Dong Qing has this passage in "Readers":
Everything in the world is encountered, just as cold meets warmth, with rain; spring meets winter, with years; heaven meets earth, with eternity, and when people meet people, there is life.
In this life, there are no ordinary and unprovoked encounters, and all encounters have their meaning.
Between people, there is no eternal companionship, there are always some people who will leave your world. The person who loves you will not hurt you, and the person who hurts you will no longer love you.
Life is actually a process of acceptance.
When kindness meets kindness, you will become more and more kind;
When enthusiasm meets coldness, you are cold to him sooner or later.
Enthusiasm is not ignited, hope is not extinguished in a day.
The most beautiful thing in life is to meet, because you don't know what kind of ending your future will be, and the heartbeat and joy in the moment make people want to go down with him.
It is easy to cherish for a while, but it is difficult to cherish for a lifetime.
The most expensive feeling is that he accompanies you on a journey and wants to accompany you on the whole journey!
Life, if you meet someone you want to accompany on a journey, please cherish it. Because if you don't know how to cherish, your feelings will be smoothed out by time sooner or later, and your true heart will fall because of thorns sooner or later.
Don't let the people who love you chill, don't dwell on people who don't love you.
We always have a feeling that what we don't get is the best.
Is this really the case?
Zhang Ailing said:
Maybe every man has had two women like that, at least two. Married to a red rose, over time, the red changed a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, the white is still the bright moonlight in front of the window; married to the white rose, the white is a rice stick on the clothes, but the red is a cinnabar mole on the heart.
For example, feelings, no matter which one you get, the most beautiful thing in your heart will always be the one you gave up before.
In fact, what we don't get is not the best, but we imagine him as the best.
Wise people know how to give up.
The one that cannot be obtained, completely forgotten, and the people around them will cherish it for the rest of their lives.
When both people know how to cherish, you will find that our lives will get better and better. The red rose in front of me is still a red rose. The white roses of the past, I can't remember who it is!
Learn to forget the past, live up to the present, happiness will be closer and closer to you!
Be thankful for all the warm encounters in life.
When he comes, he should cherish it and not ask about the ending.
All the people who appear in your life, not for no reason, will bring you something.
Good people have taught you to love and cherish; people who are calculating have taught you what it means to be defensive;
A strong person will push you forward; the person who hurts you will tell you what forgiveness is.
Life is the life of the five tastes of Chen Zhao, and the people we meet are also fat, thin, tall and short.
What they bring to you is not important, what matters is yourself, with what mentality you face.
If you are tolerant, your heart will not be covered with haze; if you are strong, people will not be frightened by thorns; if you cherish, your feelings will not be hurt by coldness.
Gratefully face the people who appear in life, they are the ones who make up your complete life, give you the experience of joy and sorrow, and give you a sour, sweet and bitter touch!
Encounter, will not be as you wish, but will always bring you something, some is happiness, some is growth.