Recently, a video on the Internet has attracted great attention from netizens. The content is that the high school girl is still making up for homework at one o'clock in the morning, and the father can't see it anymore and pushes open the door to persuade his daughter to rest early, not wanting to be such a sentence, so that the girl then hides her face and cries.
The students were still struggling at one o'clock in the morning
At one o'clock in the morning, a father in Jiangxi saw that his daughter's room was lit up and pushed open the door to find that her daughter was still studying.
His daughter is a first-year high school student and has to get up at six o'clock every morning. Because of too much homework, she didn't dare to sleep until she was done. After seeing this scene, my father was very distressed. Subsequently, he said a few words of concern for his daughter and advised her to rest early, but she did not expect her daughter to suddenly collapse and cover her face and cry.
After watching this video, netizens were full of emotions. Some people think that the child suddenly cries because her father's words touched her. Some people also think that the child is still studying at one o'clock in the morning is enough grievances and suffering, and the sudden love of the father at this time is easy to lose control of the emotions.
Many parents of parents said that in these years, it is not only office workers who have worked hard, but also students. People who work work only nine to five hours, and there are opportunities to sneak lazy during the period. But students are different, they not only bear mental pressure, have to study non-stop every day, and the physical burden is also very large. In particular, students who have gone to high school can only get good grades through their own examinations in order to get into a good university. The number of people taking the college entrance examination is increasing, but there are so many places in various colleges and universities, so the competition for high school students is quite fierce.
Not only are there pressures on students and parents, but also on the school side. In order to constantly motivate students to catch up, teachers will assign corresponding homework, but it is normal for students to stay up until midnight in each subject combined.
For this kind of education, not everyone agrees, if because of a large number of accumulated homework caused by children can not rest normally, the pressure is increasing, it will only be counterproductive. In recent years, there have been too many cases of students suffering from mental illness and even suicide due to high learning pressure, which has sounded the alarm bell for society, and all parties have begun to call for scientific education.
In fact, everyone's IQ is different, and the ability to comprehend is also different. Students' grades are not outstanding, they themselves are the most anxious, at this time parents, teachers should not be forced to oppress, what to do is to encourage and understand. Many parents look forward to Jackie Chan's heart, and when they see that their children have not achieved good results, they begin to count down their children, and even insult. Children at this age are in adolescence and can easily drill the horns. Maybe just a rebuke or a failed test score is enough to make them think about it.
Student suicides are frequent
For example, a female classmate of Hubei Junior High School suddenly went to the window and jumped out of the building to die on the spot when she was in English class, and the news came out, which aroused great concern in society.
At the time of the incident, the suicidal student suddenly got up and walked to the window in class, and the teacher did not react, she jumped directly. Suicide students usually have good grades and a well-behaved and quiet personality. Before the suicide, the teacher called her parents to talk individually, and the content was that the child's grades had declined, especially in English, by dozens. Therefore, parents suspect that the student's suicide is related to stress and hope that the school can give an explanation.
Learning is indeed a child's vocation, but it is not all, and the quality of grades cannot determine the future fate of a child. Poor grades do not necessarily lead to failure to grow up, so schools and parents should not consider students based on their grades. In addition, when children encounter stress, they must learn to relax and relieve themselves. Choosing an extreme way, while losing your precious life, the pain will be the whole family.