Ordinary people who are difficult in everything must not be perfectly destroyed step by step by the hope on the road of life

It is difficult to do physical stores, it is difficult to do online stores, it is even more difficult to do self-media, it is difficult to make money, and even a happy life seems to be difficult. The pressure of modern people has not decreased with the progress of the times, but has increased even more.

I don't know when to start, it is getting harder and harder to do a good job, so difficult that I don't want to do it.

Because once you start, you have to go through all kinds of pain and struggle. And if you don't do it perfectly, you will not only feel depressed, but you may also suffer a lot of white eyes and criticism.

There are also things that, from the current point of view, no matter how hard you try, you can't reach the height that you desire in your heart, and you can't even find the direction of your effort.

But if you don't start doing it, even the opportunity to do a good job is lost. Most of the people in this world are ordinary people like you and me, working hard every day for the broken silver two or three, and only a very few people with different talents.

In my experience, the most important thing in life is the process from beginning to end. As for the result, in fact, as long as one thing is insisted on being done, even if it will not get the achievements of the proud son of heaven, there will be a little gain.

Personally, physical stores do generally, online stores do generally, and self-media is quite general. There is no one thing that can be said to be well done, let alone achieve perfection, but at least you can support yourself, and there is a possibility that you can develop in the future.

You can't always write a micro headline, just thinking about how much this article is going to explode, how much revenue to bring, and how many fans to increase. If it's all that easy, then there are masters everywhere. But you can't become a master, and it's good to be an ordinary person who works hard.

The pursuit of perfection is a good thing, but perfection should not be used as an excuse for inaction.

Perfection can be divided into perfection in action and perfection in thought.

As an ordinary person, what you need more is to accomplish a thing through "perfect action", rather than thinking about how to do it perfectly.

The "perfect action" here is specifically like putting a new product on the online store every day for the next few months, writing a headline every day, or visiting an old customer in a physical store. When the deadline is up, the whole process of action is perfect, regardless of the outcome.

Don't be too deliberate in pursuit of how well a thing can be done, people should recognize themselves, no one is born to do things well, are in the completion of time and time again, accumulated experience, and a certain reflection, only slowly grow up.

Completion is more important than perfection.

Don't do it because you feel difficult, or have little hope, only by focusing on one thing after another can you gain and make progress.

Don't give up halfway, because when time and energy are invested, things are not completed will give people a great sense of frustration, and this frustration will exist in the next life and make people daunted.

Again, we are all ordinary people, it is good to be able to complete everything in succession, and it is not shameful to do it imperfectly. Accomplishing this thing must be a thousand times heavier than the weight of perfection on the road of life.

I am Lao Xu, hoping to bring you help and reflection, and share my thoughts and experiences with you every day.