If love ends up never seeing each other, will you still choose to fall in love with that person at the wrong time?
Many people will always remember the love of a certain time, and some people will hate that person, because he let go of your hand, and you will say that if you did not meet him at that time, you may be happier and happier now!
There is never right or wrong in feelings; there is never a standard for love. I watched the movie "Man and Woman" 3 times, the first time, when Quan DuYan cried, I also cried a lot, thinking in my heart, men are really creatures that don't deserve to get love; the second time, the man played by Kong You, he also loves, but the creatures like men and women are always very different in brain structure and way of thinking, and the way of education from childhood is also different, so he loves and then he can only choose to continue to live, although there is no love, this may be the biggest sorrow of men. The third time, perhaps, people have been pursuing the person who understands himself without talking all his life, but the girl's pursuit of love is carried out throughout her life, and men, only in some moments, will have emotional moments that break out of the shell, and the movie name "Man and Woman" is really just right.
Accidental derailment
The story of "Man and Woman" tells that Shang Min (Quan DuYan) accompanies his son to an event organized by the International School, and goes to the North Campus with Keehong (Kong Liu), due to the paralysis of traffic caused by the blizzard, the two are even more disoriented on the road, snuggling up to each other in the sauna in Finland, perhaps each other's lives are a little heavy, or maybe they meet a person who understands in other places, they have a passion, that passion may be the occasional appearance of desire, or a rebellion against the heavy life. The son in the Quandu Yan play is a special child who needs to be taken care of by others, and the mother she plays, the cigarette that appears on the scene, really draws out a sense of blandness and heaviness of life. The life of the male protagonist, perhaps, as he himself said: people live a similar life.
Adults treat feelings as a game, or a derailment as a game, maybe some things have nothing to do with love, of course, no longer contact, do not know the name is the best way to deal with. When the male protagonist Kong You asked the name of the female protagonist, the female protagonist's expression was obviously to regard this derailment as a thing that was forgotten with the journey, and no one had to change their lives for whom, let alone hurt the people who loved themselves and loved in real life.
Perhaps, life has no ifs and chances, and behind the accidents is the tedium of a consistent life and the pursuit of existence and happiness and ease
You are my joy
An interesting question, what temptations cannot be rejected? Perhaps we all need to understand the reality that we have never understood ourselves, so we will not realize what we are missing, and the only thing we cannot refuse is what we have been and are missing.
When in a city of millions of people, people living together can be strangers, and people thousands of miles away can also be lovers. The male protagonist came to the place where the female protagonist worked, he looked up at the female protagonist with a pair of sincere eyes, perhaps, the story really began from this moment, he did not know whether he was happy or unhappy, only knew that he wanted to see the female protagonist, so he came.
Women always know whether they are happy or unhappy, they are emotional, direct, unhappy to find happiness, and men, happy such too emotional emotions in the subtle, although the body's brain will perceive, but in the men's common vocabulary is not often appeared in the word. The male protagonist sees the female protagonist and is with the female protagonist, his mood is relaxed and can be freely discussed, that is because in his own family, there is no space that can make him relax, perhaps where the family can give him a little happiness, he will not look for the female protagonist.
Men and women in love
What does a man in love look like? The corners of the mouth are always cocked, relaxed, happy and simple like a child. Everyone has to bear the exhaustion, and if love can alleviate this exhaustion, perhaps love becomes the antidote to life, although it bears the scorn of the world, and it is doomed to end from the beginning. Perhaps, the man himself does not realize that the beginning of his love is just to solve the exhaustion of the reality he wants to escape, he is only temporarily irrational and secretly gains some happiness.
And the woman in love, such as the lyrics in the song: others never agree, and reason is not tolerated, still fully engaged in injury do not feel pain, such as chasing a dream, who is how radical, not as brave as I am for you. Along the way the red light is red, no one can stand in my way, looking at the thousands of horses and thousands of troops are rushing straight, I have no gentleness but this bit of heroism. The heroine left her job for him, rushed to date him, waited for his information, went to the place where he worked to find him, the woman in the relationship is destined to be different from the man, it is the feeling-led, intuition leads forward.
Life cannot bear the lightness
Love, will you let go of everything you have and carry for it?
The heroine played by Quan Duyan did not hesitate to run to the male protagonist, and just as the male protagonist in the movie asked the words of his friend, he himself described the most appropriate and realistic ending for his own problem, the distance between the door, he was in great pain, but did not push open the door, even if we do not want to go back This sentence is the words he said to the heroine, but it is destined that reason will overcome sensibility, responsibility will overwhelm impulsive feelings, he chose to accompany his children and neurotic wife. At the beginning of the movie, he says that "all people live a similar life", that sentence is a portrayal of his life and life, brilliant and destined to be short, eternal only those moments.
In the first time, I can only lament the rationality, selfishness and cowardice of men, it is really exposed, when I look at it again, I see that line, let me seem to have some understanding of the role played by Kong You's male protagonist, he was born as a person, on the road of life, family education and social education may have the impact on him is those successful careers and harmonious families, and no one has ever told us how to treat love, how best to exist in family and work, and to what extent can self-awareness exist, The male protagonist's line reminds me of Osamu Dazai's "Human Disqualification" "I am ashamed to be born as a human being", but it is destined that for the male protagonist, such a feeling is fleeting, just as his friend said to the female protagonist, this is one of the few times when she feels that the male protagonist is not in the right state.
Perhaps, it is really human beings who think, God laughs, and men who are running for work and family to think about existing problems are like torturing fate, destined to write their own answers, and others are destined to be bystanders. For a moment, the author's mind flashed that I didn't know whether he was lucky to have such a moment or whether he had never had such a thought and was happy.
The relationship ends
Time is from the non-existent future to the ephemeral present, and then to the past that has ceased to exist. --- The End of Love, Graham Green
What does it look like to be alive without love? Unimaginable? No, I believe the author, today we are all living very well, even without love. Just like the male protagonist, without the female protagonist who makes him want to listen to the voice, without the female protagonist who makes him like a child, he is still alive, happy or not, it is never a question of our thinking in real life. The heroine played by Quan Duyan, at the end of the movie, she saw the male protagonist who accompanied her family, she was alone in a foreign country, listening to the fairy tales of her son on the phone, she cried unscrupulously and painfully, perhaps, this is the true way love is for women, after the sweetness is such sadness. If you go back to the beginning, would you choose to turn a blind eye to the man standing in the doorway?
Life, perhaps, is the alternation of blandness and excitement.