Original / Xiaofei
There is no good or bad fate
Over the years, many friends have always shared some praise words when interacting with me, "full of positive energy".
On the one hand, I really don't dare to admit this sentence, but it may be compared to this state more often. On the other hand, where is there so much positive energy?
A lot of times, in fact, what is shared is more of an attitude, a mood, a feeling. And the part that is really about the heart cannot be measured by positive, negative, good and bad.
Because it is an individual, there will be emotions, and when there are emotions, there will be sorrows, joys, sorrows, and sorrows. It's just that in the face of these feelings, you can choose which way to express and transmit this emotion.
There is no need to cling to the ups and downs
All the time positive energy is high, passionate, full of confidence... After a long time, no one can stop it! And it is precisely the negative energy state that sometimes allows oneself to enter into silence, into silence, into meditation, into contemplation and self-examination.
Therefore, all emotional states are nothing more than an experience of life.
For example, if you eat chicken, duck and fish every day, the delicacies that others serve you have lost their interest and willingness to look forward to tasting;
You can make hundreds of thousands of dollars a day, and the amount of money will lose its appeal to you in relatively ordinary probability. And if it is some hungry deserters, there must be more excitement and joy than expected for those delicacies;
Those who earn hundreds of dollars a month are more real about the exciting and joyful experience of earning tens of thousands of yuan a month! So you say, is it bad to live a good life every day? Is it bad to have the ability to make money? Isn't it nice to have a big meal and cheer up? This month there is a chance to create some different experiences is not good...
Fate gathers and scatters, and there are different holes in life
All good, all bad! If you can eat, you can enjoy it, you can earn it, you can't eat it, you can't let it have regrets, and if you can't earn it, you won't want to let it be unwilling. All right! Happy is happy, lost is lost, sentimental is sentimental, happy is joyful, unhappy is unhappy... Everything works.
There is no good or bad, no high or low, no positive or negative, no right or wrong, just experiencing in the present moment. You say good is good, you say bad is not good, you can do anything! Life is the choice of every moment, experience it!
Don't sigh when you lose, don't dare to enjoy when you have it, don't be depressed when you don't have the ability, don't panic when you are determined to get it.
There are causes for gains and losses, so why bother to explore? When you can't ask for it, you can't help it. Everything is a cause, not a favorable condition, or an increase in the upper edge, a lesson from the fate, and everything helps the cause.
To perceive the broken edge, only to see what you think it is;
With dialectical understanding, I saw that there was no hole in the sky.
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