Lead
When Aunt Zhao was 50 years old, she joined the tour group that her daughter reported to her and met her current boyfriend, Uncle Li. Uncle Li's interesting and down-to-earth temperament suddenly attracted the attention of Aunt Zhao, and the advantages of Aunt Zhao's gentle and gentle speech also made Uncle Li fall for it. It happens that the two people's hometown is in the same place, so you have been going back and forth for 1 year, and the two are in love. The two lived together after 3 years of love, and after living together for 4 years, Aunt Zhao proposed to marry Uncle Li with a license, but Uncle Li and Aunt Zhao proposed to break up, why is this?
Aunt Zhao had something to say
I divorced my husband when my daughter was 2 years old, my daughter was brought up by me, and now my daughter has a family, married in a foreign country, I am not satisfied with the soil and water there and do not want to live with young people, so I live alone in the old house allocated by the unit. I'm 58 years old, and old Lee is 69 years old. He used to do business in other places, a very rich old man, and now the business is handed over to his children to take care of, and he returns to his hometown to retire.
After the two of us lived together, I was responsible for buying vegetables and cooking to take care of his daily life, and he was responsible for paying for it. We both went to the park every day to walk around, he didn't like square dancing, he thought it was too noisy, I gave up square dancing to accompany him to play tai chi. He talks very interestingly, always can make me laugh, causing me to grow a few more crow's feet; he is also a very real person, the money for buying vegetables is given by day, generally 30 or 40 a day, he wants to eat better when he gives 50, 100, sometimes the price of vegetables rises, I will be said to buy over. When it comes to money, he will argue with me, and every time I feel very wronged, because if I look for a babysitter, he will not only have to pay for the vegetables but also pay thousands of dollars per month, and I will take care of him with all my heart but he is not as good as a nanny. So I proposed to get a license to marry, and he said to go back and discuss with his children before deciding, and I agreed. Then he went to his son's house and didn't give me any information for more than a week. Today I suddenly received a strange phone call, as soon as I received it, I was scolded by the opposite side of the split head and covered my face, saying that I wanted to find a free meal ticket and find an old teenage greedy inheritance, and after I hung up, I received a text message from Old Li saying to break up. I wondered: Is there love in twilight love?
epilogue
When the single elderly find a place to return to their feelings, it is not only Aunt Zhao who encounters many difficulties, some old people look forward to "marriage" and sigh, and some old people "accompany but do not marry". How to get out of these dilemmas? Xiaobian has a few suggestions:
1. Three prenuptial agreements: sign a prenuptial personal property agreement, a family property distribution agreement, and a gift agreement
2. Three attentions after marriage: first, note that the joint property of the husband and wife must go through the statutory confirmation procedure, second, pay attention to the property donated to the children to have a donation agreement, and third, pay attention to the disposal of major property to communicate well with the children
3. As a child, filial piety to the elderly, do not "nibble on the old": true filial piety is based on the feelings of the elderly and the feelings of both parties to the wishes of the elderly; the handling of property should respect the wishes of the elderly.