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As a woman, one of the most frequently asked topics is how to balance career and family. In the eyes of many people, women with children should balance the relationship between the two. When taking good care of children and handling family chores, you should also be able to show your skills in the workplace and make money to support your family.
So when there are women who can't go out to work because they take care of their children. Some people will say that other women can still go out to work and earn money by having a few children, but she just wants to be lazy at home.
When some women neglect to take care of their families because they are busy with work. Some people have stood up and said, as a woman's child mother, even the child can not manage well, what qualifications are there to be a mother! In short, as a child mother, a woman must grasp both family and career, and one party can't do it well, that is, incompetence and failure. Society is also everywhere selling anxiety to mothers.
So Chinese mothers are the most difficult. At the same time, such high standards and strict requirements have also filled many women with anxiety. How to balance family and career, like a sharp sword hanging over the head of an ordinary woman, makes people not breathe for a moment.
However, the female star Yuan Yongyi Xie Nan's remarks on this issue gave the majority of ordinary women a dose of good medicine and temporarily alleviated anxiety. How do you balance family and career? Yuan Yongyi's words from Xie Nan eased the anxiety of the mothers.
Yuan Yongyi: "I think it is difficult to balance, you can only choose you to do a good job during this time, during that time to take good care of the children, it is difficult to balance." ”
Xie Nan: "Not being able to balance is the norm in life." It's always a chicken feather, a mess. Really, don't believe it, it's all survivor bias, and recognizing that there is no ability to balance, there is room for balance. ”
The words of the two of them were too true. As female stars who are not bad at money and not bad people, their lives are much better than usual, they still feel that it is difficult to balance, and life is still a chicken feather. I am an ordinary person, I want money without money, I want time without time, how can I balance?
After reading the words of the two of them, I don't know how you feel, anyway, I have a lot of balance in my heart, and I think I can continue to balance and balance. At the same time, it also made my mother with a baby suddenly cheerful and less anxious.
I have experienced it all know that family and career are simply difficult to balance, either not enough time, or not enough energy. People's energy and time are limited, and if you want to fight for a career, it is difficult to put too much time and energy on children and families. If you want to spend a good time with your children and take care of your family, it is impossible to spend more time in your career and make great achievements in your career.
Both want to juggle unless someone helps. Otherwise, in the end, you will find that you have not done anything well, and you will end up complaining and complaining, and you will be physically and mentally exhausted.
Fish and bear paws cannot be combined. People's energy is limited, don't think about balance, life is originally a sacrifice to get. Balancing your mindset and learning to make trade-offs is the key. When the child is around, he will accompany the child well, and if the child is not around, he will work well. If there is one thing, do the same with your heart. Everyone is an ordinary person, and the requirements should not be so high.
【Topic Discussion: What do you think of the words of the two of them?】 】
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