth to a daughter, how would Wang Ye treat her? And how will the side fujin be rewarded?
Although Fu Jin stole the dragon and turned the phoenix to be sorry for his daughter, it was also a helpless move.
At that time, a married woman could only maintain her position by having a son, otherwise, there would be nothing, and even her own daughter would suffer.
It's just that poor Yin Frost has changed from a noble goddess of heaven to a poor woman who wanders around and makes a living by selling songs.
In the play, Fu Jin is particularly likable, dignified and noble, knowledgeable and reasonable, gentle and virtuous, kind and kind, so he has cultivated a good son like Haozhen who is both virtuous and literate.
In particular, Fu Jin's crying scene is moving.
A good actor brings the audience not only simple roles, but also emotional resonance, and I cried with her several times.
Although I know that she is the culprit of all suffering.
I hope that young actors can also hone their acting skills, bring us visual enjoyment at the same time, but also bring emotional investment.
For us modern people, it may not be possible to understand this situation of having a son.
We will think: isn't it that you can't give birth to a son, what's the big deal, the daughter is a small cotton jacket, the daughter is more intimate.
But for women in feudal society, not being able to give birth to a son is all a woman's sin.
No matter how noble your status is, no matter how gentle and considerate you are, as long as you don't have a son, you are guilty and you risk being abandoned and snubbed.
In fact, there is also a phenomenon of son preference in modern society.
It's like the eighties I was born into.
Many families around them have had several daughters in succession in order to have sons.
In order to have a son, some families give their own daughters to others to raise and continue to have children until they give birth to sons.
At that time, family planning was already very strict, but it still could not stop everyone's determination to have a son.
But as a result, so many children have been born, but they have not been well educated, and many problems have arisen.
For example, some families have left a psychological shadow because of their preference for sons and daughters, leaving a psychological shadow on their daughters; excessive arrogance and indulgence in their sons have led to their sons not becoming instruments and eating the old selfish.
Another example: some families in order to have sons, have too many children in the family, can not take care of, drop out of school at a young age to work, no academic qualifications, can only sell their labor, life is not satisfactory.
Today, times have changed and the presence or absence of sons has become less important.
Instead of having a son, reducing the quality of life, and ignoring the growth of the child, it is better to raise her daughter well, let her receive the best education, and become a filial piety and understanding person.
What do you think of the patriarchal phenomenon?