What kind of love is enviable but not hateful?
What kind of husband is to make people want to get married in a down-to-earth manner, and seriously want to grow old with a white head.
According to me, it should be to understand you and let you, not to love you verbally, but to express love for you in all aspects.
Marriage is a siege is a reason that others have told you a long time ago, so why do people still tend to enter the siege?
Because some people are blind, some people are because they know that there is a castle in the siege city, they can enjoy the rest of life quietly, and any tribulation will be willing to share and be willing to bear.
But in marriage, the most are men like Wu Jing and Wei Wei.
Everyone must be very confused and say, Wu Jing is very good! He is very affectionate with Xie Nan and respects Xie Nan's career and so on.
In fact, Wu Jing is the image of his father very early, he rigidly guards the image of the man he thinks, wild, no makeup, no dance, is the meaning of a very man.
In a show, Xie Nan, who had prepared food, was in front of him, and he did not shout a word, and directly sat down and began to eat.
Xie Nan said with some complaint: "You call me, can't you eat together?" ”
Wu Jing responded with great anger, "I thought you would come over by yourself when you saw it." ”
Later, he thought that Xie Nan was more real, and even angrily threw a towel to vent his anger when he went to the bathroom.
In addition, the wedding of Wu Jing and Xie Nan was almost all prepared by Xie Nan alone, xie Nan said to Wu Jing, I did a good job of you to participate, when Wu Jing said that I felt very touched, you broke in outside, I helped you take care of everything at home.
However, the loneliness of a person preparing for a wedding should only be experienced by Xie Nan himself, obviously to participate in all the grooms, but in the end, like all the guests, he came to participate on the wedding day, and it was also very interesting to see this wedding that originally belonged to him.
Secondly, the two participated in the husband and wife's variety show, and when wu Jing often saw it in it, Xie Nan went to coax, Wu Jing lost his temper xie nan again, and several times the tantrum had reached the point of red face, and at that time, Lee Seung-hyun and Qi Wei saw that they were really frightened by the aura.
Some people also said to Wu Jing, what do you always do with your daughter-in-law.
However, Wu Jing seemed to have become accustomed to it, or he felt that he must be Xie Nan who finally coaxed himself to lose his temper, and there was a kind of self-confidence in his heart.
In the interview program, asked what is the attitude of Wu Jing to Xie Nan's career, he said that he supports girls to have their own careers, but the fact is that Xie Nan rarely appears after marriage, either giving birth to children or participating in variety shows with Wu Jing.
From the previous wireless host Xie Nan to the current Wu Jing's wife Xie Nan, all the changes are self-evident.
Secondly, you should have heard the phrase, "It's not that I don't want to cook, it's that I want her to feel like I need her, I leave her, I can't live!" Even Ni Ping shouted when she heard the classic quotations, and was shocked by the degree of her three views.
And this sentence comes from Wei Wei's mouth, in fact, as a host or as an actor Wei Wei has actually contributed some quite good works, but this show let me see that he is just a microcosm of thousands of families.
He stubbornly believes that his need for his wife is an encouragement to his wife, that the wife makes herself three meals a day, that she is giving her an opportunity to show, and that everything is his gift to her.
The two couples basically did not communicate this problem, after going on the show, when they learned that their wife was very dissatisfied with this, Wei Wei was shocked and puzzled.
Isn't that the norm in life? What you think and what he thinks will never be the same, but they don't communicate or explain, and wait for the problem to ferment is either divorce or makeshifty.
Later, Wei Wei often drank heavily, holding those wines in his arms without looking at the amount, and therefore questioned Tong Chenjie whether he did not have children because of his alcoholism.
I was really angry at the time, if you knew it yourself, you couldn't restrain yourself?
How can I blame your wife, and it is not your wife who is drunk!
Later, in a place, it was said that drinking the water of that place could give birth, and the embarrassing thing happened, when he went to drink water, God thundered, and when he drank water for the second time, God thundered again.
It's really god that you don't want to be a father, it's not good for children.
And in marriage, the one who really makes people feel down-to-earth is the person who respects your choices, and the other is the person who tolerates you.
Ying Cai'er and Chen Xiaochun can be said to be the most weakened pair, Chen Xiaochun's bad temper, and Ying Cai'er's personality feel incompatible.
However, after getting to know these two people, I found that they may be the last guardian of each other.
Ying Cai'er always understands Chen Xiaochun's back, knows that he is a kind person, and even believes that many things in the world are good people, will take the initiative to attack when the reporter is embarrassed by Chen Xiaochun, and will solve his difficulties when Chen Xiaochun is misunderstood again and again.
And Chen Xiaochun remembered that every time Ying Caier was good to him, he went out to shoot others to play with beautiful women, he played with dogs, mobile phone positioning, financial power was handed over, and even his work was fully handed over to his wife.
The most profound one I remember was when they looked at the picture of Chen Xiaochun's marriage proposal before, and Ying Cai'er jokingly said that the divorce was good.
At that time, Chen Xiaochun's eyes suddenly became serious, he would not divorce, he would not be killed, he said so firmly.
To this day, Chen Xiaochun, who sees his wife, still has a smile on his face, and still thanks her, although there is no ultimate sense of ceremony, but he will also jokingly say during the festival, "I gave me to you, a lifetime." ”
The continuation of marriage definitely begins with a person understanding a person and a person respecting a person.
The other person who did this was Lee Seung-hyun, who became popular this time.
When he came to the mainland, he did not get huge popularity, but his wife Qi Wei.
After getting pregnant and giving birth to a daughter, what we see is that Qi Wei easily goes out to work and Lee Seung-hyun takes the child steadily, why Lee Seung-hyun will suddenly catch fire, why their marriage will be envied by so many people.
Because there is a person in the family who is willing to step back and is willing to think about his lover, and the other who also understands his lover, respects all the labor of the lover, and will not say that this home is what I am raising, and what is the relationship with you.
Presumably, many housewives should have a deep understanding of this sentence, staying at home, your husband will not necessarily feel that you are also hard like Qi Wei, and you are also tired of taking care of children.
The backhand is the sentence, "What are you doing at home?" Isn't it just about taking care of a child? Am I tired at work? ”
And it's, "Aren't I raising you?" If you are not happy, you will find a job yourself! ”
And so on, and in Chinese marriage, few people will really be like Lee Seung-hyun, choosing to support their wife's career and give up their own time to take good care of their children.
After all, the situation has now become that if the father takes the child out of the door once, he will be praised by the father, and the mother who forgets to feed the child once will be told that she can't do it.
Fathers and mothers are all first-time parents, why everyone's eyes have always been so one-sided, and it is too difficult to meet a partner who understands you in marriage, who will humble and make sacrifices and understands each other's sacrifices.
Therefore, Wu Jingwei can be seen everywhere, but it is difficult to meet Chen Xiaochun and Lee Seung-hyun.