Watch the Douban high-scoring movie "Weakness" to understand the meaning of marriage and life

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One of his favorite movies is "Weakness".

The film tells the story of a homeless African Boy Michael Oher, after being adopted by an American family, gradually feel the warmth of the family, the companionship of the family, find himself from inferiority, with the help of his family and teachers, from the scum of the school against the current, became an excellent independent football player at the University of Mississippi.

The movie poster for Weakness

01

On a cold, windy and rainy winter night, Michael Oher, a sturdy high school student, wore short-sleeved shorts, worn-out sneakers on his feet, and carried a plastic bag containing a changed half-sleeve, shivering on the road.

The heroine of this film drives a car, chats about the sky, laughs and makes noise, and looks happy and peaceful.

Just after the luxury car drove past Michael, the hostess noticed him, perhaps the thinly dressed Michael caught her attention.

"Parking", the hostess was looking at Michael inside the car.

The hostess wrapped up in her coat walked over to Michael and asked him where he was going?

Michael replied, "Gymnasium."

On a cold winter night, wearing short sleeves and going to the gym alone, simply because it's warmer than the coin-operated laundry room on the road.

The hostess looked at the man in the car, just a few meters apart, and the host understood what the hostess wanted to say and the action she wanted to do.

The hostess invited Michael home for the night, and although the family did not understand and although she herself felt risky, the hostess did so.

Seeing this, I am thinking, what is the meaning of a woman having a career and a happy family?

Not only does it have the ability to warm others, but when you want to do anything, you only need one look, and your family will understand, identify, and even support it with all your might... This may be the confidence and charm brought by a woman's successful career and family love.

From the moment the mistress brought Michael home that cold night and gave him a warm couch, their entanglement was predestined, perhaps earlier, from the moment the mistress looked at Michael in the car.

02

On the first night of Michael's stay, the hostess would also worry about whether the tall and strong black man would steal anything, but when the hostess woke up in the morning and saw the neatly folded mattresses on the sofa, she had a bolder idea.

She hurried out, stopped Michael, who wanted to leave, and offered to invite him to stay at home for Thanksgiving.

Here, a confident and warm heroine made me like it more.

On this relaxing holiday, the son, daughter, and husband sat lazily on the couch eating food and discussing some kind of sports, and Michael himself sat carefully at the table.

The hostess stood by, observing all this, and she suddenly got up and turned off the TV, invited the family to the dinner table, and prayed hand in hand with Michael. When his daughter put her hand to Michael, Michael froze, he should have felt the temperature of his family for the first time, and the first time someone else took the initiative to show him kindness.

When this family and Michael's hand are together, I feel the reason for the happiness of this family again, when you do a thing you want to do, you don't need to deliberately explain to your family, you don't need to worry about your family's complaints, maybe because each of them is a warm and kind individual, maybe because they already know each other, or maybe each of them wants to release this warmth in their hearts, but the hostess has made a start.

03

When the hostess decided to formally adopt Michael, she suffered a lot of obstruction, not from her family, but from relatives, friends, and society. She didn't back down when she learned that Michael's birth mother was a drug addict; she accompanied Michael back to the mishmashed neighborhood where she had lived before, and she silently replied to the insults of the street gangsters; she faced the doubts of her relatives and friends at the party, and she left angrily...

When she was preparing to adopt Michael, she did not forget to consider the feelings of her family, and after receiving the full support of her husband, daughter and son, she was even more determined to adopt Michael.

Adoption, not the mistress's own business, is a family consensus. When the whole family is working hard to adopt Michael, michael has been regarded as a family member, not only the heroine.

Seeing this, I was thinking that any happiness is a two-way street. In addition to the fact that the whole family of the heroine is warm and kind, two-way understanding is also very important. The fact that the family did not object to the adoption of Michael did not mean that the hostess could disregard the feelings of the family.

Of course, when Michael uses his life to protect his brother (little Sean), it also shows that he has regarded the hostess's family as family.

04

Family is not just blood relations; happiness is not just laughter.

When they become a family, helping their families become better selves is also a sign of love. What's more, the heroine's family has the ability to make others better.

Michael grew up because of the influence of street gangsters and drug-addicted birth mothers, became inferior and silent, and became a smile after being adopted by the hostess's family, but he was still a thorough scum in school.

In the family's relationship, the hostess discovers that Michael has a strong desire for protection and athletic talent, and in order to make Michael a better version of himself, the family begins to act.

In terms of learning, the school teachers help Michael to improve; in sports, the coach, the hostess, the hostess and the youngest son (Sean) go all out, everyone releases goodwill and strives to help Michael become a better self, and finally Michael becomes an excellent football player, which is competed by major schools, and finally chooses the alma mater of the hostess and the hostess - the University of Mississippi.

05

Michael is unfortunate because of his original family, because of his upbringing;

But he was lucky because he was surrounded by a group of kind and warm people who kept releasing the warmth of the world to Michael, and their kindness was unrequited and unconditional.

The hostess herself is what I think every woman should live.

The hostess's family is what I think every family should be.

The movie "Weakness" is a movie that heals people's hearts, it is a warm movie, if you have some doubts about marriage and life, then I suggest you take a look, you can choose a quiet afternoon, a person slowly appreciate.

May we all live the way we want to be.